"I personally think that the feminist movement must have more dreams than eliminating women's oppression. She must dream of eliminating mandatory sexual desire and gender roles. I think the most inspiring dream is to build a male and female one, genderless ( But it’s not asexual) society, in which a person’s sexual physiology has nothing to do with who the person is, what he does, or whom he has sex with."
The male protagonist in this world is named Damien, who wears Qi dick shorts every day and falls in love with the overbearing president who is rich and handsome with abdominal muscles. Oh, no, it's the queen Alexandra.
Damien felt that Alexandra loved him too, after all, she had promised to marry him. Alexandra is Damien's boss. What Damien doesn't know is that his boss not only has a hidden marriage, but also has a child. Poor Damien, just like this "being the mistress".
Before Damien became Alexandra's secretary, he resigned because of sexual harassment in the workplace and replaced him as a secretary who was a good friend of paternity leave.
Before Damien fell in love with the overbearing queen, he had a rough life, never dressing himself up. His father was always worried that he could not find a woman to rely on, so it was commonplace to be "urged to marry" and "to give birth to a baby". He earnestly hoped that his son would live with others in addition to living with cats.
Damien’s good friends came over with a married person and said, you should put on eye masks, face masks, make beauty and manicures; wear panties that raise eggs, use cushions with hips; you must wear conservatively, never Wear transparent clothes, let alone topless; as for the body hair that has not evolved well like a monkey, it must be shaved cleanly in order to enhance personal charm, to make appointments and catch up with female votes.
Sure enough, "There are no ugly men, only lazy men", Damien was soon asked by her sister. Who knows that the girl doesn't even have a foreplay when she comes up, she does it after she takes off her pants, and she falls asleep after she finishes her work, she doesn't even hug or kiss love, excuse me?!
Damien deeply feels that the world is too "women are superior to men". Women can walk on the street bare-chested; they can give pointers to men's clothes; company management and government officials are mainly women. Men can only work as secretaries, waiters, etc.; not to mention that men can cook and do housework at home, but wives can drink beer to watch football games. It is also a man’s job to take care of children and prevent wives from messing around outside. The advertisements on the streets and the love movies shown on TV are mainly for the consumption of "males."
Damien Haojiyou’s wife cheated. Haojiyou thought that he was too fat. After becoming the housekeeper, he forgot to manage his body. He went to practice yoga and sculpt his body in order to restore his wife’s heart. The wife of a good friend explained her cheating in this way, "There are hormones all over her body, and she needs to vent her desires, so she is out of control." She just made a mistake that an ordinary woman would make.
Damien's father, as a person who came by, comforted his good friend like this-"It's not a big deal. When your wife gets older and has less sexual needs, you don't need to go outside to have fun." I also complained about my wife, "Suddenly, I can close the store door and put myself on the ice-cold glass surface. As my husband, I can’t resist." Who makes myself a cashier? , The man who has time to do manicures, but his wife is the man who does the physical work in the butcher's shop. Therefore, a good friend of course chooses to forgive his wife.
But Damien's ballet son was asked by the girl he liked to "pussy licking" in the toilet. The boy had no choice but to accept it, and the other party just patted his butt and left without giving him anything.
Owner Alexandra takes Damien to the bar. The pole dancing is male, and the sexy waiters are also male. They are mainly to please men.
When the boss Alexandra took Damien to a party, the elites and intellectuals in the party were all women, and the men were only mentioned as partners of each other.
In the eyes of women, men are "distractions" with no thoughts and no independent personality. The boss he fell in love with also despised men from the bottom of her heart, and she felt that they were "attachments" to women.
If you look at all the above, men and women upside down: women's requirements for figure, skin color, appearance are mainly to please the male aesthetics; sexy naked beauties can be seen everywhere on the roadside billboards of shopping malls; most of the waiters in bars and restaurants are It is normal for women to be molested by guests; a girl on campus likes a handsome boy, but is asked for oral sex by the other person. She has no choice but to accept it; husband cheats in marriage, elders But persuading this to be nothing at all, women should look openly; if the husband loses the "sexual interest" to his wife during marriage, it must be the woman who has become the wife of Huang and has given up self-management. Isn’t widowed parenting a national condition in my country? Isn’t it a man’s world for corporate management, important government positions, and elite gatherings?
Do you feel very familiar? Is it terrifying to think carefully?
The boss's various remarks caused Damian's strong dissatisfaction, so he lowered his mind and preferred to go back after work. He even joined the "anti-female" masculist organization.
