How can love not start from spanking?

Jettie 2021-12-11 08:01:22

To tell the truth, I like the translation of "The Merry Boss and Pretty Secretary" more than the translation of "Secretary", with some approachable and incomprehensible "masochistic love", which feels more in line with the film itself's affirmation of this relationship rather than discrimination. . The heroine of the movie is not beautiful enough, and the figure is not enough for sex, but she has a temperament that you can hardly define, a beauty brought about by contradictions. She can have the eyes of a ten-year-old child and show you the smile of a 25-year-old woman at the same time. Magically magnified her charm, of course, thanks to her playing this role is a mental illness in the traditional sense. Since childhood, the family is not harmonious, the father is indulging in alcohol and has a tendency to violently self-harm, and the mother is weak and submissive. The elder sister is a sweet girl who doesn’t want anything. Under such pressure, the hostess grows up and releases her pressure through self-harm, and is finally admitted to a nursing home. After she was discharged from the hospital, she came to the male lead’s law firm as a secretary. Here we can talk about the male lead, the cheap lawyer in "Boston Law Firm". Yes, he is acting as a lawyer again, but this time is very different. The lawyer is a bit neurotic. I have seen several film reviews of this movie. Most people analyze that the male protagonist is an extremely strong and sadistic person, but I don’t think so. On the contrary, I think the male protagonist is neither strong nor strong. Like to be sadistic (the SM in this movie can only be called sex life embellishment is not abusive at all). At the beginning of the film, the male protagonist’s wife wants to divorce him. Restraining his emotions, when the hostess came in to apply for the job, the host asked her to come in, he tidied up his appearance hurriedly, and then stared at his beautiful eyes and asked the hostess, "This is a boring job, what do you think? Do you want to be my secretary?" When he said this, his eyelids trembled slightly like a child waiting to be reprimanded, and the hostess replied, "I like boredom." If you insist on saying that such a man who will inadvertently talk to you with trembling eyelids, he is strong, I can only ask you to see Mrs. Thatcher a hundred times. The hero is just shy, as he said "I' m shy". The audience sometimes has a bad problem. They don't listen carefully to what the character says, and always think what the character is. So he likes to keep a distance with people, and always remember that his performance that is not too intimate makes him think he is cold and strong. But in reality, the male protagonist is very kind. From the orchid he played with him, it can be seen that under the skin of this suit and leather shoes there is a boy who is a little shy, kind and inferior, so he tells her seriously after discovering the self-harm of the heroine. "Never hurt yourself like this again! ". But I don’t want to say that the male protagonist hits the female protagonist’s ass as "the male protagonist punishes herself for her in order to satisfy the female protagonist’s desire to punish her." This is so great, I prefer to simply understand this behavior-sexual attraction , But why not make love directly? Because the male protagonist is timid, he doesn't want to take on anyone's life. He has repeatedly asked his secretaries "Are you married?" ,Are you pregnant? Are you going to get pregnant? "Getting the "NO" answer, he feels relieved to hire them. From this we can see that the male protagonist does not want to establish a relationship with any woman, but Cupid does not care about this. All love is reminded with the most primitive sexual impulse at the beginning. For you, I am ready to come. So the male lead frantically slaps the female lead’s ass, masturbates to her hips but never makes love, here I want to praise these two acting skills, the male lead’s voice is really nice, But it’s not that “ears are going to be pregnant”, but a pure sexual attraction that is full of sexual attraction, which is completely contrary to the ethical feelings of childbirth. Only four peas and a spoonful of mashed potatoes" and the heroine gladly accepted this Nazi-like rule, but you can never say that the hero is Hitler, his nature is really shy and cowardly, so that his wife forced to come to the door and roar. When asked him to sign the divorce agreement, he hid in the closet in fear. But what? He became the king when he met the heroine, but this king is like the king that boys played games when they were young, a little bit Serious but very interesting. The story should be very sweet, but don’t forget, both of them are neurotic, so when the male protagonist discovered his love for the female protagonist, he almost conditioned to escape from the female protagonist. His low self-esteem made him feel that love would eventually hurt him, so he dismissed her. And the heroine became less and less distracted when making love with his boyfriend. This episode of the heroine made me laugh to death. Women always Men are perfunctory, but once a woman decides to perfuse a man, tsk tsk, and look at the expression of the heroine during sex, I will cry for this man. In the end, the heroine desperately blocked the hero in the office and confessed to him. As usual, the hero ordered the heroine to "put your hands on the table and feet on the ground not to leave. Wait for me to come back." Then, she was very embarrassed. Ran away, and the heroine kept this action like a loyal dog Hachiko. Waiting for the hero for three days and three nights. During the