The film always revolves around Julianne's entanglement, should she summon the courage to tell Michael that she loves him, or should she be a scumbag and break up Michael and his fiancee. This reminds me of a post I once saw on the Internet, listing children's explanations of "love" in which an eight-year-old girl named Jessica seemed to be directed at Julianne: "You really can't say Say 'I love you' unless you're real. But once you're real, you should say it often. People always forget." Love needs to be expressed, in words, tenderness or domineering, and in action , It is not too considerate or high-profile. This is a truth that even children understand, but adults do not understand. Why?
Julianne made a big mistake when she gave up on Michael, but I think it will end up in a breakup sooner or later even if the two of them spend their time. Michael regards Julianne as a goddess, but the goddess is for admiration and worship, not for pampering, so Julianne can only be Michael's best friend, his confidante, his dream, not his favorite wife.
So where is the problem? In a series of uproars, we can see that the problem boils down to Julianne's attitude toward feelings. Julianne always deliberately concealed her side of a little woman other than a big woman, and always kept a distance from others so as not to fall into fanaticism and become unreasonable. She resists intimacy, pretends to be strong, pretends to be unrestrained, and protects herself, as if love is just a dispensable decoration in her beautiful life, while her cowardly, hesitant, uneasy, her worst and ugliest side is only in Only in front of gays.
Michael's fiancée is the exact opposite: as long as she loves, she can kiss and hug Michael generously in public without caring about other people's eyes; because Michael encourages her, she can sing love songs to Michael with a tone-deaf voice, And she doesn't mind making a fool of yourself and losing face; in order to stay by Michael's side, she can sacrifice her studies and career, instead of asking Michael to give up the job he loves; in order to save her relationship, she can compromise, apologize to Michael, and even admit that it wasn't her fault. . . . She moved Michael, made Michael feel distressed, made Michael crazy, and made Michael involuntarily want to take care of her, protect her, cherish her, give her happiness, and stay away from grievances and sorrows. Julianne is very disdainful of her little woman, and also thinks that it is not worth her to put Michael first in everything, but in front of this seemingly simple-minded silly big sister, Julianne's dignified, smart, strong, free and easy is simply ironic. This ridiculous irony even forced her to unleash her inner evil devil to do something disgusting, because she realized that even herself was touched by the cuteness and infatuation of this girl, and there was nothing else but extreme means He did it, but didn't realize that because of this, she had already lost.
Some feelings, if you miss them, you can't look back. For some people, once you turn around, you will have a lifetime. When you realize it is too late, you can only feel jealous and annoyed. So, don't let arrogance and fear drive away your true destiny, and don't implicitly put love in your heart, or try to use subtle hints to make the other party look for and guess, directly, say it, do it, and put the most real Show yourself!
ps: It's not too far from the age of 28. It would be a dream to marry before then. . . After watching this movie, it is inevitable to sigh with emotion, where have all the good men in this world gone? . .
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