I don’t know if I’m not online, but when I watch this film, I always feel like I’m not in it. Only after watching the bullet screen can I understand where the story is going. In some places, I can’t help but double the speed. I feel that the script and editing didn’t make it happen. runs through completely.
Having said that, I still felt a little good after watching it at the end. Although I was a little confused, I still burst into tears. (People are stupid and correct
Jerry, the sports agent played by Tom, I think the rhythm is good. The highlight was in the early morning of the reformation, although he issued the "mission oath" impulsive (just ask where someone sent the diary to others, the same is true) available), but it was a rare moment of sobriety for him in such a dazzling era. It's a pity that he is too "big love", delusional that everyone is in the same rhythm with him, repenting of past behaviors together, and embracing a career of "sincere in exchange for sincerity".
Being fired was expected, and the description of his predicament and struggle after that was really mediocre. Of course, Acura still has a very positive concept - you should make sincere and down-to-earth efforts, don't drive you to work with interests, but you really hope to be able to do this well, hope that others will be good, and you will grow yourself. A state of "win-win and really good life (taking care of both physical and mental health of the family)". Be a partner with your customers, you are a community, I still like this concept and practice.
Another line from Jerry that I find interesting - a successful person who is prone to loneliness, all girlfriends like him, but all girlfriends leave him. why? Because successful people don't allow bad emotions - loss, sadness, frustration, and no real failure. All his ex-girlfriends just took a fancy to his identity and status. When he had a need to be understood and empathized, even when all his status and status disappeared, his girlfriend also disappeared. (The last girlfriend is very bad?? It is also worthy of being called "intimacy" without emotional communication? This concept is actually very common now, because many people are in love and don't know whether they want to be distracted, or to figure it out. A stable life, chasing bread, so I gradually lose my ability to love people)
Jerry can't be vulnerable, he can only be "needed", but not "needed" by others, so he doesn't know what to call "love". In fact, he is a man who is passionate about life, as he knows from his passionate writing of the "mission statement". It's just that too many people leave for no reason, so he doesn't know what the so-called true love and family really need. But he is still a very good man, at least responsible for his clients, and for a woman who really loves himself.
But responsibility does not produce love, it can only produce a compromised partnership, and a family that is detached.
In my mind, Dorothy is the image that a modern woman should have. Gentle, rational, a little neurotic, but emotional first. Sensibility is really important, everything in life is like visible nutrients, she can feel and absorb vitality. When she saw the mission statement, she had the kind of strong empathy and support. She not only supported Jerry, but also thanked Jerry for letting him see what life and career should be like. Even though she is a single mother, she not only loves her son and sister with all her strength, but she is not afraid of falling in love again. She hates other women at single-parent parties and complains about herself, complaining that "men are the enemy", and she also said that "she loves the enemy". But she is also very smart. When she can't feel the love of the other party, she will take the initiative to communicate and leave the other party temporarily to calm him down. ——She is a woman with strong emotional ability and the ability to love people. She is like a "god of gamblers", she knows when to make the biggest bet on her feelings, and she knows when to "buy and leave".
Jerry will not understand this kind of love all at once, because he has been abandoned too many times, like a guinea pig who keeps hitting a wall, he will always have inertia and subconsciousness, so that he can't understand what the other party is thinking all of a sudden. In this way, whether he wants to give true love or not.
But I also said earlier that he is a person who is passionate about life, which means that he is a man with love. He will not lose himself in his career. Then he has the ability to find himself in life, love, and family. Back to the real needs, but he needs opportunities.
He is most fortunate to have a family-loving partner who has set an example for him, and the one who loves and waits for him is a woman like Dorothy, affectionate, loyal, respectful, giving, and an excellent and simple man like him . He will understand that this is what love is, and that such a woman is the woman who makes him perfect.
"You complete me" is exactly that.
What's even cuter is that Dorothy waits until he finally finds her and says "You had me at 'hello'".
The ability to express love directly like this is truly amazing! She is a goddess!
May we never lose our sincerity and exchange our sincerity for our sincerity. ❤
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