1. A magical movie
I have always liked the movie "True Love First", and I will revisit it almost every Christmas. I think this is a movie specially prepared for Christmas. It is suitable for single people to watch alone, but also suitable for sharing with friends, family, and lovers.
In my opinion, it has a simple and profound magic. Part of it comes from what the movie said at the beginning: "Whenever I feel worried about the world, I think of the gate of Heathrow Airport. People think the world is full of hatred and greed, but I don’t agree. In my opinion Love is everywhere, although it may not come vigorously, but love will always exist. Father and son, mother and daughter, husband and wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, old friend, when the plane crashed into the World Trade Center, the phone call on the deathbed is not about revenge. It's all love. If you pay attention, you will find that love is actually everywhere. love actually is all around."
Yes, it allows me to see love everywhere, and I want to see the world full of love.
Another part of the magic comes from the fact that I can see different forms of love in the movies. This is probably also a gift from Santa Claus. Let us see the shyness and beauty of first love; the sincere and moving secret love; the innocence and innocence of mutual attraction; the ice-breaking love of "Cinderella" and "Prince" is also like a show Modern fairy tales; there are stumbling and stumbling between old couples and old wives, loving each other. Only when you know love can you have love, and only when you have love can you keep happiness.
I think these stories are also a blessing. I hope that we can see the diversity and beauty of love, strong and fragile, and let us pursue it more firmly.
2. Many kinds of love, many loves.
1. Writer Jamie and cleaning lady Arya.
Don't give up to love easily because of a betrayal. Everyone may get hurt, but be bold to chase after. And love sometimes comes suddenly, regardless of national borders, regardless of identity, people should not easily miss it because of obstacles.
Jamie loves his girlfriend so much, he looks fascinated by him. But the other party cheated, and he was heartbroken and went abroad alone to relax. He is a writer, renting a quiet old house and creating while forgetting. In order to keep the house clean, the landlord hired a cleaner named Arya. She is Portuguese and does not speak French. Before leaving, the landlord told Jamie that he needed to send Arya home. Out of courtesy, Jamie tried to find topics when he drove Arya home for the first time.
Fortunately, Arya is serious about her work and won't affect Jamie's original intention of hiring her because of this. But one time she made a small mistake. She delivered coffee to Jamie who was writing outside. She picked up Jamie's cup on the manuscript paper, but unexpectedly a gust of wind would blow in the manuscript that Jamie had not photocopied. In the lake.
Arya was shocked, and immediately ran to the lake, took off her shoes and clothes, and jumped into the lake to pick up the wet manuscripts. Perhaps, Jamie's heart was moved at that moment, she was so frank and natural, like a cute little deer. Later, Jamie returned to China and started a normal life. But interestingly, he started to learn Portuguese. Arya also started to learn English outside of work. Perhaps both people realize that being together is an unrealistic idea, but they still want to try to be close to each other, even if it is to learn each other's language.
On Christmas Eve, Jamie had bought gifts and hurried home, but when he walked in, he suddenly realized that Christmas should be spent with the person he loves most. He immediately ran back to the airport, found Arya who was serving in the restaurant, and proposed in Portuguese in public: "I know you must think I am crazy, but sometimes love is unreasonable and does not require any reason. I can live here. , You can also settle in England." Arya also answered him in English, she was willing.
Sometimes we feel that foreign relationships are very far away. Not only do we have to face the test of distance, but we also need the understanding and acceptance of languages, customs, lifestyles, and family members. However, these are not the biggest problems in the eyes of true love. If you are brave and sincere enough, you can embrace each other and be happy.
2. Female clerk Sara and mysterious designer Karl.
It turned out that I didn't take the initiative and couldn't properly handle all kinds of relationships in life. Even two people who like each other can only miss it.
Sarah fell in love with the mysterious designer Karl in the company as soon as she joined the company. But in these two years, seven months, three days and two hours, she has done everything except secret love. The boss advised her to take action, “Invite him to drink first, and then tell him that he wants to marry him and give him a baby.”
Sarah has a younger brother who always needs to call her. She will take care of his emotions every time, answering the phone whenever, wherever and what happened. One time that may really affect her happiness is that she and Carl finally made progress. When the two of them were about to spend the Spring Bridge together, she called her brother twice in a row. In the end, Carl and her returned to a colleague relationship.
I'm thinking, if Sara can better handle her relationship with her brother, and explain to Carl clearly, why would a little brother call him a little cold, maybe the two will have different endings.
3. Sam and Joan.
First love requires courage, and for us before the age of eighteen, love is also an important thing that requires vigorous pursuit.
Sam, seven or eight years old, likes his classmates. He is a little inferior and feels that he knows nothing, and the other person is shining. Because of this, he decided to learn how to play drums for Qiong An, to become outstanding, to become shining, and to let her see him. At the end of the semester, when Qiong An was about to leave the UK, he finally mustered up the courage and expressed his heart to her at the airport.
They showed me that the beauty of first love is that I am a little uneasy, but want to give you the best.
