This kind of love is not easy to find.

Berniece 2022-03-20 09:01:27

As someone who also suffers from neurodegenerative disease, I have a strong say in this film. First of all, a movie is a movie, and this kind of fantastic ending is only possible in a movie.
To understand the film deeply, you must first understand something about this neurodegenerative disease. There is no cure for this disease. Let me introduce my situation first, hereditary spinocerebellar degeneration, which has no effect at first, like the heroine, it is only the first phase, or like me, in the early stage. At this time, there is still the possibility of being loved, and the other party may only regard your faults as small flaws. But as your relationship deepens, the other party will fall into a kind of contradiction. Although you look bright and beautiful now, and the life of the two of you will not be affected, if you want a child, whether the child will be healthy or not will not involve future generations. , and will also consider whether you will take on the responsibility of taking care of you for a lifetime in the future. Care here refers to taking care of your daily life. When this kind of disease develops to the end, you don't even have the ability to take care of yourself. Therefore, no matter how normal people are, they will shrink back. After all, this is a great responsibility, and it is not a simple sentence that I want to do. I have a deep understanding of this.
Back in the movie, Jamie knew Maggie had the disease when she met her, and the ending was pure bullshit. If it's without the other person's knowledge, then there's the love versus responsibility debate. In my opinion, choosing Maggie is a responsibility, there is no such thing as a responsibility in love.
But I was still moved by this movie, it gave me hope and warmth. Although there will be no such handsome and capable man as Jamie in real life, and finally willing to take care of me, but it still gave me hope of survival.
As long as you live, you can see such movies.

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Extended Reading
  • Jamarcus 2022-03-24 09:01:31

    I still remember Annie undressing and undressing to find out

  • Roberto 2021-10-22 14:41:45

    Anne Hathaway's naked body and Gyllenhaal's silly smile. A female Parkinson patient: "Who knows? Maybe God wants us to be extraordinary when we masturbate." These words are so beautiful, disease is never the whole life.

Love & Other Drugs quotes

  • Maggie Murdock: I'm gonna need you more than you need me.

    Jamie Randall: That's okay.

    Maggie Murdock: [crying] No it's not! It isn't *fair*! I have places to go!

    Jamie Randall: You'll go there. I just may have to carry you.

    Maggie Murdock: ...I can't ask you to do that.

    Jamie Randall: You didn't.

  • Jamie Randall: Hey, Lisa.

    Bruce Winston: Her name's not Lisa.

    Jamie Randall: I know. I know. But, if everytime I say "Hey, Lisa", then eventually she'll come up to me and she'll be like, you know, "My name's not Lisa it's... Jennifer"... whatever, and I'll do a big apology and I'll say, "I thought you were the Lisa who was mad at me for not calling". And, from then on Jennifer, or whatever her name is, will think that I dated a girl who looked just like her... who I rejected. She'll develop this unconscious need to win my approval and from then on, it's cake.

    Bruce Winston: Damn!