Regret

Ron 2022-04-21 09:03:35

The first time I saw it, the second time I watched it, and then I watched it many times. Every time, I will think hard: what is the real reason why Jane is not married, and each time, the conclusion will be a little different. She is not married to Mr. Harris, who owns the manor at the beginning of the film, understandable; not married to Tom Lefroy, understandable, but what about Mr. Bridges?
I still remember that early in the morning, Jane saw the fat Mr.Bridges at his brother's house at a glance. The middle-aged Jane was a little busy, and Mr.Bridges came in and saw Jane who was writing calmly; They chatted in front of their picturesque home, still having a good sense of humor, just like many years ago; on the eve of the evening dance, the middle-aged Jane pondered in front of the mirror with her dress in her arms. . . . . . These small details lightly convey Jane's deep and complex heart. Mr. Bridges, not the perfect Mr. Darcy, not the silently dedicated Colonel Brandon, not the kind and affectionate Henry, but it seemed that she matched her, and the time they spent together was so wonderful and unforgettable. Perhaps for Jane, seeing Mr. Bridges again, she felt not only unspeakable memories and nostalgia, but also familiar but long gone happiness and ease. However, she did not marry him. And, she didn't regret it, or rather, she didn't completely regret it.
The plot of the film develops with the writing of Persuasion, and it seems that Anne in Persuasion reflects Jane's own shadow. Anne regrets it. If her young lover doesn't reappear by chance, Anne may regret it for the rest of her life. But the real Jane will not regret forever, not even wholeheartedly, because the other half of her life achievements is the gift of life she regrets giving up, although she will not wholeheartedly thank life for this gift. The bitterness for her. "Persuasion" is just a part of Jane's heart. I remember someone said that persuasion is the closest thing to love in Jane Austen's works. After entering middle age, she gradually realized that life is more romantic and affectionate than she originally imagined. If she can survive and continue writing, persuasion will be a turning point in her writing style, and her later work will be completely different from the first five novels.
So, what kind of mood did Jane have at that time? Sadness, needless to say; a little subconscious regret; reminiscence and nostalgia for the bits and pieces of the past life - seeing Mr. Bridges again; Great happiness inside.
Why isn't Jane married? She once told Fanny that no one had ever been perfect enough for her to give up her right to flirt with others; she also told Cassandra that she chose freedom. For Jane, this is the real reason. Maybe whenever she wants to make a decision, a voice in her heart will persuade her to choose a certain direction. In the end, this voice, whether it is a blessing or a curse, made Jane Austen. People's hearts are always complex, and their inclinations towards various choices are not purely single, but sometimes real life is so decisive, either one or the other.
After watching it many times, it is completely understandable why Jane did not marry Mr. Bridges.
But, if it were me, maybe I would have married Mr.Bridges when I was young, that is, when Mr.Bridges mentioned "later when I did ask".

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  • Jane Austen: [Reads to Cassandra from first draft of Persuasion] More than seven years were gone since this little history of sorrowful interest had reached its close;

    Jane Austen: She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.She had used him ill, deserted and disappointed him; and worse, she had shewn a feebleness of character in doing so, which his own decided, confident temper could not endure. She had given him up to oblige others.

    Jane Austen: She hoped to be wise and reasonable in time; but alas! alas! she must confess to herself that she was not wise yet.

    Harris Bigg: I don't know how you can say it without tears.

    Jane Austen: I don't cry at anything that pays me money

  • Jane Austen: What if you do meet him

    [the right man]

    Jane Austen: and he doesn't have any money?

    Fanny Austen-Knight: But if I love him then nothing else matters!

    Jane Austen: What in heavens name gave you that idea?

    Fanny Austen-Knight: It says so in all your books.

    Edward Austen Knight: [gravely] If that's what you think they say, my dear, perhaps, you should read them again.