Start from the heart to start over

Marquise 2022-04-21 09:02:15

Ask friends to help download movies on the school's website (in the same dormitory, I don't know why her download speed is my ten times). Signed up with her for the title of the movie, and she just listened to the name and said that all the movies you like to watch...? She didn't think of the right words, but I could also use... to get her meaning.

"Reign Over Me" is my type, I'm the kind of person who doesn't cry on weekdays, but needs to bring a tissue or a towel when it comes to movies and TV. Weird!

The movie is based on 911. I imagine that time flies so fast. On September 11, 2001, nearly 8 years have passed in the blink of an eye. 8 years? !

Eight years is long enough for those of us who have not been there to leave the impact or pain of the disaster beyond the sky. However, eight years seems not long enough for those who have been hurt in the disaster to come out of their inner shadows completely.

Chalie is one of them who is still in the cloudy day.
He rides Scooter every day, wears headphones, collects vinyl records, works as a drummer at the bar, plays video games at home, keeps remodeling the kitchen...no friends, no Language communication, completely living in a safe world created by oneself.

Allen seems to have a happy family and a rich income, but he is under great depression and feels that he has lost himself.

In fact, it is true that everyone is more or less mentally ill.
Compared to Chalie's tragic loss of his wife and children, Allen's problems seem trivial.
But in fact, when faced with psychological distress, everyone will suffer great pain and suffering.

The story makes them meet. They are former college roommates. When Allen discovers Chalie's autistic tendencies, he hopes that he can help him out of the haze. Riding a skateboard together, playing electric games together, watching an all-night movie together, and giving a concert for two people at home together...

I was very moved to see two people playing a concert at home. I don't know, but I can feel what it is like A catharsis and joy!

Gradually, Chalie trusted Allen as a friend, and slowly began to face her own problems.

Didn't like the ending part of the movie. Why were those people in court so aggressively provoking him? Why did his in-laws insist on putting him in a mental hospital?
His parents-in-law kept saying that they were his only relatives, but completely ignored his feelings. It was the homeowner who claimed to be a "witch" in court who handed Chalie the earphones for a moment of silence!

I also don't like the fact that Saffron Burrows is arranged to enter his world so quickly at the end, it's so unreasonable!

I was wondering if Chalie tried to kill himself after he first told Allen a story he never dared to face,
would it be a relief for him if the police actually shot him at that time? Is it good for him to force him to come out of his own safe world? ...

sometimes the life we ​​think is good for others is not necessarily what they want, or what is right for them! It's really what he wants to do from his heart.

It really takes a lot of mental strength and courage to come out of this kind of pain, and you can start anew from the heart.

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  • Shaina 2022-03-27 09:01:08

    2009.3.16 I watched it with my husband, it was so touching. A book I recently read, "A Cry Unheard", is very concerned about the health of widowed, divorced, and single-living people. Lonely heartbreak is also an important cause of premature death. In the United States, more than 3 million people die each year due to cardiovascular disease caused by loneliness. . The easiest way to protect a person's health is to communicate with him in a sincere, loving, understanding and tolerant way, so as to free him from helpless loneliness.

  • Kayli 2022-03-23 09:02:00

    The two-hour movie passed in those two small scooters and music. The two men also have a closed and delicate heart. Regardless of the background and meaning of the movie, the process of inner liberation makes people feel A feeling and realization, i like this movie~

Reign Over Me quotes

  • Charlie Fineman: [Charlie, Alan and Nigel are all eating at a diner. Charlie is well aware of what Nigel really is; a therapist. He continues to ask questions toward Nigel] I noticed in the record store, you were holding up a Bob Seger album. You a Seger man, Nigel?

    Nigel Pennington: [Brief pause] Love Seger, yes.

    Charlie Fineman: Yeah. Smokin' O.p's, Mongrel... When'd you get into him?

    Nigel Pennington: [Looks down and looks back at Charlie] Probably later.

    Charlie Fineman: Silver Bullet, or Seger System?

    Nigel Pennington: Well, actually, I-I don't like either of those albums.

    Charlie Fineman: That's funny, 'cause they're not albums. Those are his bands.

    [Alan looks down at the realization that Charlie knows Nigel is a therapist and that Nigel lied to him]

    Charlie Fineman: Seger's an artist. A genius. An American original. And what are *you*, Nigel? A therapist? Is that it? You're sizing me up. You're on the case, now you're gonna *fix* me?

    Nigel Pennington: No, look, I was out for a... a nice afternoon; I ran into my old friend...

    Charlie Fineman: Oh, bullshit! You *stink* like a shrink. You got shrink hands. You ordered your salad like a shrink.

    Alan Johnson: Okay, let's stop. This was my mistake.

    Nigel Pennington: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, this is good.

    Alan Johnson: No, no, it was my mista...

    Nigel Pennington: No, a-a-a-and... how does a shrink order his salad?

    Alan Johnson: Don't, Nigel.

    Nigel Pennington: In your opinion, I'd like to know.

    Charlie Fineman: [Immediately stands off his chair and confronts Nigel. He tightens his hands, and tenses his shoulders as he stands over him] Let's go outside right now. I'm gonna beat your ass. I will BEAT your ass, shrink wrap!

    [People in the diner wearily look over]

    Charlie Fineman: "Seger fan?" You'd get you ass kicked in a fucking Seger concert!

    Alan Johnson: Charlie - !

    Charlie Fineman: Get the fuck up! Get up! I made you in the record store the minute I saw your dorky face. OUTSIDE!

    Alan Johnson: Okay, Charlie. Calm down.

    Charlie Fineman: [Charlie's breath becomes heavy after unleashing his rage toward Nigel. He looks at Alan and stares at him; it was then that he realized, Alan planned the whole meeting with Nigel. Feeling betrayed and lied to, he makes his way out of the diner by storming through the now silent eatery] You liar!

    [He then swung the glass door open and left]

  • Alan Johnson: [Leaving Angela's office] You OK?

    Charlie Fineman: Yeah. Just make sure they never schedule me near that girl, all right? I would... No, it's just I never wanna see her again. That's trouble. She's too good-looking. I just... Nobody has a right to look that good. She's just trouble for everybody.

    Alan Johnson: [laughing] OK, Charlie.