The soul has a partner, so no longer alone

Kurt 2022-01-22 08:05:06

After watching the film of the same name adapted from the French novel "The Elegance of the Hedgehog", I suddenly felt that other movies at the same time were not good. The "One Page Taipei" I was looking forward to is far from the Taipei in my life. Although there are Eslite, family, Shida night market, familiar Taipei scenes, humor, romance and fun elements, but the most important thing in the city is missing. : The human soul. I think it's not that I'm too picky, but that I can't see a shadow in it. I feel that movies are movies, I am me, and Taipei is Taipei. There is no estrangement in Taipei, as if I have never been to it. And the "elegance of the hedgehog" with a scene far away in Paris, on the contrary, is right in my heart impartially. After watching it twice, I still felt unfinished. From the strong shock of the first time to the deep stay of the second time, I felt that some unknown part of my heart also found warm comfort in it. The movie didn't say anything deliberately, but only expressed a state of existence, but it can be so close to my heart in a city I am not familiar with. I'm not in Paris, but Paris has always been here; I don't know Hani and Baromar, but maybe they are part of me, or they may be yours. [In a standardized world, the loneliness that exists as it really is] Everyone is born to be lonely, some feel deeply, some if nothing happens, some are at a loss, some are hard to let go. Loneliness does not mean that there is no one around, but that no one can really talk to oneself, no one can reach the ocean deep in the heart. So, I had to arm myself into a hedgehog that was difficult to get close to. A hedgehog is a seemingly lazy animal with a shameless appearance. It always lives alone in its own world. No one knows what it means to enjoy loneliness? Or fear of loneliness? Or maybe it just wants to escape from the noisy world, find a small corner where it can hide, and live a quiet life without being disturbed. It is good at disguising, because the world is always: too noisy. The noise comes from people full of prejudice. In the high-class residential area of ​​Paris, no one will notice that the 54-year-old short and fat concierge wife, Hani, is actually a knowledgeable thinker. Although she has never been to school, the secret room is full of books. Has filled the depths of her soul. Others thought she was impoverished, but her soul was extremely rich. An eleven-year-old genius girl from a wealthy family, Baroma, in the eyes of her family, is an out-and-out little weirdo. She doesn't like to talk, she just loves to mumble and shoot around with a camera. The seemingly unrelated two people have one thing in common: they both have a sense of loneliness that is not seen. People only know that Hani is like an inconspicuous hedgehog, but they can't see her elegant inner heart; the family only sees the quirky spirits of Baromar, but they can't understand her deep confusion about "living". Maybe we are all too used to the "system" , Both longing and resisting. Although she tried to hide her uniqueness, she yearned for someone to truly walk into her heart. However, once the beauty comes true, I am afraid that everything is just like a dream, and I am afraid that it is difficult to bear the loss of waking up from the dream. Little Baloma didn't say much, just approached Heni and gave her a deep hug. That hug was a sincere understanding and a gift of strength, which moved me very much! The sincere hug also made them see another "me" smiling at themselves in the mirror. She knows that you are not what other people look like. She knows that your difference is just your inherent sensitivity. She likes you not because of what you can give her, but because you also let her see who she can't see. They are the other half of each other's souls, they embraced the loneliness deep in each other's hearts, and this means a deep embrace, and at the same time ended the bad thoughts in each other's hearts. Although the world is still as arrogant as before, their hearts are full of energy. Hani also let the young Baroma, who wanted to die, understand the most precious thing: life can only be done and cherished to create a side story beyond the ending. This side story that may not even be clear to God, said Uncertainty is the biggest surprise in life! Only by living well can you have a chance to see it. [Finding the frequency of communication in a beating world] The most wonderful thing in this world is that people often feel lonely because they are not understood by others, but the only antidote is "people". I think maybe we can look at our world from another angle: when we are completely surrounded by people who don’t understand, we don’t have to be like a goldfish sitting in a fish tank, sometimes we might as well take a little risk, even if we are rushed into the unknown. In this world, as long as there is water in that place, there will be endless hopes, and the life that I thought will be immutable may be able to live out another possibility. The point is: you have to live well for change to make sense. We are all lonely hedgehogs, and only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. I believe that there must be a person in this world who can feel himself, that person may not be a lover, he may be anyone, just like the year-end acquaintance in the movie: Hani and Baromar. In the huge world, we will no longer be alone because of this precious understanding. "I". She knows that you are not what other people look like. She knows that your difference is just your inherent sensitivity. She likes you not because of what you can give her, but because you also let her see who she can't see. They are the other