The contradictory unity of wanting to participate and not wanting to be involved.
Marypoppins, and the abuser called Banks, works because Dad doesn't fit in with the family. The author hopes that no one who hurts will be discovered, who hurt Emma Bella, Perry's beating is not known, Perry is killed and the murderer is unknown, Ziggy integrated into the school after hurting Emma Bella, and Perry's feelings after beating his wife Well, after B killed perry, he integrated into the small group. The author is a neglected person, so he develops an aggressive character, but if he does not intervene in other people's lives, there is no problem with aggression.
Because it is difficult to grasp the degree of intervention, one party involved will neglect the other party, and the one who is involved is the injured party.
Madeline: Steps in when someone needs to be involved. Worrying that her daughter doesn't need her intervention when she grows up, she was furious when Abigail was intervened by Bonnie, because it meant that her daughter needed to be intervened, and she was not allowed to intervene. He also said that Ziggy's biggest injury at the school incident was being left out. She later found her husband, Ed, who worked from home and cooked, and did not leave the family at all, but Madeline did not let him intervene in some of her life. The wish is: my intervention will not hurt others, the family does not need me to intervene, and my intervention in life will not make the family feel left out.
Celeste: The perfect person. The girl group needs her integration, but Perry also needs her integration. She is worried that she will be left out after she gets involved in the girl group. At the same time, Perry was forced to spend less time at home because of the business trip, which made him very sad. The desire is: others are eager to intervene in me, and once I intervene in life, the family feels left out.
Jane: Objectively you need to be integrated into your life, but subjectively you don't. Because she has been hurt, people get close to her, and she is raped, as opposed to being left out. The wish is: when I don't need others to intervene, it is wrong for others to intervene; when I need others to intervene, it is right for others to come.
Renata: Her husband doesn't want to take care of women's affairs, but she always forces her husband to intervene, talk to her, go to school to find things, etc. She herself is a person who is devoted to work and neglects the family, so her children have the desire to be involved and are the ones who are hurt, but they do not hate the people who beat her. The wish is: when I need to be involved, I can force myself not to be left out, and I can do both homework and work.
Bonnie: Will get involved in things that have nothing to do with me. Don't know puppet show but vote to stop it and teach Abigail about sex. She can make people who don't fit in, so Nathan and Abigail are biased towards her, and she also makes Madeline feel a sense of crisis, because this is a skill that Madeline can't. The wish is: I can let people who are unwilling to intervene in other people's lives be willing to join my life, and I can also intervene in things that have nothing to do with me.
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