Society doesn't just demand perfection from mothers

Libby 2022-04-20 09:01:17

I can't write a short review, put it here--

I just watched "Battle of Midway" recently, and it has one advantage that "Marriage Story" can learn from, and that is - the two are fighting, and you must learn to respect your enemy.

I find "Marriage Story" so shallow for one reason: it repeatedly emphasizes that society only demands perfection from mothers, not fathers.

Then, who is the old saying "the son does not teach, the father is the fault"?

In fact, the common thinking is that the mother takes care of the first half of the child's life and food and daily life, and the father teaches the second half of the child well, behaves well, and ensures the economic status of the family. Like fatherhood, secular achievement is the most important thing. Although it is praised and exalted, it does not actually bring individual freedom and social value to women, but is more like a kind of heavy labor at a lower level.

When society, regardless of gender, values ​​or is required to achieve worldly achievements (the father function), women will be bothered by the heavy labor of motherhood, and this is the problem.

But as a movie, it should not be limited to this kind of provocative emotion, so that women can sound "relaxing" resonant words, at least there must be an attempt to look at the problem objectively from the perspective of women. Today's women desperately want the respect of men, but it's never going to work just by talking to themselves.

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Extended Reading
  • Cary 2022-03-25 09:01:06

    Baumbach is very powerful. The script of this theme inevitably reminds people of Bergman and "Marriage Life", but the director used a more New Yorker way to tell such a story, especially the treatment of female characters. It also symbolizes the current mainstream value. The director's audiovisual scheduling is not complicated, but the scheduling, editing, and the performance of the actors are like a precise trio. Many large sections of lines are processed with a clear level of rhythm, and they achieve each other together with the actor's performance. The master director's ability to control is different. This may also be because it is a marriage theme, or Netflix does not have any special requirements for the big director. You can see that Director Baumbach has put more effort in the audiovisual scheduling this time. Of course, this procedural divorce story may not be representative, and such a divorce is not representative, and it cannot be compared with Bergman, but this film is definitely an enjoyment in terms of audiovisual.

  • Winston 2021-10-20 19:02:58

    Life is but one sentence: I want you to die. And then live, live...

Marriage Story quotes

  • Charlie: You'll never be happy, in LA or anywhere. You'll think you found some better opposite guy than me, and in a few years you'll rebel against him, because you need to have your voice, but you don't want a voice. You just want to fucking complain about not having a voice !

  • Charlie: You want to present yourself as a victim because it's a good legal strategy. Fine, but you and i both know you chose this life ! You wanted it until you didn't. You used me so you could get out of LA.

    Nicole: I didn't use you.

    Charlie: You did, and then you blamed me for it ! You always made me aware of what i was doing wrong, how i was falling short !