Maybe every parent should hold a certificate to work

Leone 2021-12-07 08:01:06

The reason why there is such a serious topic is because of a movie I watched recently.

"SPLIT" is translated into "Split" in Chinese, and it is adapted from a real American case. The book "24 Billy" based on this case is believed to be familiar to everyone.

I heard that Leonardo has always wanted to make movies with similar themes, and even the title of the movie has been chosen, called "The Crowded Room", but it has been almost 20 years since I said this, but the movie has never been there, cheating. . . . .

"Split". . . It is about a person with 23+1 multiple personalities. These personalities are all because the male protagonist was severely abused when he was a child. After the spirit and will were torn to pieces, in order to protect the body, the brain was split again. These personalities have their own distinctive characteristics, different ages and even different genders. They were squeezed into a room with a chair in the middle and a lamp on top. Whoever sits on the chair can dominate the body.

To this day, I still feel that the human brain and the universe are two profound and infinite awe that can never be reached.

But watching this movie, I don’t want to discuss violence too much, I just want to ask two simple questions, who turned the cowardly Kevin into a monster? Who caused Kevin to split so many different personalities?

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In the United States, it takes 3-6 months to see a dentist, and it only takes 15 minutes to buy a gun.

It takes at least 8-15 years to become a qualified doctor, but becoming a parent only requires one or a few uninsured sex.

An out-of-control gun brings more pain to society than a toothache, and the mental harm of an unqualified parent to their children may exhaust the life-long knowledge of a psychologist but is still helpless.

Why the more dangerous things are, the more lack of supervision?

Please don’t tell me the so-called human rights and freedom, the proliferation of weapons and the crime rate of mental illness is higher than a year. In the FBI file, psychoanalyst Robert once conducted a survey targeting 56 perverted killers. It turns out that they all have one thing in common, that is, they both had an unfortunate childhood.

And I believe that just around you, there are probably some friends who have left extremely bad memories in childhood due to the negligence of their parents and the evil of adults, and few people are willing to share this past with others and become even heavier. Burden.

I have three girlfriends who have encountered potential threats from adults when they were young. Fortunately, they all passed by with destruction.

My best friend, let’s call her Xiaoqi. Her father was a soldier and her mother was a teacher. When she was a child, she lived in a compound with a group of people. Her father had difficulty returning home once a year. Her mother was very busy at work, so she went home by herself with the key. Do your homework by yourself, play by yourself, and usually play well with another girl, so that girl will call her Xiaojiu. Xiao Jiu is in the same situation as Xiao Qi, and his parents don't care much about it.

There is an uncle in their yard who is disabled. He usually likes to give children candy and is very popular among children. Once, Xiao Jiu told Xiao Qi that the uncle was sending candy at home and invited Xiao Qi to come with him and went to his uncle’s house. Seven found that the curtains in the house were all drawn up, looking gloomy. Xiao Jiu was called into the room and didn't come out for a long time. Xiao Qi waited bored and a little scared, so she chose to leave. Later, Xiao Qi moved home and gradually forgot about it. Later, she married and had children for many years, until one day she learned from her mother that Xiao Jiu grew up and became more lonely and unwilling to contact people or fall in love. , Rejecting the man, shutting himself up at home all day, so thinking about it carefully, the more and more I feel that the sugary uncle is wrong.

In the end Xiao Jiu committed suicide. It is clearly stated in the suicide note that the disabled person had molested her more than once in the name of giving sugar. The suicide note is full of if: "If I didn't go that day... if I was not so greedy. Eat...If he didn't call me first..."

Only then did Xiao Qi realize that she was so close to Bad Luck and never knew that Xiao Jiu could not get help from living in such an abyss.

We don't need to talk about whether the disabled person should pay for it. Sadly, Xiao Jiu will never come back.

The heroine in the split was molested by her own uncle since she was a child. The wounds of the body can be seen at a glance, but what about the wounds of the soul?

Can you feel the same when she leaned on the wall and cried heartily?

I thought of the movie "Mystic River" again, and David said: "If I didn't get in that car..."

But there is no life if it is not! Xiao Jiu protested this experience at the cost of his life, and David also died of pain in the hands of his brothers at the cost of his life.

If life is born only to end in pain and helplessness, then perhaps it should not be allowed to begin.

My girlfriend called her Xiaoliu. She also put her in her aunt's house because her parents had no time to take care of her. She told me that she had been kissed by her uncle, and she felt sick when she thought of it. That year, Xiaoliu Only 8 years old.

She didn't dare to tell her parents about this. She didn't want to make her aunt suffer, so she kept pressing on her heart deeply. This emotion even affected her friendship and marriage, until her uncle died of cancer. Feeling able to take a breath.

My best friend calls her Xiaowu. She said that her cousin has liked her since she was a child, and she also liked her cousin a lot, and stayed with him all the time, but her cousin liked to touch her private parts secretly. She was young. Do not understand, just feel awkward.

