Filial piety is a noun that is assigned by bystanders. This kind of filial piety, I don't know if it's true or not, it's just for others to see, to leave a good reputation for myself, and not to be someone who is criticized by thousands of people. This reminds me of my grandfather. My grandpa was a very bad-tempered person. He hurt all of us. No one in the family liked him. When I was only 60 years old, I got dementia. At that time, I asked my grandma, why did you not send him to the nursing home and take good care of her because your grandfather beats you often. Grandma said: "Take good care of him in recent years, and also have a conscience, and others will not talk about it." Sensible, this word seems to be always spoken to children. "Tianbai is still young and ignorant. It will be fine when he grows up." As long as a person is not blind, he can perceive the unevenness and things in the world regardless of age. Just like what my 11-year-old sister whispered to me: "You all think I don't know anything, but I know everything." After she said this, I was very surprised, as if she was not a Only 11 year olds. The word ignorant is actually just words to comfort oneself or others, and let oneself indulge in the lies of oneself or others. Children don't know how to be filial to their parents. Maybe their parents didn't lead by example, but they can use the words "not sensible" as an excuse to prevaricate. It is the saddest thing to deceive yourself, but deceiving yourself is also the quickest way to regulate your emotions.
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