In the beginning, Mu was reduced to the roles of people in the stereotyped life, namely husband and father. When I opened my eyes to see his wife and heard his son's cry, he felt strongly that life was meaningless, and blamed him for being a person without a "secret" in real life. When I saw the "secret", I didn't know much. Does this secret refer to privacy? Or does it mean to cover up? I seemed to have found the answer in the later situation. First analyze Mu first.
In fact, Mu has been entangled in two things since then, Love and Sex from instinct. El saw Mu's desire for instinctive sex, and she also wanted to try something with Mu. For example, go to sex club, 3p (add a third gender or a blonde girl)
1. Two people go to sex club to explore on the advice of the police. When El is led away by a girl, Mu also walks to another room, one women and three Men, under the gaze of the men, Mu performs sex behaviors. This is a very classic scene. It implies that Mu is a man in the patriarchal culture. Through this behavior, he gains the respect of men of the same sex. This is also related to how Mu views El's desire.
2. Later, when El suggested 3P with a third-sex person (shemale), from Mu's interest in seeing shemale breasts and resistance to the same sex organs, we can also know that the patriarchal culture in Mu's bones is because of him. It is to reject the same sex, because he will feel that he is not a subject and may become an object. This situation can be compared with another different 3P combination, which is Mu&El&blond hair girl, in which Mu releases the desire of sex from instinct while having fun. One of the strange things here is that Mu can accept that El is talking to girl in sex, but not men. In the movie, Mu beats El’s ex-boyfriend by drunk, and he also minds that El can be watched in the sex club for a man. out. That is to say, Mu requires el’s love and sex to be locked on Mu. In addition, men can’t do it. Why do girls or women do? Because in the patriarchal culture, women do not have the status of being regarded as equal, that is, it is not important. Contrast this with this. In the bar, Mu pretended to be drunk with a girl named "Talking Dreams", dropped El on the spot, and performed SEX in the bar toilet. Mu asked the girl "Will you keep the secret?", from here Seeing the secret is more concealed, this bar scene can see that Mu's request from instinctive sex is so depressed that it is in front of his girlfriend.
3. What is Mu's "love"? Mu once said "I love you for the rest of my life" to his ex-girlfriend Lucy, and he also said to EL like "I love u, or want to share a child", so he would discuss "future" together. Success is Mu’s expectation or promise of love every time. However, I think Mu is more dependent on love. Love may be the pillar of Mu’s life. For example, in two quarrels, el is like a mother hugging her son. It means holding a wound. Mu's, then Mu is strongly lacking "love", so he pursues so, emphasizing love. If love is important to Mu, another sex impulse from instinct is constantly hitting LOVE. There are two strong oppositions in Mu tearing Mu, love and SEX impulse from instinct tearing Mu, Finally, because of an unexpected pregnancy, Mu was forced to stay away from Love.
4. Why is Mu desperate in daily life? In addition to his own weakness, deceitfulness, and greed, the most important thing is that he doesn't seem to have himself. He is more like a child, a child that LUCY and El spoiled in his arms, husband and father, and more emphasis on responsibility. This is more like the Beat generation.
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