of-"Hope Springs" perception
"Hope Springs" (Chinese translation "Hope Springs") is an American lifestyle film, the male and female protagonists are played by the Oscar winners. Arnold (Tommy Lee Jones) and Kay (Meryl Streep) are a couple who have been married for 31 years. The two have been splitting rooms for many years and they have turned a blind eye to each other. In order to regain the love, his wife Kay and her husband Arnold embarked on a week-long "marriage salvation journey." Marriage therapist Feld (Steve Carell) unceremoniously keeps an eye on the sexual problems between husband and wife, and prescribes a series of treatment tasks: from sleeping in a hug to oral sex in the cinema... such treatment Although embarrassing the old couple and wife, they finally rekindled their love.
"Rolling Stone" magazine commented: "The revelation of the old couple in the film who rediscovered their life will never be out of date." Through physical communication, the couple's rediscovered life revelation is: love is made. Husband and wife love is not a vain conjecture, but a real contact: eyes condensed, breath blended, ears and temples rubbed together, lips pressed against tongue, skin touched, limbs lingering, yin and yang fit.
However, in China, it seems that most people agree with this view: marriage is the tomb of love, and love turns into family affection after marriage. In traditional Chinese marriages, the ideal relationship between husband and wife is to respect each other as guests. The main responsibility of the husband and wife is to raise the family and raise the children. In real life, couples who have been married for more than 5 years seldom make intimacy actions on a daily basis. They hardly kiss or hug outside of sex. Many couples are very secretive about sex and never discuss each other.
I remember one time when I was doing a program on Guangzhou TV, I suggested that "couples should kiss and hug every day." An old man in the audience couldn't help picking up a microphone on the spot and retorted: "Kiss can't be eaten!" Kiss really can't fill up his stomach. , But Kiss is an excellent food for the soul. As the saying goes, couples "moist each other", "mo" means wet, "mo" means saliva, and literally means "moist each other with saliva"-isn't it just kissing? Without kissing, how can couples get in touch with each other?
Some people will say: "Kissing and hugging are all you need when you are in love. Does it need every day? Love doesn't need form." In my opinion, kissing and hugging are essential forms of love and should gradually form a habit. Because love is still a kind of belief, just like religious belief, the more devout you are to love, the longer it will last. Christians are grateful for three meals a day, Muslims pray five times a day, and Buddhists are inseparable from "Amitabha." Forms and habits can enhance faith and conviction.
Someone will ask: "When I can't do it, is there still love?" There is a plot in the film: the husband carefully arranges the feast and the room, but when the husband and wife get close, he finds that he is inhumane and very embarrassed; the wife thinks that she has lost her husband. Attractive, very distressed, and the idea of breaking up suddenly emerged. In fact, my brother is soft, but his mouth is not soft, and his hands are not soft. There are many solutions. If there is good communication between husband and wife in terms of sex, why is there a barrier for this?
I wish the whole world a hundred years of marriage! A hundred years of love is not enough? Continue to do it in the next life!
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