On waiting

Franco 2022-04-21 09:01:49

In the war scene at the beginning of the film, the black and long nails grabbed a dilapidated book, and a photo inside was stroked hundreds of times. Then in Lengshan Town, on a sunny day, the man and woman got acquainted by building a church. Inman's first move in love will make him think of the taste of secret love when he is ignorant. Want to meet someone but afraid to meet. Silently wrote many letters and folded paper cranes. But now that things are different, those people in the past are not what they used to live in their minds. I also never followed the person I liked, and followed them far away.
When Yingman rushed to fight for the country, he could not imagine that one day he would try his best to escape from the army. Isn't this a young man, a young man with a dull life feels that the outside world is the most exciting. So whether it is a mountain of knives or a sea of ​​fire, leave the beloved woman and go. This brings me back to our choice of destiny. Where to go to college, where to get a job, where to live. Even though he likes the field roads in his hometown, the life of men farming and women weaving. But never go back once a year. In exchange, bills and numb nerves.
After Ada's father's death, the family became degraded. If there is no farming, there is no food, and it is reduced to the point of earning a living. Until there was a Ruby in my life, a capable and strong woman. Two women, learn to farm, store grain, raise cows, raise small ones, and pack grain and grass. Gradually, it started to look like home. I've always felt that this is the life I've been pursuing. There are cattle and sheep, fruits and vegetables, everything I need to take care of. A life of weeding and sweating in the sun every day is what I want. My cows are so prolific that I can't run out of milk, so I frown and learn how to make yogurt and cheese. Mail to my faraway friends and relatives. A good mood might make the cheese into a special shape, or engrave the name of the giver.
Ruby's father came back, and the way he brought everyone to sing together, and the way Ada read to Ruby in bed, all of these represent missing. A look and a smile from Ada made me read how much she was looking forward to meeting Inman. I have a deep understanding of missing, and maybe I will have a deeper experience with the increase of age in the future. I used to feel like I was reaching the limit of what my life could endure because of what I wanted to see. But now that I think about it, it was my own demon. Although I have someone I want to see now, I have nothing to say to her. Although I really want to hug her, I know that I will never rely on her and trust her again. We all gradually learned that loving someone is not about telling the other person, because we have fully understood all the changes of the other person under the carving of time. To love someone is not necessarily to have all of the other person, but to be hidden means to be strong with the other person. I thought that my character was incomplete before, and I felt that love would calm and fill my sorrows, but now I feel that only when we are all independent individuals, with a strong heart that can taste the joys, sorrows and sorrows, can we feel that the regrets in the past have become tasteful Get up, and there are no details and spoilers in the future, and let yourself wait with relish.
In the snow, Inman came back, and the old man who saved her killed his own sheep and gave him his own pistol. I believe that life should be like this. It is because of the help of chance encounters that there will be a satisfying sleep every day. . Inman came back, and the person Ada had been thinking about was in front of her. She didn't recognize it, and Inman didn't shout it out. She just turned around silently. After so much, she could finally meet. Turn around silently. I think so. Or maybe we've never experienced such a difficult wait. Can't imagine and don't want to indulge in the waiting of their love. Because my life may have just begun.

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Cold Mountain quotes

  • Ruby: My daddy - he'd walk forty miles for liquor but not forty inches for kindness.

  • Maddy: Is she waiting for you?