Every woman who says she no longer believes in love and wants to be a Semansa should first ask herself, is she as affordable as her? She treats every man as an inn, holding the mood of pure enjoyment of this matter, her declaration is-"I have always been a slave to the passion in my heart, but I have never been a slave to a man." In the movie version, in order to release her desire, she dumped her star boyfriend before her 50th birthday. Can you do this? I think that Kerry is the representative of most people, wandering in the city of desire with the ideal of love, and met various types of men, but still can't let go of the one I love most. The influence of this American drama on Chinese women is unprecedented, and our perceptions have undergone earth-shaking changes because of them. In this fast food era, the relationship between men and women has become an unprecedented fast food. For some people, "love" is actually the scientific name for finding someone to have sex.
Young people cannot be blamed for this. Gadfly said, "What's the use of oaths? Only when you have an experience of something will restrain you, and nothing can restrain you without experience." When we do not change things, how do we judge and measure what is in front of us? Don't you want it or don't want it? There should be principles, and there will always be a bottom line and standard, but when we don’t know ourselves and the world very well, it seems that we can only know what “don’t” is when we keep trying and “requiring” because we know what’s going on. Now, not wanting at this time is willing and powerful. So don't blame young people for their attempts, this is their way to touch and understand themselves. The world will not change, but people can be changed. Only by standing at the present point can we measure whether someone in the past should or should not. The future has the same meaning for the present. Therefore, nothing is absolute, everything is changing and developing, and we must admit this.
Women all have a process of growth. When we say goodbye to innocence and enter the adult world, we will find that there is another world between men and women, that is desire. And when we have experienced a lot, we find that sometimes desire is the purest thing. "I insist on pursuing real desires because I believe that my desires are real."
Someone once said: "Chinese women can only be truly liberated and independent by letting go of themselves. Don't always feel violated. Men and women are all human beings, they are equal, and the two love each other, there is nothing who has played with each other, everyone has the needs, the needs of love, the needs of the body, and the needs of emotions. But thousands of years of traditional concepts Deep-rooted, conservative genes flowing in the blood determine that they can never be completely open and open. This is the cause of entanglement and pain. Therefore, if you want to live pure and happy, you must be thorough, whether it is a completely traditional Still be completely open, don't take the middle road, that will only be unhappy."
It must be a man who said this.
If a woman doesn't like a man, she won't have a relationship with him, but because she likes it, she can't be as "pure" as a man. After all, we don't live in the United States that has been liberated for decades. Women are always emotional animals, just like Wang Jiazhi finally let go of Mr. Yi, not because of love. However, men are not like this. They can separate the upper body from the lower body. Zhenbao in "Red Roses and White Roses" said to the old lover-who else can meet, but it is a man. The answer of the woman played by Chen Chong is-love, or you understand it from the beginning. Although it was a bit bitter, it was always good, and there were other people I met.
This is the question I want to say-can you do this thoroughly? Baby Annie said-"What does a skin-to-kin bring? If there is no love, it is just a brief warm illusion and a darker disillusionment. A relationship without emotion will make people cold, like a person holding a lot of wood by his side. But there is no flame in his heart, unable to ignite, and he is still cold. This feeling of despair will plunge you into the deepest abyss, a darkness without end." When I read this paragraph, I was thinking, which woman is willing to bear no love The desolation? How desperate it should be...
"If you are only interested in my body, then don't bother my heart. There will always be someone who knows how to appreciate your body and truly cares about your soul." Maturity may sometimes mean being able to control yourself. One’s desire, and a person’s success or failure, sometimes lies at the critical moment. If you make the right choice, you may be lost at that time, but what is the pity of losing someone who can’t love? Our lives and future should not be ruined by a wrong impulse.
Milan Kundera famously said in "The Unbearable Lightness of Life", but the same is true for women-"To have sex with a man and sleep with a man are two completely different, even almost opposite feelings. Love does not Not through the desire to have sex (which can be the desire for countless men), but through the desire to sleep with him (which can only be the desire for a man). "The
greatest benefit of time is that Let us know who we are. In the face of love, desire is not worth mentioning, but it is also worthy of respect, because it is a gift given by life. Maybe new women don’t need to be responsible, but we have to be responsible for ourselves.
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