period, the hero hid behind the window and called the office. He saw the heroine try to answer the phone with his teeth. Without moving a bit, he went from shocked to unreasonable to finally put down his defenses and was conquered. Maybe you think that the love of loyal dogs is not love, but for a fragile boy like the male lead, this is all he expects. But how cunning and pitiful he was, he still couldn’t believe that the hostess loved him. He waited eagerly for three days and three nights. During the period, the hostess’s family, pastor, and even the last reporters all came and did not let the female host. Take the initiative, why does the heroine fall in love with this ruthless man? The heroine’s monologue gave a good reason. "I always endure torture in various ways. I don’t know why, but I know I’m not so scared now. This kind of pain is more painful than before. I find what I care about. People, people who play together, people I love deeply, this feeling suits me well, I hope he knows, I understand that he is suffering, and I want to love him. "Well, who else is after reading this kind of confession? Still indifferent? So the male lead returned to the female lead, picked her up, took her home, gave her a bath, and finally made love. But how cunning and pitiful he was, he still couldn’t believe that the hostess loved him. He waited eagerly for three days and three nights. During the period, the hostess’s family, pastor, and even the last reporters all came and did not let the female host. Take the initiative, why does the heroine fall in love with this ruthless man? The heroine’s monologue gave a good reason. "I always endure torture in various ways. I don’t know why, but I know I’m not so scared now. This kind of pain is more painful than before. I find what I care about. People, people who play together, people I love deeply, this feeling suits me well, I hope he knows, I understand that he is suffering, and I want to love him. "Well, who else is after reading this kind of confession? Still indifferent? So the male lead returned to the female lead, picked her up, took her home, bathed her, and finally made love. But how cunning and pitiful he was, he still couldn’t believe that the hostess loved him. He waited eagerly for three days and three nights. During the period, the hostess’s family, pastor, and even the last reporters all came and did not let the female host. Take the initiative, why does the heroine fall in love with this ruthless man? The heroine’s monologue gave a good reason. "I always endure torture in various ways. I don’t know why, but I know I’m not so scared now. This kind of pain is more painful than before. I find what I care about. People, people who play together, people I love deeply, this feeling suits me well, I hope he knows, I understand that he is suffering, and I want to love him. "Well, who else is after reading this kind of confession? Still indifferent? So the male lead returned to the female lead, picked her up, took her home, gave her a bath, and finally made love.
The story ends here. When I wrote this article, I deliberately weakened the psychological problems of the heroine and the heroine. One is because it is not serious. The heroine’s slight self-harm, and the heroine’s self-enclosure. I believe that every modern person , Everyone who has experienced some feelings will more or less see their own shadows in two people, so there is no need to deliberately alienate them. What is important is love, and what is love? I can’t explain it, but I agree with the statement in "War and Peace" that "love originally exists between two excellent people, but now people make it normal." The male lead and the female lead. Although they are not excellent people in the traditional sense, they are profound people. They carefully taste their own pain. Even when they are on the verge of collapse, they have never harmed others, and at most self-harm. Such people are absolutely not even if they are not excellent. Superficial, so I believe that what happened between them is love. As for SM or sadomasochism, I remembered a passage from Wittgenstein, “It’s not so much that people around you are inferior, it is better to say that they are narrow and scary. Because they always misunderstand. Some people are not stupid but narrow. In They are smart enough in their field. But they lack quality and thus lack tolerance.” So, this is just a love story of a romantic boss, Qiao Secretary. It is special but not special.

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  • Kasey 2021-12-11 08:01:22

    Two perverts that can be understood each other...It’s not easy to get spanked when you go to work...My favorite is the scene where the lawyer slapped the hostess’s ass... After all, it's too extreme sadomasochism, this kind of movie can't be appreciated

  • Frieda 2022-03-26 09:01:06

    http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/XmQtZUD-My8/

Secretary quotes

  • [Mr. Grey interviews Lee again about being his secretary]

    E. Edward Grey: Do you really wanna be my secretary?

    Lee: Yes, I do.

    E. Edward Grey: This isn't just about typos, tapes, staples and pencils, is it, Lee?

    Lee: No, sir.

    E. Edward Grey: What?

    Lee: No, sir!

  • [Mr. Grey hands Lee her last check before telling her to leave]

    E. Edward Grey: I'm so sorry for what happened between us. I realize what a terrible mistake, I made with you. And I can only hope that you understand. Be assured you can count on me for excellent references.

    E. Edward Grey: [Lee begins to cry] Get out.

    E. Edward Grey: [Lee starts to sniffle] Get out.

    Lee: What are you doing...

    E. Edward Grey: [Mr. Grey yells out] Get out!