This movie not only made me play a handsome and gentle man like my husband Michael in the film of Infinite YY, Andy Garcia was also thinking about the problem of getting along between two people.
Most people always do things that they feel are good for each other, but often ignore each other's needs and feelings, especially in the relationship between men and women. Then I discovered how I wanted to do so much for you, and didn't get your gratitude. Instead, I got complaints and dissatisfaction. As a result, I was full of anger and resentment. So this became the beginning of countless disputes and even countless unhappy endings.
One of my favorite scenes in the film was that when two people were on vacation in Mexico, in the outdoor swimming pool, Michael held Alice around in a circle and told her that he had encountered any problems and told me. How can a relationship go far? I used to believe that between a man and a woman, as long as two people are honest with each other and are willing to communicate with each other when they encounter problems, there will be no big problems. This is a good way to keep the relationship long. Later, I discovered that when encountering problems, even if two people are willing to talk, they may not be able to talk clearly, because two different people have different values and have different understanding of many things. Communicate and understand each other's ideas, but without mutual tolerance, without some necessary compromises and concessions, the problem still cannot be solved. Therefore, this method of communication is not necessarily useful. Later, after a long time, the two people no longer want to communicate frequently. In many cases, they just hide their dissatisfaction with each other in their hearts and accumulate to a certain point, and there will be an outbreak. So the original dispute turned into a quarrel. Then one day, one of them does not want to go on like this, stand up and say, let's separate. Just like Michael and Alice, they began to wonder if each other is suitable for life.
I have always felt that the most beautiful relationship is that two people can experience ups and downs together and grow up together. However, in reality, how many feelings can withstand various tests? It is always said that feelings are the most vulnerable. Whether it is between boyfriends and girlfriends, or between husband and wife, the road in life is so long and life is so changeable, there will always be all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, and there will always be various changes. In the face of all this, it is too difficult to always remember the initial commitment to each other, always believe in each other, and strengthen each other's feelings.
After being separated for a period of time, Michael and Alice finally understood their inability to part with each other, figured out the problem of getting along with each other, and finally reunited with each other. Perhaps, sometimes such a certain distance and time can make people wonder what they should cherish.
However, don't spend too much time, don't leave too far away, otherwise when you look back, what you cherish may not be in the same place.
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