Comparing the book reviews and film reviews, the praise is mixed, not right, the more praise is less.
I don't like the ending in the movie very much, and I can't understand it. How can the hero and heroine be together?
I was also a special forces soldier, and most of the days when I fell in love with my first love were foreign countries. We didn't see each other at first, and even then she rejected and hurt her good friend who chased after her for years and has been by her side because of me (told me after the breakup). Of course, I'm very scumbag. When I was learning skydiving, I felt that my relationship with her was too vain, and the life of each other was not on the same channel at all. Just in time, a year and a half after we broke up, she came back to China and we met and really got together, although I broke up with her later. She is very good-looking, her family is rich, and her education is higher than mine.
I just want to say so much. I understand and do not understand the behavior of some people. I admire the male lead. He is a person who lacks love. Although he is kind, the environment in which he grew up has made him extremely self-respecting (inferiority), somewhat macho and withdrawn. So the first meeting is actually the girl's initiative. He fell in love with her and began to take the initiative. Why do you continue to serve? Those who have served in the military know that sense of mission and the power of collective emotional incitement. So when the girl was angry because of this, he asked the girl what she wanted him to do, and he didn't know how to choose. I feel it deeply. He wants to know what the girls think, whether they support or oppose it. If he opposes, he will quit, but the heroine expressed his support with practical actions. He really loves her very much, thinking about it day and night, but it actually takes time and energy. That's how I was at the time. In the end, the hostess broke up with him. She wants to be together, why doesn't he want to be together? Her life is difficult, is it easy for him? She is his heart, his spiritual support! Between love and life, she chose life and left him alone. He felt that life was just like that. There was nothing to be sad about, and nothing to be happy about. There was a lot of fighting outside, but there was no turbulence inside. But he always had her in his heart, so he would go to her and see her life. Seeing her marry a greasy middle-aged man, he should have collapsed, it was a mockery of him. Should be utterly disappointed. He didn't understand. He came to her precisely to open this knot. He could understand her, but he also knew that she had abandoned him when he needed her most. Therefore, the seduction of the heroine was unsuccessful, and he did not want to see the heroine again. He loves her completely, but he doesn't get her complete love. The world let him down again. He no longer had illusions. He wanted the person he loved to be well, so he helped her. But he didn't want the two to have any other connection, so he helped anonymously.
The heroine is really a virgin, and the virgin bitch is far more disgusting than the green tea bitch and the scheming bitch, because she always has a bunch of seemingly impeccable reasons to justify herself. Whether it is children, the elderly, greasy uncles, or male best friends, on the surface, it is overflowing with love, but in fact, it is to make everyone feel that they are great. In fact, this is a thankless thing after all. You don't focus your love on someone who loves you very, very much, and it's a disservice to him. She ended up being miserable, and I'm not surprised at all. No sympathy either.
After watching this movie, I really miss my ex. I mentioned the two breakups. She is really a good girl who can't be found even with a lantern. This is probably the price of youth. For the first time in love, I have too many small faults and hypocrisy, and I don't understand girls at all. If I ask her to get back together again, she has given up, and I can't get any updates on her. She should be in love, she actually said it before. I know she still has me in her heart, the scumbag who has deeply hurt her twice. I've been single for a long time and know it's hard to fall in love with someone else. I look forward to meeting her again. I hope that at that time I was still what she liked, so that she would not regret loving me back then.
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