Growth has nothing to do with age©

Eli 2022-12-20 12:07:39

"It was the time to look to the future" — Young Adult (2011)

Young Adult (2011) isn't strictly a comedy as advertised. The reason is that the jokes in the movie are really poor. On the contrary, there is a hint of sadness behind its light story all the time. The film revolves around the heroine Mavis (Charlize Theron). At thirty-seven, she's a ghostwriter of teenage stories. After the divorce from her husband, she only had a Pomeranian puppy for her company. After receiving a group email from ex-boyfriend Buddy (Patrick Wilson), he begins to believe that his favorite is still the ex-boyfriend who is married and has children. At the same time, she also firmly believes that Matt still has lingering affection for her. In order to get Buddy back, she returns to the hometown she hates, and begins her journey to win someone else's husband. In a small town, she reunites with old schoolmates and Buddy, only to discover that the past is gone. However, those days made her finally understand that what she really needed was the courage to face the future.

Mavis, played by the beauty Theron, always appears so aggressive to outsiders, but beneath her proud surface hides a deep sense of unease and loss. In front of her peers, her well-dressed always makes her look so young and insignificant; when she's alone, she's so raunchy and sloppy. In the eyes of the townspeople, she is a writer capable of surviving in a big city; however, she herself knows that she is just a ghostwriter (as the saying goes, a gunman), and her works have been eliminated from the market. She was alcoholic, manic, mean and headstrong. But at the same time, she was so lonely, depressed and hopeless. All of this made her a little unstoppable. Although she was clearly aware of her psychological problems, she chose the wrong way to escape. Indeed, in front of the town people, her status as a writer, a beauty, and an urbanite all gave her the illusion that she was superior to others. And Hello Kitty's T-shirt, ex-boyfriend's sports jacket, or the move back to town are all testimony to her trying to go back to her teenage years, the days when she was brilliant at school. At the same time, as a mature woman with few close friends, her works are faced with an unknown gunman who has been removed from the shelves, and a loner with a failed marriage. This kind of vanity created by illusion reflects her loneliness, emptiness and low self-esteem. Her every move in front of and behind people makes people feel her pathetic and pitiful.

Whether in reality or in movies, everyone faces the problem of self-growth. Regardless of age, gender, occupation, personality, and the hurdles in life are all the time. Mavis in the movie scolded the old alumni several times: "What's your problem?" And I believe that she understands the real meaning of this sentence better: "What's my problem?" It is undeniable that, like Mavis, many people do not understand Why other people can always find happiness, but I feel more and more happy is a difficult thing. Mavis, who was at a low point in his life, needed a way to be recognized. So she searched, but ended up trapping herself in the past. Fortunately, the film did not make Mavis unable to extricate himself. But let her vent, see the present she has, and let her start to learn how to face the future. What about us in real life? Can you also face the future happily and bravely, and accept all kinds of unsatisfactory challenges in the process of growing up?

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Young Adult quotes

  • Mavis Gary: Hey, do you know this girl named Beth? She married Buddy Slade from school.

    Sandra Freehauf: Yeah, I know that Beth.

    Mavis Gary: What do you think of her?

    Sandra Freehauf: I don't really like her. I mean, I think you're way prettier than she is. What happened to your dress? I'm sorry, did I say something wrong? Shit. What's wrong? What did I say?

    Mavis Gary: I have a lot of problems.

    Sandra Freehauf: Can't you get a new dress?

    Mavis Gary: It's really difficult for me to be happy. And then for other people it just seems so simple. I know. They just grow up and they're so fulfilled.

    Sandra Freehauf: I don't feel fulfilled. And frankly, if you don't feel fulfilled with all the stuff that you have.

    Mavis Gary: I need to change, Sandra.

    Sandra Freehauf: No you don't.

    Mavis Gary: What?

    Sandra Freehauf: You're the only person in Mercury who could write a book or wear a dress like that.

    Mavis Gary: I'm sure there's plenty of other people who could.

    Sandra Freehauf: Everyone here is fat and dumb.

    Mavis Gary: Don't say that. I mean, you think so?

    Sandra Freehauf: Everyone wishes that they could be like you. You know, living in the big city all famous and beautiful and all that.

    Mavis Gary: I'm not really famous.

    Sandra Freehauf: Well, you know, special or whatever. I mean, some days when I have a slow shift at work I'll sit and think about you living in your cool apartment, going out and stuff. It seems really nice.

    Mavis Gary: Yeah, but most people here seem so happy with so little. It's like they don't even seem to care what happens to them.

    Sandra Freehauf: That's because it doesn't matter what happens to them. They're nothing. Might as well die. Fuck Mercury.

  • Sandra Freehauf: Take me with you.

    Mavis Gary: Excuse me?

    Sandra Freehauf: Take me with you. To the Mini Apple.

    Mavis Gary: You're good here, Sandra.