His masculinity succeeded in attracting the attention of the overbearing queen Alexandra, because Alexandra is a writer in a bottleneck period, and Damien's ideas and world become the material for her writing.
What makes Damien even more unacceptable is that the boss has soaked thousands of men, and every time a man is conquered, he puts a marble into a glass bottle, and the bottles are arranged by year.
When Damian asked how the boss Alexandra could be so scumbag, but the boss asked three times: What do you think? Do you think I am a virgin? Do you think you are my first man?
Damien was heartbroken and ran to the bar to drink, only to be harassed by a bunch of women. He was even molested, saying that he "came to the bar alone? It must be because of hunger and thirst! Don't pretend to be pure!"
Had it not been for the boss Alexandra to arrive in time, Damien would have almost been raped.
The boss Alexandra wants to save their love. In the process of getting along, she has fallen in love with Damien.
Damien didn't listen to the explanation, and the two quarreled. During the dispute, they hit each other on the ground. As a result, the "male domination society" was reached at once.
The boss Alexandra looked at the girls in shorts all over the street and the feminists who were marching, completely confused.
In this "patriarchal society", Alexandra is not a writer or a boss, but the secretary of Damien's good friend.
Damien is a fish in the water in this "male domination society". He is a successful computer engineer and makes casual jokes in front of female colleagues in the company. He is also an out-and-out scumbag when it comes to feelings. He has never thought about serious relationships with women. For her, women only need to consider their measurements, face, and whether they can go to bed.
Damien, who has a rich history of love, is an emotional counselor for good friends. He tells his friends how to prevent his pregnant wife from discovering that he has cheated.
Damian is very proud of his male identity. He advises good friends who cheated during pregnancy on "how not to be discovered by his wife". While walking and chatting, he did not forget to stare at the long legs of the girls. Then he hit a telephone pole and crossed into the "women's world".
This is the French director Eleonore Priya ’s "Men Must Love Himself", which is different from the previous French film "The Jackie of the Daughter Country", which is different from the irony of patriarchy, femininity, totalitarianism, and authoritarianism. Apart from the irony of patriarchy, this "Men Must Love" is not in the narrative style of the comedy "Jackie of the Daughter Country". It is more of a serious drama.
The so-called feminism is not like the sex transfer in the films "Men Must Love" and "The Jackie of the Daughter Country".
As long as men are happy, men can also cook at home and take care of their children, instead of "men are responsible for making money and supporting the family, women are responsible for being beautiful and beautiful", women do not need to "marry well", as long as she is happy, she can be a successful woman in the workplace . In terms of dressing, men can wear skirts and makeup, and girls can wear short hair and pants. They can dress up as they please, regardless of how others look at them.
At the beginning of "Men Need to Love Himself", Damien, out of good intentions and in order to attract the attention of girls when he was young, acted as a princess in place of temporarily ill girls, but he was ridiculed by parents and children because everyone thought boys were not. Should wear a skirt.
In today's social environment, "feminism" is a term that has been stigmatized, which is probably related to the Chinese translation of "feminism". In the preface of Gao Yanyi & Wang Zheng's "The Translation Process of Feminism in China", it is said that-
In contemporary China, there are two common translations of "feminism", one of which is "feminism". This translation has an implied derogatory meaning, and the stereotype of it is that feminists hate men, desire to seize power, and those who support feminism are men. Therefore, feminism is a mocking word in China at present, except in the small circle of some scholars and activists. In contrast, another translated term, "feminism" (feminine, or characteristics of femininity), does not seem so aggressive. The reason for its popularity may be that "feminism" has some flexibility in semantics. However, for English speakers, the word "feminism" is derogatory, because it is often regarded as an ideology that promotes weak femininity, which actually strengthens the artificial distinction between the sexes. It goes against the pursuit of equality between men and women. For people in English-speaking countries, this position is not feminist, but for many Chinese scholars who self-identify as "feminists", this translation is "softer feminism", so it is easier to accept .
In a patriarchal society, “we are not only being oppressed as women, but we are also oppressed because it is also possible that we have to be women or men”.
"I personally feel that the feminist movement must have more dreams than eliminating women's oppression. She must dream of eliminating mandatory sexual desire and gender roles. I think the most inspiring dream is to build a male and female one, genderless ( But not asexual) society, in which a person’s sexual physiology has nothing to do with who the person is, what he does, and whom he has sex with.” (From Gail Lubin, "The Woman's Deal:" A Preliminary Study of Sexual "Political Economics""
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