everyone has similarities

Dasia 2022-01-25 08:06:43

About this movie, it's not love that strikes me, but how people get out of the predicament and rediscover themselves.
The two women in the film, Amanda and Alice, are both frustrated in love. On the surface, their situation seems to be very different: one is because of her strength that her boyfriend can't stand it and steals sex outside, even if Amanda rushes When he went out, he was still defending himself (although he reluctantly admitted the truth in the end); the other was his beloved boyfriend, but he was with others in front of you, even after he announced his marriage. You are asked to continue to act as a safe haven that he can always use. This is a vulnerable woman. But at a deeper level, they have the same problem: they don't really know their heart, and they don't know what their love looks like. Amanda wanted to cry over her lost love, but the fact was that after her father got divorced and left home and took the aisle suitcase, she didn't cry any more; Alice always e-mailed and texted The man stalking himself is distraught.
It can be said that the two people in this film have similarities. The above is about Amanda and Alice who are also women. Next came old Arthur and Alice. Arthur refused to pay tribute to a party like him because of his lack of self-confidence. He said that he didn't want to be able to walk on the stage, and he didn't want to only face the Few people in the audience spoke. But he let Alice watch the movie he recommended, and the women in it are confident and elegant, with power beyond ordinary people, which finally changed Alice. He doesn't know about himself, and his crux is the same as Alice. With the joint efforts of Alice and Miles, the old man finally gained self-confidence and was able to dance (dance) lightly on the stage and talk freely. Arthur and Alice complete each other's rescue at the end of the film.
Miles' emotional experience is similar to Alice's. The film arranges the conversation between Alice and the bad man who came to the door before the start of the tribute party and the scene where Miles sits in front of his girlfriend Maggie and listens to his apology at the same time. , and then the two smiled at each other at the party to highlight the similarities between them, as well as the liberation and self-redemption of wrong feelings.
Amanda and Grahamber are both strict about themselves. After being betrayed, Amanda said to herself that she was calm and calm, and Gerhardt's desire to be a good father, a good editor and a good man always weighed heavily on him. Their meeting and love were destined because they could be on each other. see each other's pain.
Although I dare not say that they can live happily together from now on, at least we must believe in the strength of ourselves and the strength of others. All of these can help us understand ourselves more clearly and get out of the predicament.

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Extended Reading
  • Milan 2022-03-23 09:01:32

    After reading it, I really want to travel!

  • Esta 2022-04-24 07:01:04

    in a new environment. Let go of the past. Find happiness.

The Holiday quotes

  • Amanda: Okay, let's say we just make this happen. We each commit to flying back and forth as much as we can.

    Graham: Yes! It's doable, definitely.

    Amanda: And then let's say in 6 months we hit a wall. Like I can't constantly be away from work or the girls can't deal with you leaving so often. Then we start to feel the tension, we know this isn't going to work, so we start fighting because we don't know what else to do. And after a long, tearful- at your end...

    Graham: I like it

    [sarcastically]

    Graham: .

    Amanda: -phone call we say goodbye. And that'll be it, for real. It's not like we're ever going to bump into each other. And then what's left? Two miserable people feeling totally mashed up it hurts. Or...

    Graham: Thank you.

    Amanda: Or maybe we should just realize that what we've had these past few weeks has been perfect. And maybe it won't get any better than this. And maybe we're trying to figure this thing out because it makes us feel so good to feel this way, and maybe the fact that I'm leaving in 8 hours makes this far more exciting than it might actually be.

    Graham: You're seriously the most depressing girl I have ever met.

  • Graham: I have another scenario for you.

    Amanda: Good.

    Graham: I am in love with you. I apologize for the blunt delivery, but as problematic as this fact may be, I am in love. With you. And I'm not feeling this because you're leaving, and not because it feels good to feel this way- which by the way, it does, or did before you went off like that. I can't figure out the mathematics of this, I just know I love you. Can't believe how many times I'm saying it. I never thought I'd feel this way again, so that's pretty phenomenal. But I realize I come with a package deal- 3 for the price of 1. And my package perhaps in the light of day isn't all that wonderful, but I finally know what I want, and that in itself is a miracle. And what I want is you.

    Amanda: I wasn't expecting 'I Love You'. Can you not look at me like that? I'm trying to find the right thing to say.

    Graham: I think if the obvious response doesn't immediately come to you, uh, we can just, we should just talk about something else. Like possibly what a complete ass I am. I do recall you promising me you wouldn't fall in love with me. Must pay better attention.

    Amanda: I've never met a guy who talks as much as me. But just for now, be quiet.