Breaking up means looking for a more relaxed communication, seeking pleasure and having no hesitation, or ending irreparable feelings and entering a relatively lonely window.
We always like to use "who dumped whom?" to judge the practical significance of "breakup". Is this problem really that important? Is important enough to allow a man to add a strong touch to himself when he brags about his love history? When facing an old friend, I can avoid the embarrassment and ask "Are you okay?" in advance. It is important to tell Xinhuan that I used to be so and such a chic goodbye... The above "meaning" boils down to just one point. Man's vanity is at work. In order to win the label of "victory", you can do everything you need to do, ignore the feelings of your ex-girlfriend, ignore the faithful advice of your friends, and ignore the harm of another innocent person. When a man seems to be hysterical and indulgent, have he ever asked his true feelings in his heart? Do I still care about her? Do I still care about myself? On emotional issues, he is always not good at expressing his true inner feelings through actions. TeD dramatically shows that all of this is meaningless, just a kind of the most powerless struggle against loneliness, the most vulnerable resistance to the sudden single life, and the most boring escape from the emptiness.
What should be used to fill the gap in feelings? Of course, a butterfly tattoo is far from enough, and even counterproductive. Ted's tattoo is the beginning of the pain, not the end, because he went crazy looking for soda at home^_^.
Robin in the opposite direction found happiness, not because of the shit "classic" like "the best way to repair the scars is to start a new relationship", but because he knew what he wanted, and then looked for it. You don’t need any labels, and don’t care about which one wins or loses. Just start a new life, simple dating, happy chatting, easy sharing... The same hurt side of the breakup, Robin’s happiness is naturally easy-going happened.
Feeling hurt is difficult to express clearly. Tears, loneliness, and emptiness will of course be the past that every person who has loved each other deeply will experience. No one can escape. You only need to deeply experience and work hard when the pain comes. To bear. It’s not a sin for a man to cry. Maybe it’s so painful that you can’t cry. It’s easier to yell like TD. Only by facing the difficulties encountered can we find a solution to the problem and get out of the shadow as soon as possible. On the small road between the flowers, the occasional fall can make us more clearly understand how precious the past is, but we must move forward. After a long night, after tears, I slept soundly until dawn. Tomorrow is another day, the sun is shining, and the hope is eternal. We must believe that we can stand up eventually, and life must go on. There are so many people around us who care about us and those who care about us. Tomorrow is also a better day.
Better..fly, a more positive face is to put wings on happiness and take off to happiness.
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