Regarding the truth of life, my perception is that the essence of life at a certain level is constant frustration and suffering, turbulence It is not the stability, comfort, and wealth that many people seek. Of course, this does not mean that we should pursue negative things and abandon positive things, but that when we recognize the nature of this life, we should use it. An attitude of absolute sunshine and full acceptance to face any negativity in life without rejection, avoidance and negativity.
Many times when people have a habit, they negate the process and affirm the results. When you plan to do something, but you haven’t succeeded yet. At that time, many people around you will tell you that it is impossible to succeed. Among them are the warmth of family and friends, the bad intentions of the narrow-minded people, and many voices telling you that you should give up, but once you are overcoming all kinds of difficulties After the obstacles, the people around suddenly forgot their attitudes and opinions at the time. Family and friends will be proud of you. People who are jealous of you will also admire you from the heart, but when you start to chase new dreams, this way The scene will reappear again,
so I come to a conclusion, that is, never ask others if you are doing it right. You have to think and decide on your own. Even if your current decision is opposed by everyone, as long as there is still a voice. Support, you must continue to move forward.This voice is the most powerful force in your heart that can resist everything. In fact, the world is short-sighted and realistic. They will only see your present, but You don’t know and don’t bother to predict your future, so it’s really stupid to ask others what you should do. The person in the world who knows you best is yourself, because you are always with yourself, I never Believe that we are only in this mountain and do not know the true face of life. We should communicate with ourselves more often, ask ourselves what we should do, ask ourselves what we want, and trust our own judgment and intuition. Rather than asking anyone else, even the closest parents and partners, because they are completely unable to make decisions for you.
So many times, I tell myself that even if everyone is against it, whether it is ridicule and Falling into trouble is still from the warmth of relatives and friends. I have to stick to my own opinions and go forward bravely, because I must prove that I am right, even if the road is long.
Many people can be very successful because they have insight into the truth of this life. What they show is abundance of wealth, prominent status, comfortable life, and luxurious materials, so the world feels that they should pursue material abundance and life. Of course, the pursuit of wealth, status, material, and ease is very right. People tend to be positive and reject negative things, but I prefer to believe that the essence of successful people's lives is constantly changing and constantly preparing. Accept all kinds of setbacks and tribulations, constantly find an outlet for their own lives, endure all kinds of pressures, rumors, crises and turbulence, comfortable life and luxurious materials, and the wealth and status that follow are just their success. The rewards given to them by heaven after blocking all the negative aspects of life, I also prefer to believe that many successful people have an indifferent attitude towards material and comfort, because they know that those are by no means the truth of life.
Believe that the truth of life is a haze , So I am more willing to encourage myself to use absolute sunshine and positive to disperse them, try to accept all kinds of hardships and setbacks from the depths of my heart, face all negatives completely, make myself completely sunny and transparent, and make positive changes Destiny and pursuit of those distant dreams in my heart. Prove that I can be a basic human ability.
Many times it feels that the real society is depriving women of the right to struggle. For thousands of years, society has been constantly encouraging men to work hard. In order to make women better serve men's struggle, women are educated to be behind him. That scenery, especially in the current materialistic and competitive society, women are more willing to choose to hide behind a certain successful man, maybe this man is their own husband, or someone else's husband, many times we are educated women It’s made of water, it’s very weak, so you have to be protected and cared for, you have to find a comfortable life and a comfortable job, even if you struggle, you have to present an elegant posture, you must become an office lady, do finance, do business, but if Unfortunately, when a woman enters a purely male industry and is exposed to cold machines and dirty workers all day long, if she wants to continue working in this industry, there will be voices of doubt and opposition. , But when we have a deeper reflection on this concept, we think everything is ridiculous. Why are women weak? We believe that we are weak because we have been educated in this way. When men pay attention to a strong and masculine culture, such as politics The economics and military are realistic things, we are concerned about fashion, beauty, literature and art, petty bourgeoisie cooking and life. A person who touches masculine thoughts will become masculine, and when touched with femininity, they will become feminine.
A hundred years ago, all men on this land could have three wives and four concubines. Women at that time had no status and dignity. Now that the society has developed, the status of women has changed drastically, but in fact women It’s still not positioned correctly in society. Of course, society is inherently imperfect, unfair, and problems one after another. But as women, we must think about our past, present and future, and don’t be misled by reality. Misguided by education, to pursue true equality instead of hiding behind others and accepting the illusion of being protected and cared for, how many women have to face men spending time outside and crying and waiting alone at home, in fact, from a certain perspective. It is a punishment that you would rather be protected than face the society. I think a more perfect society is to encourage and affirm the struggle of women. No matter which industry and position you are in, as long as you are struggling, you should be affirmed and encouraged. In fact, women do not need to be protected. Protection itself is a kind of discrimination. We Choose to protect yourself like a man.
Tell yourself that frustration is the normal state of life, and positive response and the courage to change is the state we should keep.
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