The male protagonist and the female protagonist love each other, which is actually a consensus. Any intimate relationship will experience a variety of problems in the process of building, and dealing with these problems is what we call running-in. The problem is that there are differences and distances in the attitudes and methods adopted by the two people in the process of running in. This difference and distance is caused by the differences in their respective personalities. Male protagonists tend to "cold treatment" when they encounter complex problems, such as the female protagonist's depression during pregnancy and postpartum depression. Depression is not a simple emotional problem, but a series of physiological reactions. A depressed patient cannot Depression can be cured by telling yourself that you should control your emotions. Having children is a matter of two people, but instead of choosing to face and bear the pressure with each other, he escapes alone, leaving the problem to the heroine who is already in a vulnerable period. He also failed to properly handle the relationship between himself and his previous relationship partner, and also concealed his financial problems and drug addiction history. When these problems hit the heroine who was depressed during pregnancy and childbirth like a mountain, the heroine's collapse was inevitable. of.
The problem with the heroine is that she has a sense of inferiority deep in her heart from the very beginning. She feels that she is not beautiful enough, not sexy enough, and can't compare to the former girlfriends of the hero. Even if she is knowledgeable, motivated, and smart. She has an infatuation complex with the male protagonist. Because of her infatuation, she always follows and backs down. In terms of principle, she always passes by so-so without communicating and expressing her dissatisfaction in time. In fact, she is also vaguely aware of the relationship. There are problems in the relationship, but she always finds excuses for the other party and compromises again and again, but compromise does not mean running-in, running-in is both sides, not a tug of war in which one side chases the other.
There is a theory in psychology called "attachment type", which roughly divides people into four different attachment types, two of which are "avoidant attachment" and "obsessive attachment", which are closely related to the characters of the male and female protagonists in this film. There are many similarities. If these two types of people are together, it is easy to form a relationship like this "love and kill each other", but these two types of people are also the easiest to attract each other, just like the men and women in this film. Like the protagonist. This theory is very interesting. If you are interested, you can learn about it, which will help us manage our intimate relationships more healthily.
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