It turns out that there has always been a problem that bothers me-what is the difference between a friend and a lover. Perhaps the only difference is whether there is a sexual relationship. Whether it is the opposite sex or the same sex. Perhaps this definition is not very accurate, because in reality it is normal to have sex without love, and for the more open West, sexual behavior has become very common, just like eating casually. So, I still haven't figured out the difference between a friend and a lover. I am very disappointed in this story, not because of Jack's death, but because of this relationship. What is the ending of two men together? Perhaps, there is no end at all. Just like the story that Ennis said, even if it had an ending, it was still a tragedy. It was in the United States in the 1960s. Two lonely people fell in love because of loneliness, but this love would not be accepted by the world.
Some people say that the two of them later married and had children due to secular pressure. In my opinion, this is not the case. In fact, Ennis loves his wife, and so does Jack. It's just that this love is not as hot as the love of two lonely men. After the baptism of marriage and life, this love has become dull and boring, while same-sex love has become more intense. Perhaps it is the old saying, the more unobtainable things, the more precious they feel. Suppose, what if two people are still together like on Brokeback Mountain? Maybe it's still the same, living a simple and ordinary life, the only difference is that the lover around is the same sex, not the opposite sex. Love has no gender. This sentence reminds me of an old couple I met on flickr. Two old men. What I admire is not that they have lived together, but that they have lived together for thirty years. The elder was married and had children, but in the end he chose to divorce and live with his beloved man until the end of his life. I don't know their lives, but you can see from their photos that they are very happy and full of fun. What makes two men fall in love? I believe that neither Jack nor Ennis are really gay. Maybe many people are not. It was just a coincidence that brought two lonely men together. At the same time, they both had a heart that needed to be soothed, so something happened. Ennis is forbearing, so he is destined to be lonely. He can't choose between family and lover, because even if he chooses, his wife has discovered it, and he can't be with Jack forever. The pleasure of the flesh is only short-lived, but the emptiness of the spirit is long-lasting. Jack endured it for a long time. He was tired of the bondage of marriage, tired of being a son-in-law, so he scolded his father-in-law son of bitch. He told his parents that he would live with his wife and take Ennis back to his hometown to open a farm. But in the end his wish and other things Many wishes have not been realized. I don't understand why Jack took another person back home to start a farm, instead of Ennis, whom he loved so much. Perhaps, he was tired of such a relationship, and the two people waited painfully, waiting for the day to get together. And Ennis was destined to drift. He couldn't expect anything, even seeing a woman who liked him, he couldn't accept her love, because he knew that this love was reserved for Jack, and perhaps, two people would never be together. Until Ennis learned of Jack's death. He regretted it, maybe the two should have been together a long time ago, but maybe no longer, Jack is gone, and some wishes will never be realized. Perhaps the biggest regret in life is not being able to be with the one you love. Ennis finally said iswear, he hopes to protect Jack forever and keep this love. Jack in heaven, did you hear that? Suddenly I remembered the soundtrack of the guitar in the film, the etherealness of mountains, deep forests, streams, the coldness and depression of winter, but also loneliness and sorrow. There is also the cover of Willie Nelson's "he was a friend of mine", which sang this kind of love that seems to be friendship but deeper than friendship, he died on the road, this is a feeling that cannot be let go, and there will never be I have the opportunity to say to him again, I love you~ Maybe, I suddenly understood the difference between friendship and love, love is deeper than friendship, no matter whether it has sex or not.
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