Look at summer from another angle

Nick 2022-04-22 07:01:02

To never love and never to be loved is the most helpless part of love. Even if you let it shine, let it spread, and give your mind and body, there will be a day that will disappear. The game of reluctance and inability to reluctantly loses in the pursuit of true love, and temporarily gains the upper hand in those whose stability prevails. However, as time goes by, we need to spend a lot of trivial moments. If there is something wrong with each other, then there is only one outcome: the one who loves is dragged on and exhausted, and the one who does not love is confused for ten years. , In this kind of love, it has become a shackle that hinders the new life.

In "500 Days with Summer", Tom is a person who believes in true love. The Summer he falls in love with doesn't want to be someone's who. In other words, she just wants to play. Kissing in the copy room, having sex in the shower, looking at each other on the IKEA bed, but Summer still says they're just friends. Tom's desperation can be imagined. He wanted to ask for a "boyfriend" status, but he was faced with the dialogue of breaking up.

The trouble with Summer was that she couldn't find a moth to the flames in Tom, so she came to the same conclusion as her previous relationship: there's no true love in this world. Meeting a later husband and getting married quickly, that's another story. Tom is not a victim, but a test subject to see if he can come together. All relationships that are not love at first sight are experimental relationships. However, there is a subtle difference between what can be accepted and what can be married in dating, which seems to be small but directly affects the outcome. You must tell why, that is, it is not love enough, not enough love to be able to hesitate when the priest asks if you want to say yes. Although the heart is given to you, the body is given to you, and I want to give you my whole life, but the soul does not agree. In fact, Summer and Tom are also pursuing true love, but she is not as lucky as Tom. Meeting so quickly can make people fall in love for a moment and then promise. A lifetime of gorgeous love.

Summer is not wrong, she is just a little girl pursuing true love. I was looking forward to their breakup from the time she replied to Tom that she didn't know what they were. Because no matter how procrastinated, breaking up is doomed.

Breaking up can't be said, and love is lifeless. I used to laugh inexplicably when we were together, but now I have inexplicable troubles. Even watching a movie that I used to love, I can cry without falling into each other's arms. During the turnaround period of love, not to mention breaking up is consuming the last affection of both parties in love. Sometimes, as strangers, there is goodwill to each other, but once they are familiar with each other, they have reasons to hurt. After entering the period of withering love, and finally breaking up, I slapped and applauded that the old did not go and the new did not come.

After Summer left Tom, she met a person who casually asked her about the author of the book, and then a spark appeared. Mr.right appeared so easily. There was no need for so-called consideration, entanglement, and running-in. She became his wife, and Summer immediately understood. The true love that Tom kept talking about. And Tom went through a period of lovelorn that was worse than death. He regained his strength and fought again, and he soon met Autumn. After a splendid summer, he came to the autumn of harvest. The process of suffering and the happy ending are not contradictory. .

In 500 days, a person who did not believe in true love reaps true love; a person who originally believed in true love regained self-confidence and returned to love after his belief was destroyed. Love is like the law of conservation of energy, giving and receiving are always proportional, depending on how you understand it.

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  • Shana 2022-03-24 09:01:07

    Although I hate this kind of narrative movie, who hasn't had a failed and bloody love yet.

  • Jerald 2022-03-25 09:01:05

    The male lead spent 500 days in questioning whether the female lead loved him, but the 500 days still failed to give him an accurate answer. But when he met Autumn at the end of the film, all his obsessions turned into epiphany. Because love never needs to be guessed and pleased.

500 Days of Summer quotes

  • McKenzie: This Friday, all-you-can-karaoke at the Mill.

    Tom: No.

    McKenzie: Come on!

    Tom: They're not gonna let you back in there after last time.

    McKenzie: Yeah... I wasn't that bad.

    Tom: Dude, you threw up on the stage, you tried to fight the bartender, you threatened to burn the place down.

    McKenzie: But I didn't burn the place down.

  • McKenzie: So, do you have a boyfriend?

    Summer: No...

    McKenzie: Why not?

    Summer: 'Cause I don't want one.

    McKenzie: Come on. I don't believe that.

    Summer: You don't believe that a woman could enjoy being free and independent?

    McKenzie: [robotic voice] Are you a lesbian?

    Summer: No, I'm not a lesbian. I just don't feel comfortable being anyone's girlfriend. I don't actually feel comfortable being anyone's anything, you know?