Why do you love Le Pei alone? Talking about the harm of emotional control

Clair 2022-04-19 09:01:14

The first time I saw this movie was in 2014. I fell in love with it the first time I saw it. Maybe it was the sky lanterns that filled the sky, maybe it was the long hair of Le Pei, or maybe it was because I fell in love with her so that I could pass the time. My own time, is an unusually independent girl, in short, I like this movie.

In the following years, I kept the frequency of brushing every year, and I also collected a lot of Lepei's peripherals at home, and each time I watched it, I had a different experience.

I fell in love with the ending of the story first, that long hair was her only magic, healing and saving people, and turning back time. It was also a thing to pass the time when she was lonely. Her adoptive mother loved her, and the fundamental purpose of raising her was also to keep her youthful hair, but in the end Eugene cut off her hair, and her blond hair turned brown. . She lost the most precious thing, and she did not regret it, and even said she was willing, which was unexpected to me.

After that, I fell in love with her bravery. Trapped in the ivory tower, she set foot on the grass for the first time, wandering by the river and in the woods, she was so happy, singing when will my life begin, and this moment is a symbol of her life starting anew. Followed her and met a gang of robbers. Everyone was fierce, but she was not afraid at all. She just wanted to complete her goal and see the sky lanterns. At this time, she sang I have a dream, everyone Everyone had a dream, and she was acting on her dream.

In all fairness, this villain is my most hated and, in my opinion, the worst and most vicious stepmother. Compared with Snow White, Cinderella, and Sleeping Beauty, the villains with strong intentions, Ge Suo's bad is hidden in the sentence I love you most, doing hurtful things in the name of love. Justify all the evil, when you want to accuse her, you become the bad guy instead .

Seeing some comments that Le Pei is selfish, I have to say that this villain has brainwashed the audience, which is really amazing.

The song "mother knows best" exposes Gesso's emotional abuse to Le Pei. If you listen carefully to the lyrics, you will find, Gesso said, "I know that one day, you will want to leave this tower and not let you go out, because you are afraid that you will meet In danger, there are cannibals, plagues, and robbers and thieves. I brought you up, fed you, clothed you, bathed you, oh, you're hurting your mother's heart so much. Promise mom, don't ask to leave again, okay? I love you, I love you the most.

How scary and creepy to hear. Is Gesso's purpose really for Le Pei? No, she just wanted to lock Le Pei in this tower and use her hair to keep her young forever, but she used me everywhere as an excuse to make Le Pei doubt herself. Excessive? Did I make my mother angry? Is it my fault?

The most powerful thing about emotional control is that it is clear that the other party is asking for that indefinitely, but you are always willing, and you even feel that you are not good enough and have not given everything?

Seeing this, have you noticed that Ge Suo is showing the characteristics of PUA , but it is not at the level of lovers, but at the level of mother and daughter. This kind of PUA hidden under the name of family love is even more difficult to detect, because you You will never doubt if your parents are sincere to you.

So after Le Pei watched the sky lantern, Ge Suo found her and said to her, go back to mother, that man liked the crown, and mother loved you the most, she firmly said NO, That's what makes me love this character so much. It's not that some people have the courage to say no to emotional control, but after seeing the truth clearly, she can say no resolutely and want to escape the other party's control, which is really amazing.

We all fall into emotional traps more or less, and not everyone has the courage to say no and say goodbye to a bad relationship. Many people are willing to be manipulated rather than leave that "familiar" embrace, so when Le Pei said that from time to time, I was full of admiration and admiration.

The last Disney villain's song, Gesso's lyrics in tough love goes like this:

I never wanted children, life was better on my own All the screaming, nagging chilled me to the bone But then one day I came across a flower growing free But one day I found a magic flower It's magic kept me young, so I kept it all for me it up, now a baby held the power In the tower Years went by, Oh, the sacrifice Time flies, oh, and against my better judgment, I fed her once or twice Teenagers now I know I wild eat their young her Girl, I know she made me young But that's messy Manipulation's easily more fun It's easier to manipulate her, more fun A little guilt, a lot of force of course you have to lie Remind them that without you, they'd shrivel up and die , they can't live

Ge Suo has no love for Le Pei at all, only emotional manipulation, I hope everyone understands

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  • Theresa 2021-10-20 19:00:32

    The bridge is not afraid of the old. Princess and prince, live happily together forever, singing and dancing, disney is a safe haven outside reality, always young and always happy and hopeful

  • Cathy 2022-04-23 07:01:10

    When it comes to animated films, really, I still like the clichés.

Tangled quotes

  • Flynn Rider: Let me just get this straight, I take you to see the lanterns, bring you back home, and you'll give me back my satchel?

    Rapunzel: I promise.

    [Flynn looks at Rapunzel suspiciously]

    Rapunzel: And when I promise something, I never ever break that promise.

    [Flynn still looks suspicious]

    Rapunzel: EVER!

    Flynn Rider: All right, listen! I didn't want to have to do this, but you leave me no choice. Here comes the smolder.

    [Flynn puts on a pout, hoping to charm Rapunzel. She just looks at him sternly]

    Flynn Rider: This is kind of an off-day for me. This doesn't normally happen.

    [gives in]

    Flynn Rider: Fine! I'll take you to see the lanterns.

    Rapunzel: [gasps] Really?

    [She jumps in excitement, letting go of the chair Flynn is tied to. He falls on his face]

    Rapunzel: Oops.

    Flynn Rider: [weakly] You broke my smolder.

  • Rapunzel: [Sung] I could go running/ and racing/ and dancing/ and chasing/ and leaping/ and bounding/ hair flying/ heart pounding/ and splashing/ and reeling/ and finally feeling/ now's when my life begins!