half of each other's souls, they embraced the loneliness deep in each other's hearts, and this means a deep embrace, and at the same time ended the bad thoughts in each other's hearts. Although the world is still as arrogant as before, their hearts are full of energy. Hani also let the young Baroma, who wanted to die, understand the most precious thing: life can only be done and cherished to create a side story beyond the ending. This side story that may not even be clear to God, said Uncertainty is the biggest surprise in life! Only by living well can you have a chance to see it. [Finding the frequency of communication in a beating world] The most wonderful thing in this world is that people often feel lonely because they are not understood by others, but the only antidote is "people". I think maybe we can look at our world from another angle: when we are completely surrounded by people who don’t understand, we don’t have to be like a goldfish sitting in a fish tank, sometimes we might as well take a little risk, even if we are rushed into the unknown. In this world, as long as there is water in that place, there will be endless hopes, and the life that I thought will be immutable may be able to live out another possibility. The point is: you have to live well for change to make sense. We are all lonely hedgehogs, and only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. I believe that there must be a person in this world who can feel himself, that person may not be a lover, he may be anyone, just like the year-end acquaintance in the movie: Hani and Baromar. In the huge world, we will no longer be alone because of this precious understanding. "I". She knows that you are not what other people look like. She knows that your difference is just your inherent sensitivity. She likes you not because of what you can give her, but because you also let her see who she can't see. They are the other half of each other's souls, they embraced the loneliness deep in each other's hearts, and this means a deep embrace, and at the same time ended the bad thoughts in each other's hearts. Although the world is still as arrogant as before, their hearts are full of energy. Hani also let the young Baroma, who wanted to die, understand the most precious thing: life can only be done and cherished to create a side story beyond the ending. This side story that may not even be clear to God, said Uncertainty is the biggest surprise in life! Only by living well can you have a chance to see it. [Finding the frequency of communication in a beating world] The most wonderful thing in this world is that people often feel lonely because they are not understood by others, but the only antidote is "people". I think maybe we can look at our world from another angle: when we are completely surrounded by people who don’t understand, we don’t have to be like a goldfish sitting in a fish tank, sometimes we might as well take a little risk, even if we are rushed into the unknown. In this world, as long as there is water in that place, there will be endless hopes, and the life that I thought will be immutable may be able to live out another possibility. The point is: you have to live well for change to make sense. We are all lonely hedgehogs, and only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. I believe that there must be a person in this world who can feel himself, that person may not be a lover, he may be anyone, just like the year-end acquaintance in the movie: Hani and Baromar. In the huge world, we will no longer be alone because of this precious understanding. Look at our world from a different perspective: when we are completely surrounded by people who don’t understand, we don’t have to be like a goldfish in a fish tank. Sometimes we might as well take a little risk, even if we are rushed into the unknown world, as long as that Where there is water, there will be endless hopes. I thought that there would be an unchanging life, and maybe another possibility would be able to live out. The point is: you have to live well for change to make sense. We are all lonely hedgehogs, and only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. I believe that there must be a person in this world who can feel himself, that person may not be a lover, he may be anyone, just like the year-end acquaintance in the movie: Hani and Baromar. In the huge world, we will no longer be alone because of this precious understanding. Look at our world from a different perspective: when we are completely surrounded by people who don’t understand, we don’t have to be like a goldfish in a fish tank. Sometimes we might as well take a little risk, even if we are rushed into the unknown world, as long as that Where there is water, there will be endless hopes. I thought that there would be an unchanging life, and maybe another possibility would be able to live out. The point is: you have to live well for change to make sense. We are all lonely hedgehogs, and only people with the same frequency can see the unknown elegance in each other's hearts. I believe that there must be a person in this world who can feel himself, that person may not be a lover, he may be anyone, just like the year-end acquaintance in the movie: Hani and Baromar. In the huge world, we will no longer be alone because of this precious understanding.

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The Hedgehog quotes

  • Paloma Josse: Planning to die doesn't mean I let myself go like a rotten vegetable. What matters isn't the fact of dying or when you die. It's what you're doing at that precise moment.

  • Renée Michel: Happy families are all alike.

    Kakuro Ozu: Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

    [Quoting from Tolstoy's 'Anna Karenina']