is not just a story that only women expect to have Mr right. . .
Men also have those moments when they sit in front of the screen and long for romantic love, as Tom interprets almost this kind of story, which is the epitome of a man's fantasy moment.
Maybe every man has to go through a period of emotional memory that he feels very serious, real, romantic, and romantic, but he can't get it right through hard work. In fact, from a later point of view, it was actually just the wrong role. Just as Tom faced a boring life and encountered Summer who suddenly appeared, Tom felt as if he had found the right feeling, found the right love, the princess had just appeared, and like many people (men) who had come over, he was enjoying and completely immersed in loving a People feel, and persistently or naively believe that this is love, and when this woman appears to have a very hot relationship with you, there is no reason not to believe that this is not love, and to greet you, but in fact, this is only personal It's just an illusion, the obscenity that I came up with is also the beginning of a mistake.
For ordinary men, when a girl who is a little weird and fascinated suddenly appears, it feels like there are more colors in the gray world, even if this girl has shortcomings, it is very likeable. Every man who enters this link feels a sense of happiness and enjoyment. Even if this woman keeps telling each other the other way - I'm not in love with you. The tragedy is that even if many men realize that the other party does not put their sincerity in that important position in their hearts, men still put in their efforts without hesitation.
Men need a definition to prove that their love is indeed official love, because every man will be in a position of "unnamed" emotion for no reason. It's just that for Summer (the type of woman who makes every man grow), they don't know how they feel, maybe they don't believe in love but don't lose the passion for love, maybe it's just for fun, Make your life more happy, make yourself happy, make your friends happy, and ignore yourself thinking that you are good to each other to make both parties happy. Unfortunately, this happy process has long had the seeds of tragedy.
However, the most valuable thing for a man is to be able to think and reflect, such as Tom, although when the manager's words made Tom reflect on all this, and then regained his life, he found that it was completely impossible, the figure of Summer, messed up everything , so he tried to forget it, but he got a rotten self. Through continuous reflection, Tom understood himself, that life is based on feelings, that "love" and "like" are completely different, and how to act like love character of.
Tom's story is almost "our story". As a person who has just passed through the Tom-Summer period, the emotional story is almost the same. Until the end, I, like Sam, began to think about this unnecessary but painful period. fantasy, and after a long reflection, finally make a decision.
The advantage of fantasy is that it can make people feel temporary happiness, very happy, but fantasy is fantasy after all. Think of the wrong person as the right person, and the fantasy that does not exist into existence. Miss Wrong can be Miss Right. The pain of reality makes people negative, decadent, world-weary, crazy....
Calm down, everything will pass, there is nothing that can't be dealt with, the relationship is just like this, why should a man be troubled with himself? There's no need to betray yourself for the wrong feelings, no need, really no need, life has to go on, work has to work, life has to go on, no matter how hard it is to let go of the feelings...
you don't want to be someone's daughter Friends become other people's wives....I'll never understand...the
worst feeling is when you realize that all the good stories around you are fantasy...
after Summer, me, and so much more For those who have experienced this and have not yet experienced it, Summer is a teacher, an emotional teacher, allowing immature men like us to gradually mature and grow, and in the process to understand life, self, and feelings, Summer It is just a story and memory on the way of growth, a point, a hurdle that must be passed, each 500 days, constitutes the emotional experience of each man, and each experience will make the man more mature than before.
It's not that you are bad, please don't apologize again, don't feel sorry for hurting me, I will never understand your tenderness.
It's not that I'm bad, but that I was carried away by subjective emotions. Now I understand that you are just a memory, a point, a teacher, thank you "Summer".
Let us "Toms" throw away that "Summer", shout "fuck off but really thank you" to that bitter memory together, move forward together, and move forward together to become mature men! Let's fight for life together!
Dedicated to all Toms!
Looking back 8 years later: The
old confidant, why did Zhang Huang....
8 years later, I met that Summer again, people's feelings are really strange, it is easy to bind oneself to the old thoughts, the ups and downs, the ups and downs, Who in the world speaks?
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