After watching it, I ended up crying. I wasn't moved by this story, just a few words and actions. When we cry, we are always mixed with inner cries. Maybe people who talk a lot will not cry so easily, and people who are silent may always cry silently.
It can be said that morrie changed mitch's outlook on life, and it was his mother, father and stepmother who influenced morrie.
I have always felt that the growth environment of a family will have an impact on a person's nature. Why do some children from divorced families grow up with beautiful minds, while others gradually turn towards sin. Humans are born with a different nature, and what causes this innate nature? What determines our character? A person or one thing can change a person's destiny, turn evil into good, and push good into evil. When we were children, we did not need to be responsible to anyone, nor to the society, so that we could go through childhood without restraint. As we grow up, we begin to experience growth, schoolwork, work, and marriage, and we begin to take on various roles, and different responsibilities fall on our shoulders at the same time. Suppose a child experiences when he is a child the responsibilities that he will need to take ten years later, how will he be different from a normal growing child? A child has experienced the death of people and the pain of losing love when he can remember; what will happen to a child who grows up in a single-parent family and is surrounded by women or men? I think there must be differences, but how much the difference affects him, how it affects him, whether it is caused by immersion or just one incident, I think there are various possibilities. Every time I hear some strange people and strange things, I always say, it's no big deal, there are all kinds of strange things in the world. But I have never been curious about this kind of strangeness, I only regard it as a phenomenon in this world, but this phenomenon is not all I can hear and see.
When Morrie and Mitch started discussing life, he first mentioned his childhood. He was not so happy in his childhood, his mother's early death and his father's indifference. I wonder what he would be like when he grew up if he didn't get the warmth from his stepmother. But he did get it, and became a man who enjoyed life. What he has been missing is his father's love, but he has never thought about why it was not given to him, he just wondered why this father was not nice to him, and the hatred continued until he became an adult, even if his father's death did not make him cry. The last lesson he taught Mitch was remorse, regretting why his heart was so hard, why he didn't think about what his father was thinking at that time, and why he didn't explore the reason for his indifference. It's not that the father doesn't love him, it's the father's fear of love, of the loss of the person with whom he is in a loving relationship.
Postscript: True happiness is for those who are broad-minded, and true happiness belongs to those who want to be happy from the heart. I feel unhappy because I always dwell on the past, and I am unhappy because I never want to make myself happy. Be happy, a beautiful future starts from the present, cherish everything in the present, take everything in the present seriously, everything will become the past, good and bad will have results.
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