Throughout the movie, from falling in love to separation, it doesn't explain exactly why Cindy was disappointed in the marriage, or that Dean did something unbearable. But it doesn't matter, what I'm impressed with is that Dean has been trying to change the situation, even when he lost his ring after a big fight in the hospital, he was still angry and jumped out of the car in the grass trying to get it back Come on, in the later conversation at Cindy's father's house, Dean cried and asked what he needed to do to change, repeating the vow "You said for the better or worst" when he got married... For marriage, is this not true? Is it not enough? There is no smooth sailing marriage, even if there will always be various frictions in the life of the person you love, the enthusiasm brought by love will gradually become dull with time, and when you encounter setbacks, as long as you survive There is hope and the courage to try, even if the result does not happen as expected, there is nothing to complain or blame, this is to be responsible for the choice made in the first place. Even if Dean is gone, but when he looks back on these years later, I think his heart will at least feel at ease with a clear conscience. It's not easy, because you are destined to be hurt more than the other side. The person I admire is even They understand this, but they still resolutely choose such a path, and they do not become selfish because of the gain and loss. This kind of love is great. I also understand cindy's choice. There is nothing to blame for her not wanting to endure the pain brought by marriage, but since she chose to be together, shouldn't she face it together when problems arise? Cindy has been in a negative state all the time. From being absent-minded in the hotel to leaving at the end, she kept escaping and did not seriously try to save it. Seeing Dean's lonely departure at the end, she could feel his helpless mood, things were beyond her ability. The sense of powerlessness brought about, isn't he worth getting a try?
And there are a lot of people like cindy around, especially as they get older, they have more experience, the more they are bound, and the more careful they take responsibility. In my heart, when I think about it occasionally, my heart still hurts, but their reason still controls most of the time so that they don’t feel sad and sad because of the past. When they see that they are more and more self-protective, they don’t easily give their feelings or try their best, and ask the reason. , replied "it hurts". After listening to it, I had mixed feelings in my heart, not knowing whether to approve or refute, that is, I understood their feelings but felt that things should not be like this.
At this moment, I can only look into the distance and sigh, not knowing what else to say.
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