One year, Xiao Wu remembered clearly. Her grandfather passed away. Her mother was busy and had to watch the night. She was too sleepy and fell asleep in her mother's arms. When she woke up, she found that she was somehow Her cousin took it back to the room and put it on the bed, and her cousin took off with only a pair of pants left. He wanted to sleep with her on the same bed. Xiao Wu thought about it and felt bad, so he quickly found a chance to get out of bed. He slipped down, ran to her mother, holding her mother's neck, why didn't he let go.

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I don't want to know what the consequences will be if Xiao Wu does not insist on leaving.

I just want to know whether their parents knew that their children walked on the edge of a cliff.

My girlfriends are unfortunate, but also fortunate. At least this kind of experience did not destroy their world, but these mouse-poop-like experiences will not be as spiritually happy as traveling.

When children are young, they have no ability to protect themselves. It is the responsibility of parents to protect children. What parents can do is to turn all "ifs" into solid guards. The situation should be like this: "You won't go, you won't suffer such things, you won't endure where your parents don't know. The pain to endure!"

This is the responsibility of parents, and it should be the responsibility of every citizen, because everyone has had a moment of childhood helplessness.

Therefore, being a parent is a very big responsibility. The skills and qualities that a parent has to learn should be similar to being a special soldier. It is even more persistent and vigilant than rescuing hostages, and has far-reaching significance for the healthy development of human beings. .

If you think about it carefully, you need to pass constant assessments and ability tests for any position at work, but you never need to be a parent.

A child is a gift from God, the most beautiful existence in the world, and the hope of all. It is supposed to be the most difficult to have. A treasure that can only be obtained through the most arduous journey.

But what is the reality? Many children are left on the roadside at will. Many children do not get the proper growth environment. They are hurt by some scum. What's more, because the children are weak and unable to protect themselves, they suffer the most direct harm from their parents.

Close the door, what kind of life the children are enduring, what kind of harm they are enduring, it is unknown, and you will never experience it, because you are not them, and you will not know what such harm will bring to their lives. Destruction.

But what you can understand is that sometimes the damage is so great that the brain is forced to split into 23 personalities just to protect itself.

This vicious circle is terrible, but no one has stopped it, creating so many families with hidden psychological problems and so many children in pain and despair.

Some children protested with death, but some chose to become parents, passing the hurt they suffered to their children.

And some children have become perverted murderers, bringing serious disasters to countless families.

Becoming a parent should be the most important thing to be assessed in the world. I am willing to be optimistic that the assessment of parental qualifications will significantly reduce the crime rate and will also play a very positive role in population control, because there may be many People are not qualified to be parents in their entire lives.

Therefore, I strongly recommend that all people who want to become parents must pass a certain level of assessment. This assessment should include an assessment of mental level and material conditions, as well as strict induction training, including psychology education and strengthening the awareness of protecting their children.

Although I know that making such a suggestion will make people think that I am crazy or idiotic. And I also know that even I myself would not be a qualified mother, maybe I would not pass the exams and bump into the wall time and time again.

But in order to become a qualified mother, I may continue to learn, continue to comprehend, and constantly improve myself, and finally get a qualification to become a mother. Only then will I understand how big a responsibility it is to have a child And what a great happiness.

I know I'm whimsical, but maybe not.

When you see my ideas, you may agree or not, but I hope you can understand after reading my article that being a qualified father and mother is not as easy as buying a mobile phone.

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Extended Reading
  • Kianna 2022-03-25 09:01:05

    Samsung has given Yimei's hard work, what a ghost script! It's hard to see speechless!

  • Ron 2022-03-24 09:01:10

    1. This movie is too brain-burning, and the protagonist's hair is burnt out. 2. In order to prove that he is not only smart, but also extremely smart, the protagonist shaved his head. 3. Unexpectedly, Professor X finally healed his legs, but after all he could not escape the fate of baldness. 4. The young Professor X was bald and hemiplegia. After he got old, he suffered from Alzheimer's disease in "Wolverine 3". He suffered a split personality in "Split". His son was sent to a mental hospital in "The Crowd".

Split quotes

  • Hedwig: My name's Hedwig. I have red socks. He's on the move.

    Casey Cooke: What?

    Hedwig: He... on... the... mooove.

    Casey Cooke: Who?

    Hedwig: Someone's coming for you, and you're not gonna like it. You guys make noises in your sleep.

    Casey Cooke: Tell us.

    Hedwig: I'm not supposed to say; but, he's done awful things to people and he'll do awful things to you. I have blue socks, too.

    Marcia: We're his food?

    [Hedwig shrugs]

    Casey Cooke: How old are you?

    Hedwig: Nine.

    Casey Cooke: So you're not the guy that took us?

    Hedwig: [scoffs] No.

    Casey Cooke: You're... not the lady?

    Hedwig: What are you, blind?

    Casey Cooke: You don't know how they think?

    Hedwig: N-no, they don't... they don't tell me much. I just ate a hot dog.

  • [From the trailer]

    Patricia: Don't worry; he's not allowed to touch you. He knows what you're here for. He listens to me.