4. Karen and Harry.
I like Karen very much. She loves family, takes care of children, and devotes herself to life with so many people I meet. But she also encountered something very embarrassing-her husband was mentally derailed.
Karen is a housewife, and everything is family-oriented. Her husband, Harry, is the owner of a company and is currently being seduced by the beautiful employee Miya.
The conversation between the two people is somewhat ambiguous, such as, "You don't bring a well-dressed boyfriend, do you?", "No, I will only wait to be kissed under the branches."
Perhaps because it was an old husband and wife, Harry didn't have any particular passion for Karen. He is not very willing to take her to the party, nor does he want to chat with her more. On the contrary, I was a little bit excited about the explicit hints of the beautiful staff.
In the movie, there is a detail that moves me very much. At first, Karen thought that her husband, who had bought her a silk scarf as a Christmas gift, bought a precious gold necklace this year, so she looked forward to it and was very happy. But on Christmas Day, when she opened the gift, she found that the gift was just a CD of her favorite female singer. She was shocked and lost in her heart, because she had secretly seen that necklace, but it was not for herself!
But Karen couldn't have a seizure in front of the two children. She pretended to be calm, saying that she wanted to go to the bathroom, then went to the bedroom, and turned on the speaker before she broke down emotionally. She cried, was sad, and felt betrayed, but soon she wiped away her tears, pretended that nothing had happened, and took the children to the Christmas show.
I think she must really want to question her husband, who is the necklace given to? Do you fall in love with someone else and want to abandon the whole family?
But she resisted, waited to be calm enough, and talked to her husband, "(Discovered) my husband bought a gold necklace, but gave it to others on Christmas. (I have to) hold back and see if (this) is just Gifts, or one-night stands and necklaces, or worst of all, love and necklaces. Will you stay instead of you? Or give up everything and run away?"
I think Karen is emotional and rational when dealing with her husband’s possible mental derailment or how old wives get along. On the one hand, she believes that "true love is forever" (talked to her husband), on the other hand, she is also considerate. Do not act impulsively.
5. Actors John and Judy in tertiary films.
Love with desire is not necessarily impure.
They were very embarrassed when they met for the first time. They needed to shoot intimate scenes and take off their clothes, but their love was the purest part, a kiss. The two stood at the door of Judy's house, the weather was a bit cold, they said goodnight to each other like teenagers, and then couldn't help kissing each other. Their trembling appearance was very touched. The girl said, all my wishes for Christmas are you. And the boy jumped down the steps after parting and jumped up like a child with joy.
6. Best man and bride.
"My secret crush on you is mine. If you can be happy, I will be enough."
This story is quite clichéd, but many people who moved-I fell in love with the wife of my best friend. The best man is introverted and not good at expressing. The bride always thinks he hates herself. But at the wedding, the best man quietly prepared a surprise for the bride, stood up in the audience and performed a musical instrument, pretending to be innocent, not letting the bride and groom know that he did it. When the bride asked him to "reconcile" after the wedding, she found out his intentions. On Christmas Eve, the best man took a big paper card and wrote what he wanted to say. But he knows that this is the beginning and the end, because he most wants girls to be happy.
There is a kind of love that is not possession, not having to be with her, but blessing her and wishing her to be happy forever!
In addition to these, the film also presents the relationship between several couples of lovers, friends and family. Everyone has their own concept of love and emotional pursuit. Some people think that they are love lovers, but they are unconscious in the UK and did not expect to find true love in the United States. ; Some people have lost their beloved, thinking that they will never meet a person who is tempted in this life, but they can go around and meet a person they like in the school of the stepson. Yes, the world is so big and life is so long, we can't draw conclusions too early, at least we have to try.
3. Believe that love is everywhere
But what makes me sad is that many people are becoming more and more eager and more utilitarian about love and feelings. I have seen the data of the "520 Love Bill Survey Report" released by Zhenai.com, which shows that 80% of men and women have less than half a year's patience for chasing love.
Do you feel particularly familiar? For example, you and the other party have known each other for two months and have a good feeling, but not clear. I decided to get along with each other in my heart. At least half a year can I really understand and confirm the relationship. But within half a year, the other party suddenly became cold, as if you did something wrong!
But you need to be clear that this is not your problem, but the problem of those eager, utilitarian, and selfish people who are not sincere and serious about their emotions and marriage.
Therefore, the more this is the time, the more I like the movie "True Love Is First". Every time I read it, there will be a feeling of healing, warmth, and beauty-because it tells us how to deal with ourselves in love and marriage.
Who will not be hurt, disappointed, lost, or at a loss? In the city, from the seven or eight-year-old to the twilight years that is about to usher in the end of life, no one dares to say that I understand everything, and I can do everything in love and marriage. All we can do is believe and then experience!
"True Love Is Supreme" almost interprets all the love we can meet, want to meet, or have already met. In this world, there is no perfect lover, no perfect relationship. As long as we live, we will encounter various problems like the people in the movie.
What we have to learn is the ability to love, to believe that love is everywhere.
love actually is all around.
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