It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes - Barney's life

Conrad 2022-04-19 09:03:03

I watched Barney's Life in the middle of the night last night. I watched it casually at first, and often thought it was a peaceful film. Happy New Year, but not so. . I burst into tears after watching it. I was vainly surprised at
Barney, who was a little confused and very emotional. For the goddess to keep running on the wedding night, intercepting the train, trying to use some of my own power, trying to impress the goddess, after marriage, a rose every week, sent to New York, won the goddess's favor, after the divorce, forced to Going to New York in a hurry, in order to win a woman's smile, he kept talking, and others used their own words to cover up their clumsy expressions, and kept letting time pass~~~

The first paragraph of Barney's first love: absurd marriage

Barney's The first marriage was with a bohemian literary girl. When he learned that the girl was pregnant, Barney was not opposed to the crowd and questioned marrying the girl. At the wedding, the girl told Barney that he had two children. I was stunned, but still married the girl. I never thought that this was just a joke from the girl. Barney, who was about to become a father, was blank when the doctor asked him if he had leukemia and questioned the father of the child. Barney was thinking, his life, maybe the union with the girl was just for the impulse at that time, a
few days later, but when he saw the girl's letter, he hurried away, but the girl insisted on committing suicide in such a violent way, as Barney apologized. , Barney was in grief, the unexpected arrival of his father-in-law, the accusation against Barney, the grief for his deceased wife, made the angry Barney drive him away, Barney understood the girl's situation, in the hopeless and helpless girl's eyes Come on, Barney makes his life motivation, helpless, do not understand, question it, make the girl who is a little sensitive and a little vulnerable, to prove her love by death. Barney has always kept the girl's painting, a portrait of a naked man with horns, in his home, hiding his love in his heart.

The second marriage with a rich girl: the lost self

Barney's second marriage, Barney's second marriage, with a Jewish woman with a master's degree, the girl is a rich daughter, but she was married to Barney Attraction, flash marriage, but Barney had the love of his life at his own wedding. This is something.
The story of the two begins with money, a rich girl, who keeps chatting to Barney, from the first honeymoon, the woman's nagging, dragging the map, browsing ancient Rome, being despised by Barney, and non-stop during the honeymoon period. Talk to the family, discuss the little things about my father, and have some thoughts with my mother. In the opinion of the self-righteous Barney, the ugliness of women can be seen at a glance. Maybe Barney is ordinary like a passer-by in your life. There are all kinds of pursuits for ideals, and for money, material, and various requirements, I always think that a wife who has achieved all kinds of information is my favorite, but after contact, I realized that in my ordinary life, there is still a desire for ideals. Perhaps, what they need is just a little bit of informality, a little comfort, and a little bit of talk, but the tacit understanding between each other is enough. Helpless, the young wife does not understand some of Barney's small literature and art. The world is like Barney, who doesn't understand the little thoughts of life~~~~ This kind of story finally ends with Barney's escape~ In
an occasional accident, Barney finds out that his wife is having an affair with his friend. In addition to being surprised, Barney is more joyful. Maybe he has found a reason to divorce immediately, and can give himself an excuse to leave, but his strong self-esteem drives Barney to choose, vent with friends, get drunk with friends, The drunk friend learned that his first wife had also had a stubborn past with his friend. Barney was shocked, crying, and by the river, while comforting his friend, don't go into the water, while in confusion, he shot the gun Aiming at a friend~~~ Meet


