It is no exaggeration to say that this is a standard feminist film from a female point of view, with the extreme level of resentment against women. The protagonist is a few colleagues who work in an office building. Some are married, some are to be married, and some are unmarried, but they also face the same problem, that is, men. The film also conveys through the plot the many rare rules of relationships between men and women and love.
Rule 1, between men and women, no matter what stage they are in, there will always be problems of one kind or another.
Searching hard for a love experience, looking for clues from the unintentional actions of men, in the end, I can only exchange for a "self-love" evaluation and get bruised and bruised, and find the person who loves each other? He refused to marry him, what should I do? break up? I have given him all seven years of my great youth. People around me have already recognized him, and I seem to love him inextricably. He looks at you affectionately: I can give you everything except marriage. But what about getting married? But because of the sexless marriage, the husband and the hot girl had an affair. It's not easy for a hot girl, she is beautiful, she has a hot body, and a bunch of men stick on her body, but she decides that a married man is her only choice, and she puts herself in it recklessly, but she ends up playing with fire and setting herself on fire. That man is always reluctant to She hurts her hysterical wife, and she eventually comes to the conclusion that she doesn't need love.
Rule 2, whoever falls in love loses.
Most of the rules in the film are told by the bar owner, alex. At the beginning, he watched gigi, a girl who longed for love, pitifully run into a wall again and again, and sympathetically told her what he had learned for many years as an old lover. Laws, laws about men. Looking at him as if he had come over, he seemed to have seen through everything, and he had already played with love in his palms. He told Gigi to stop thinking about it. If a man likes you, he will not let you guess, nor will he hint. You, he'll tell you directly, if he didn't call you, didn't date you, it's not that he dropped your business card, it's not that he had an accident, it's that he doesn't want to see you at all, doesn't want to call you, because He doesn't like you that much. All this without exception.
Gigi is still searching hard in the defeats in love again and again, and starts to transfer the object of YY to alex. Alex can't stand it anymore, he rejects gigi mercilessly, and after losing gigi, he realizes that he has long been Falling in love with her, when he knocked on gigi's door, his hesitantly green appearance was completely different from the image of a love expert before. Therefore, all those who seem to see through the red dust and claim to have penetrated the mystery of love are all in love. If you fall in love with someone other than you, and you are fully committed, you will lose, the initiative will no longer be in your hands, you will not be yourself, and all the experience and rules will be automatically deleted from your mind at this time. .
Janine is a very complicated existence in the film, a person who is a little unclear. She's a little boring, nervous, suspicious, forcing her boyfriend to marry her in a way of breaking up, but the gentle ben has always tolerated him, when she keeps questioning him about a pack of cigarettes, I can't stand it, so My wife got divorced, but when Ben really cheated, I felt a little sympathetic to her. After all, after a long time of marriage, a woman will easily develop in the direction of a yellow-faced woman. Maybe she will feel very insecure, but when she says When it came out that she and ben had never had a sex life, I began to understand ben again. I felt that it was too easy for him to endure this sexless marriage for so many years. Janine has been torturing others for so many years. At the same time, she also In this way, until the water is overwhelmed, the marriage that exists in name is finally unsustainable, like the broken mirror. The film has been renovating the house is actually an obvious irony. The heroine tried her best to renovate the house, just to use this gorgeous shell to cover up the emptiness in the hearts of the people who lived there. When the house is renovated, the relationship between the two But in the end it couldn't be repaired.
