Give your loved ones freedom - home is more important than country

Helmer 2022-04-21 09:02:15

Sadik, a rebellious young man who was his son (Turkish, meaning loyalty), left home and became a left-wing journalist, working hard for the future of the country. Sadly, on the night his wife gave birth, a military coup occurred, causing the phone to fail and go to the hospital. There was no car on the road, and he gave birth on the lawn beside the road. After giving birth to his son, his wife died of hemorrhage.
Later, sadik was persecuted because of his speech. When his son was 7 years old, he lost his job. At the same time, for other reasons, sadik had to go back to his hometown. It turned out that due to the persecution in prison, Sadik suffered from lung disease. Time was running out. The hometown is mainly for the son to have a home and be able to grow up, but he must face his father.
Sadik has always been the pride of his father. He loves his son very much. After sadik left home, he always locked himself in a mysterious little house. Watching movies when Sandik was young and family life, his father couldn't understand why his son didn't listen to his words. He went to study agro-engineering and he became left wing.
Sadik, who came home again, did not want to give up his ideals. Although he "did a lot for this country, the country gave him nothing". The tragedy is that the country has lung disease. . sadik loves this family, and likes the love of this family built by his father, the only thing he is dissatisfied with is that his father cannot give him freedom, so he just goes home and prays that his father can give his son a home so that he can grow up freely.

"Give him a room, Dad. Give him a home, let him come and go... I have so many things to tell him, you tell him, tell him..."

Looking at the smart grandson, He looks like his son when he was young, smart and inquisitive, likes to read, and likes this grandson very much. Because of his stubbornness, he is still unwilling to forgive his son, hoping that his son can admit his mistakes.
When the son passed out in front of him, the role of the father was truly revealed. The head of the family was strong in pain, and his love for his son broke out completely, so that his son could go away with peace of mind and no regrets, and found his old lover. Reconciling with his son, the father thought of such small details.
After his son passed away, he returned to the country from the hospital. At the entrance of the village, his father's feelings had collapsed, and he even went crazy. He tore his clothes, shirtless, and wailed:

"If I stood here like this at that time, if I was like this at that time. Open arms like this, if I stopped him at that time, if I told him not to go. Fifteen years ago, if I stood here like this, Nuran, if I stopped Sadik...if I was like this at the time Hold him, if I stop my son...then he won't leave! He'll stay! I wish I didn't say anything at that time... I hope I kept my mouth shut at that time. I killed him! I didn't stop him!"

An old man was saddened by his self-blame and tears. His aunt pulled up his eldest son and made him pretend to rush out of the village, rushing towards Father, rushed past her father and ran away from the village, she said, if not, her father would never be able to be freed. This collision really brought her father back from the brink of collapse and regret.

"Have you seen it? No one can stop you from leaving alone!"

The old father has to take on the task of raising his grandson. The grandson is silent all day because of his father's departure. Can the old father bring him safety and happiness?

Rebellion, the contradiction between father and son, is being staged in every family, and this film is very good.

PS: This family is a happy family, quarreling all day, but it is not a serious problem. The mother is careless, because of the muddy mud of the family and the relationship, the eldest son is a little brainless, but after being educated by this family, his family is right. The brother's affection is very deep.
In addition, does this film have another meaning: the country is too far away from you, you should still love your family and do more for him.

Finally, to borrow the title of a book: Give Your Loved Ones Freedom!

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  • Maggie 2021-12-14 08:01:14

    For me, who has extremely high tears, such a superficial, less delicate and moving movie about family affection does not touch me at all. At the beginning, I was forced to endure boredom and hope for this movie, which has a score of 9.0, which has made thousands of fans burst into tears. It turned out to be really disappointing. I watched while wandering, and scooped my feet while watching.

  • Dan 2021-12-14 08:01:14

    Going home is always the last choice

My Father and My Son quotes

  • Sadik: Give him a room, a place to stay dad; he has nowhere to go!

  • Sadik: Did you forgive me?

    Sadik's Girlfriend: Of course I did Sadik, why wouldn't one forgive?