Sex, Love, and the Sad Presence of Humanity

Margarita 2022-04-24 07:01:12

When Seligman started talking about those feminist rhetoric at the end, I thought it was too cliche, but it didn't disappoint me at the end. Sex has always been the most primal and strongest driving force (one?) of human beings. Seligman knows so much, I still feel sorry for him. Some things are human instinct, please openly accept your existence as a human being.

When I finally felt that Joe didn't shoot J because of subconscious love, and she was actually a "good person" at heart, the end of the movie told me that I still know too little about human beings and think human beings are too simple. Joe is really a warrior who insists on himself, a brave human being. But I don't know if this level of bravery and ego is "right". She said that most people are too stupid to deserve democracy, and insisted on calling black people negro, which made me think, is it really stupid that we talk about political correctness every day? Or fall into a set trap, in which some hypocritical humans fall into it and are full of superiority and complacent.

Self-confidence is really a precious human quality, but when Joe shoots people for it, I start to doubt it again. But if you insist that you have limits, you will undoubtedly set a framework for human beings. "Others", "Others", moral codes, society are all frameworks. After thinking about it, human beings are really not free to live. If you are not free, there are still so many of the same kind who are unwilling to accept their own instincts as human beings, unwilling to admit that human beings cannot be spotless. So many such hypocritical human beings and "I" coexist in a cage, making the human survival situation even more difficult.

Thinking about it this way, maybe the only antidote is love. In the first part, Joe's friend B said to her "the secret ingredient to sex is love", I think it may be more than sex, love is the only antidote to the sad existence of human beings.

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Nymphomaniac: Vol. II quotes

  • Joe: Dear everyone, don't think it's been easy, but I understand now that we're not and never will be alike.

    [to Tania]

    Joe: I'm not like you, who fucks to be validated and might just as well give up putting cocks inside of you. You already got your bloody kick a long time ago when it turned out that someone was even bothered to fuck you.

    [to Brunhelda]

    Joe: And I'm not like you. Eat yourself to death if you want. I have no pity for you. All you want is to be filled up and whether it's by a man or by tons of disgusting slop makes no difference because it's all just a pathetic attempt at filling out your own resounding emptiness and hiding your ridiculous egocentric self-loathing.

    [to the Therapist]

    Joe: And I'm definitely not like you. That empathy you claim is a lie because all you are is society's morality police whose duty is to erase my obscenity from the surface of the Earth so that the bourgeoisie won't feel sick.

    [to the entire group]

    Joe: I'm not like you. I am a nymphomaniac and I love myself for being one, but above all, I love my cunt and my filthy, dirty lust.

  • Joe: By the way, I can assure you that women who claim that negroes don't turn them on, are lying.

    Seligman: So do they satisfy you, those negroes?

    Joe: No, but they showed me there was a world far from mine I had to explore. And there perhaps on the other side get my life back.