Anna is also an interesting existence. She is a blonde with an angel face and a devil figure. In Ben's words, she are so hot. In love, she could have played with flowers and played with men in applause. Whether it was cheating money or sex, she had enough capital. When she first met her, she really wanted her to help her singing career, but From her eyes, you can see the love at first sight for this man, she is fully devoted, and believes that this time is her true love. She didn't pursue fame, she never asked ben to divorce his wife, or she craved his tenderness and warmth and didn't think so far, but when she was pushed into the closet by ben, she heard him The man he loves still can't forget his love for his wife. He never ends their marriage. A fact that she never seriously considers is placed in front of her. To him, she may be hot or sexy. But he just regarded her as a kind of life spice. For anna, ben may be the right person, but for ben, anna is not. I love anna because she is a lover who is totally into love and never takes advantage of anyone's feelings for her. When Ben injured him, she ushered in Neil's lifelong commitment. When he took her to a beautiful house and wanted her to be the mistress of the house, she could choose to accept it against her will. But she didn't. She can also use the emotional hurt that ben brought to him as a bargaining chip for her to help her love, but she doesn't have it either, so when she stands on the stage lonelier than fireworks and sings softly with a cold face , I couldn't help feeling sorry for her, for her beauty, for her sadness.
But this is Hollywood after all, and after telling the truth about many seemingly unrealistic relationships between men and women, it smears a lot of idealized bright colors in the film, which is embodied in the two couples.
The pair are Mary and Conor played by Drew Barrymore. Conor has always kept in touch with Mary during their relationship with Anna. The two can be said to be electronic lovers. They communicate through various electronic communication methods. But they have never met. Maybe conor has never cared too much about Mary's existence, but Mary has already thought about it, and will secretly look forward to meeting him. Although we have seen a lot of Drew's amorous feelings in the past, but The image created here seems to be a house girl, wearing big glasses and wearing an old-fashioned braid, which can't be compared with her friend Anna's anger, but maybe it's her who is suitable for being hurt and overwhelmed by love. The conor, maybe it is the two of them who can really give each other what they want and live with each other for a long time. They give us hope.
The other pair was my favorite and the most touching and the only one that made me cry. It's Beth and Neil, played by Jennifer Aniston and Ben Affleck. The two have been together for seven years. They love each other deeply. If it wasn't for Neil's resistance and doubts about marriage, they would have already become the immortal couple that everyone envied. Beth felt wronged, but she couldn't let it go. A good man, whenever he said to herself, "I can give you everything except marriage," she would struggle. If she rejected him just because she couldn't get married, would she be too self-willed, but she looked at the people around her. Friends marry one by one and become married women. As she grows older, she is under more and more pressure, and the marriage of her own sister has become the fuse of her collapse. She is too insecure, she and all the others. Just like a woman, she needs a marriage, she needs to announce to the world that she already belongs to one person, and there is another person, and she truly belongs to her from now on. She wants to wear white gauze and accept the blessings of relatives and friends with a smile, so she Says: I can't do this anymore. She chose to leave.
However, after she left, she was full of loneliness. She still missed Neil. She lived in her parents' house and was regarded as air and was neglected. Her father fell ill at her sister's wedding. When she was helping, Neil appeared. When the poor girl saw Neil's generous back in the kitchen, she finally gave up and compromised. She didn't want to get married, and she really couldn't leave this man. When she wrapped around Neil, he said, I'm still the same person I used to be. He didn't have to say it, she understood, she recognized it. Seeing this, I really feel so sad, why can't I get married?
So - when Beth pulled the velvet ring box out of Neil's ripped trousers, when I saw Beth's tearful smile, I burst into tears, which is the fairytale ending I wanted. This is a movie, if you want comfort, it will comfort you, even if you know it is wishful thinking, but you can't see too much about love, otherwise you will really see through the world, and you won't ask your sons and daughters.
Of course, love has rules. There are many. You can memorize them all and use them as love bibles. If you use them properly, it is not impossible for them to go through trial and error. But don’t forget, all love bibles are limited to one condition. - You don't love that person.
When you love someone deeply, you may be nervous and at a loss, completely forgetting how to talk and walk, revealing your true self for a long time involuntarily, not to mention remembering those love secrets that deal with advance and retreat. For true love, every love is an exception, full of fresh vitality and unique charm, so people yearn for love.
Of course, there are also people who can get true love by doing their best, but she can never get real happiness, and it is very likely that she will end up hurting other people's hearts and her own.
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