How can i love you my family

Aron 2021-12-25 08:01:17

Kym’s relationship with her family has been in a tense state, not because she took drugs, or even because she accidentally killed her little brother, but because she didn’t know how to express her love or how to accept from her family. Love. She is autistic, always rejecting others thousands of miles away, but at the same time sensitive and low self-esteem. This contradiction separates her from her family and hurts each other with love. Sister Rach’s wedding was very lively. As the film progressed to a climax, people became more and more excited, but it also became more and more that Kym was standing alone and alone. Andy Lau sang: The most silent when there are many people, the smile is also lonely. She is the one who sings. Before her mother left, there was no chance to say "I'm sorry" to her. This is also a portrayal of her relationship with her family. Andy Lau sang again: in the world, find someone to love me. Kym almost found it. The best man understands her and is willing to accompany her. Maybe he can be her sunshine. At the end of the film, Kym enters the rehabilitation facility again, leaving a bright tail. Maybe when she returns home, the relationship with her family can be refreshed.

The film feels very real. This sense of realism comes from the photographic techniques similar to documentaries and the unpretentious performances of the actors. Anne Hathaway was nominated for an Oscar for her outstanding performance in the film. In the end, she didn't win, because her opponent was too strong, and because she was still young, the nomination was already a great affirmation, at least in the eyes of the jury.

The rach wedding shown in the film is very lively and warm. It is really a happy gathering of relatives and friends, not as noisy and chaotic as a domestic wedding. Such a wedding is desirable.

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Extended Reading
  • Garett 2021-12-25 08:01:17

    No one can take care of your emotions

  • Emmanuelle 2021-12-25 08:01:17

    Truthful, objective, without commenting on whether the characters are right or wrong, making it very much like a documentary

Rachel Getting Married quotes

  • [Kym speaks at a twelve-step meeting]

    Kym: When I was sixteen, I was babysitting my little brother. And I was, um... I had taken all these Percocet. And I was unbelievably high and I... we had driven over to the park on Lakeshore. And he was in his red socks just running around in these piles of leaves. And, um, he would bury me and I would bury him in the leaves. And he was pretending that he was a train. And so he was charging through the leaves, making tracks, and I was the caboose, and I was, um... so he kept saying, coal, caboose! Coal, caboose! And, um, we were... it was time to go and I was driving home... and... I lost control of the car. And drove off the bridge. And the car went into the lake. And I couldn't get him out of his car seat. And he drowned. And I struggle with God so much, because I can't forgive myself. And I don't really want to right now. I can live with it, but I can't forgive myself. And sometimes I don't want to believe in a God that could forgive me. But I do want to be sober. I'm alive and I'm present and there's nothing controlling me. If I hurt someone, I hurt someone. I can apologize, and they can forgive me... or not. But I can change. And I just wanted to share that and say congratulations that God makes you look up, I'm so happy for you, but if he doesn't, come here. That's all. Thank you.

  • Rachel: Kym, you took Ethan for granted. Okay? You were high for his life. You were not present. Okay? You were high.

    Kym: [Whispering] Yes.

    Rachel: And you drove him off a bridge... and now he's dead.

    Paul: [Tearfully] Rachel, it was an accident.

    Kym: Yes, I was. Yes, I was stoned out of my mind. Who do I have to be now? I mean, I could be Mother Teresa and it wouldn't make a difference, what I did. Did I sacrifice every bit of... love I'm allowed for this life because I killed our little brother?