May you love me the way I am [cat]

Sandrine 2021-12-17 08:01:17

Someone once asked me: "What if I could get an ideal perfect girlfriend like a program designed?" I said: "One day he will ask her exactly the same questions."
This is based on reality. The fantasy romance film starring Paul Dano and Zoe Kazan, a couple in the movie, teaches a cruel lesson to boys who have fantasies about the perfect girlfriend. Kazan is also a screenwriter, and the story is bound to have a female perspective. And Jonathan Dayton, who has directed "Little Girl in the Sunshine", is also very smart to show everything about Kevin in the opening ten minutes: the novel he wrote in high school ten years ago earned him the name of genius. The beautiful house in the swimming pool, he has no worries about food and clothing; he has no friends, except his brother and the psychologist, the "friends" of the writers circle praised him in front of people, and scolded him after others—and later wanted to hook up with his girlfriend; he has no shortage of literary talents. When he embraces and embraces him, he knows he is unable to deal with emotional relationships and refuses all; he encounters writing bottlenecks, but he has to face fame and social barriers, and hopes to be rescued by doctors; his life pattern is also rigid, and he still writes with a typewriter, even Unable to accept the various characteristics of a pet dog that did not fulfill his wishes-until the girl in the dream said the dog, "I like it, I like it as it is." The
inspiration came, and it was not only Vince, but also Ruby, the dream girl who emerged from Vance. After accepting such a fantasy reality, he watched zombie movies, played video games, danced disco, and intimacy with her a series of shots, which made the passion of the passionate lovers rush to the face. Passion is like a cannabis leaf. It gives you a momentary hallucination. The hallucinations will always wake up. Kevin’s brother Harry is a typical sober and good man. He is sensible and self-denying. Reading the manuscripts of novels, he finds that his brother does not understand women at all and does not understand their fickleness. In his mental state, he loves a bunch of symbol combinations that cater to his inner fantasy. Although he also envied his brother's affair that men have imagined, he knows that to love a real woman, one has to accept her imperfections and accept her. She may leave herself at any time.
Asian women's tolerance and generosity help to maintain a relationship, but this is obviously not the style of European and American girls. Kevin has so much money that he can raise his girlfriend without work, but the perfect Ruby who goes to the hall, the kitchen, and the elders' favor will also make you petty. He wants to work and study, and wants to keep space for each other. He can use a typewriter. Kevin, who asked Ruby to do anything, exposed his psychological flaws of not understanding women and love-afraid that Ruby would leave, let her stick to him until every second; Ruby was so dependent on that she cried every day, so she let her She was silly all day long...Kevin didn't know what she wanted anymore, so she had to let her disappear. His ex-girlfriend Laila broke the secret: You just want me to fit your imagination and have no curiosity about me. Your father has passed away. I want to help you, but you won't let me in. The only emotional relationship you want is Fall in love with yourself. On the movie poster, he carried Ruby on his shoulders and ran. The image shows that he loves two girlfriends like he possesses something, which makes them stressed and ignored.
Is there a lasting love relationship? Kevin's mother (Anita Bening) and his stepfather (Antonio Banderas) may be a reference example for the couple living in hippie dreams. Although Kevin harshly believes that his mother was brainwashed by his stepfather, the two of them are indeed very happy, worshiping creation and beauty, focusing on life instead of their relationship.
"If life is like first seeing", everyone's wish was fulfilled by the movie. Kevin, who wrote his love affair as a novel, was able to return to the place where he first met, and Ruby, who became a stranger, said to him, "Can we start again? Don’t tell me the ending of the novel first.”

Highlights: The display of the whole process of love from first acquaintance to breakup resonated with young audiences; Kevin answered her phone while waiting for Ruby in the kitchen, and listened to her talk about clubbing with friends tonight Not going home for dinner. At this time, the soundtrack is the aria of the opera "The Jester" "Woman is fickle"; the color of the movie is very particular, please pay attention to Ruby's dress; Kevin shows Ruby and says she is in the book There is a cruel tension in the scene of people.

You can also watch: "Little Sunshine Girl" by the same director

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Extended Reading
  • Kaelyn 2022-03-29 09:01:03

    Three and a half stars, the heroine is good, the hero has been like this for so many years. When I read it, I felt that the short note written by the male protagonist was obviously female, but the screenwriter turned out to be the female protagonist. Only women will come up with a lot of small details that they think are lovable on certain women when they fantasize about love stories, and men who write novels, even men who write romance novels, don't care about this. The reasons given are usually the most romantic. That is, she smells nice.

  • Camilla 2022-03-27 09:01:09

    Three and a half. "If Life Was Just Like First Seen" movie. The most powerless thing in a relationship is when the relationship is reluctantly maintained, the ingredients have already deteriorated, and no matter how hard you make it, it will be bad... Even if it is a tailor-made person, it is impossible to match the picture like a puzzle, the relationship is full of various factors, good The bad, but most of us are only willing to accept the good. I don't like the ending very much, I feel that it should end at the bookstore speech... The first two scenes are the best.

Ruby Sparks quotes

  • Ruby Sparks: Were you disappointed when you got to know me?

    Calvin Weir-Fields: How can you ask that?

    Ruby Sparks: I'm such a mess.

    Calvin Weir-Fields: I love your mess.

  • Calvin Weir-Fields: She wasn't happy. So I made her happy... and now she's like this all the time.