Millie in the third paragraph~The beginning of a new life


Barney met the girl he thought at his second wife's wedding party, or at his own wedding. Thought, but sadly beside the audience, the high-ranking woman, the radio anchor Miriam, and Millie passed Barney's wedding like a goddess. As an invited guest, Millie left a small note to let the whole Canada all wished them happiness, but Barney was confused by the note, abandoned his self-esteem, and hurriedly found Millie who was about to leave in the crowd, expressing his determination to elope with her, as ridiculous as Barney, Millie smiled slightly, and chose. Refuse. Perhaps for Millie, who deeply saw that her mother was hurt by her father, Barney was just a juvenile madness, perhaps just a hurried encounter in the crowd, not love at first sight, but more of a hormonal stimulation~
After marrying a rich girl, Barney still sends a weekly bouquet of roses to Millie who is far away in New York. What kind of emotion does Millie feel in her heart? She sighs at Barney's deep affection, but also doubts her motives. . Millie's father abandoned Millie's mother and daughter when she was young and chose to run away. Under the protection of her mother's love, Millie has learned to be strong, and more is to wrap her tightly in the so-called literature, the so-called novels. Inside, do not eat human fireworks, do not look at mortals. Such a noble woman attracted Barney~ Although Barney smoked, drank heavily, and did not read literature at all, let alone comprehend, all communication with the goddess came from small cards.
After the divorce, Barney, the first thing that came to his mind was to fly to New York. Barney, who hadn't met Millie for a while, chose to rely on alcohol to gather courage. Although he thought about it, he was too nervous. Actually drunk, because in the first meeting of the goddess, all kinds of vomiting and all kinds of confusion. Vomiting wildly in the hotel, in front of the goddess, I can't help myself at all. After waking up, Barney continued to chat with the girl about the story in the small card, looking forward to such a short speech that could impress the goddess. Even if he stops for a second to satisfy his little vanity,
Barney is vain. The second wife with a high degree of education, the talented Millie, always chooses to satisfy Barney's thirst for culture under his ordinary appearance. , but it is true that what it pursues is only an appearance. After the marriage, Emily hosted celebrities at home to discuss culture, even if it was a simple exchange, Barney couldn't answer, either as a perfunctory drunk, or couldn't help falling asleep at the party, Millie was powerless to complain about Barney's performance. Barney still missed Millie's first radio recording because of drinking and watching ice hockey, and missed Millie's many interviews. Perhaps in an ordinary life, Barney wants a share of vanity.
While unable to communicate, Barney chose the red light district on the street. Occasionally betrayed, Millie chose to leave. Barney, who regretted endlessly, was stunned. Although they are eager to communicate with Millie, but they have completely different interests and living habits, in the decades after their marriage, when love gradually recedes, Barney's story may also be quietly changing. Millie chose to leave without the slightest stay. The son's words awakened Barney, not worthy of it. From the son's point of view, the combination of Barney and his mother was a mistake. The two people with such a huge difference in life concept and educational level, from the son's point of view, the combination was a mistake.
His wife Millie, after the divorce, married a man who also loves literature, a man who pursues Millie hard, but the difference is that she and Millie share the same hobbies and pursuits in literature, perhaps It should have ended like this~~~ Barney Barney
, who lost his memory, began to lose his memory. He rushed into the studio in a daze, and yelled at the actress, accusing her of delusional thinking on the way to perform, and kept thinking of it.


, a friend who has long since passed away, after various strange symptoms appeared, the doctor told him that his memory was declining. Barney began to stop working and recuperate at home. I still remember, I still remember Millie back then. After forgetting the way home and his name, Barney always remembers, remembers Millie's youthful appearance, and Barney, who always wanted to meet Millie, accompanied by his son. , went to New York, and saw his ex-wife Millie again, as elegant as Millie in the past, but Barney lost his memory. In the hotel room, Barney sat there, facing the knife and fork in front of him, unable to recall, he should How to use it? Millie saw this scene. She was surprised. She held the knife for Barney and patiently taught him how to use the knife and fork. Seeing this scene, Millie's heart was broken. Barney, just like Barney who thinks about sending himself flowers every week, has forgotten the basics of life. Maybe they didn't accompany them to the end of their lives, but the past of the years is unforgettable. Mi Li never remembered that Barney was forgetting everything, but vaguely remembered his own, remembered his youthful appearance. Remember to grab a small note and write famous quotes to communicate with Milly.
Barney bought a cemetery for himself and Millie. In order to be with Millie forever, in Barney's twilight years, he chose a future cemetery for himself and Millie, perhaps inspired by his father. Barney's father was a lovely old man. When he was choosing a cemetery for himself, he said, "I'm not alone, you see." Compared with the so-and-so who was buried next door, he was still a bachelor when he was old, and he was still alone when he died. How wonderful that Barney's father could be with his mother after he passed away. Barney also chose a cemetery for himself and Millie. When their marriage was going well, Millie mocked that the cemetery she bought was a joke. After remembering your past, you can imagine that it can still be with your goddess, his former wife, whether you are moved by it.

Feelings~~~ Living at the moment

, we are still young, not yet the age of Barney, but there are always some people in life, meet in a hurry, or be young and crazy, or fall in love at first sight, those who agreed to work together Friends who have gone through every stage of life, are busy with work, or have little contact, those lovers who say they want to live forever, or those who end up with each other for the rest of their lives, but not the original choice of each other, those who have reached the end, or Just kidding, a couple that makes people feel completely unreliable. Maybe this is life. Maybe not like Barney. Life is two hours of power, or decades of time. During this period, I also had dreams and pursuits, but under the pressure of reality, under the pressure, or thinking about it. Going far in a better direction, or having a different ending, but such a past, life, no one has walked for you, a new year has come, what kind of expectations do you have in this year? Hope there is no regret. ~~~~

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  • Constantin 2022-03-23 09:03:23

    He lived a life worth living and he met a woman worth loving. That's all about being born as we only go around once, my friend.

  • Bernard 2022-03-20 09:03:00

    Unpopular but worth watching movie

Barney's Version quotes

  • Izzy: You're married to a well-bred woman who is loaded, who makes a nice, flaky kugel, has a beautiful rack... and many successful marriages have been built on far less.

  • Miriam: Are you out of your mind?

    Barney Panofsky: No! I'm bent over backwards in love!