Before that, I only knew one Rogers, Carl Rogers, a humanistic psychologist.
This movie made me meet another Rogers, his name is Fred Rogers, who has been a children's educator for almost a lifetime.
Is this a coincidence? Both Rogers have a kind face and a valued holding of unconditional positive concern for people.
And Fred, the group of concern, is one of the weakest in the world, one whose voice and power are extremely easy to ignore.
Fred saw them and valued them. For the better growth of children, he devoted almost his whole life, and even gave up his own beliefs. He no longer preached theology, but devoted himself to building for children Create a world full of friendly neighbors, where love, understanding, support, death, fear, self and prejudice...
I think the appearance of children is easy to deceive people and make people think of them as cute spirits, but I believe that Fred is smart, with his wisdom, he can certainly escape these delusions, but he still loves deeply Going to these children, dedicating to them, creating for them, explaining to them, conveying to them, this enthusiasm and dedication may be caused by the outside world, but it is more likely to be born in the heart.
At one point, his understanding is full of wisdom, beyond the understanding of most people, that is, children's world should not be just funny and funny, they also have the ability and need to understand the world deeply.
This point, what I think is that he is outstanding, does not regard children as a person who does not understand anything, but gives full understanding and respect.
With this understanding, there is a basis for the subsequent behavior, so he is transmitting many ideas of kindness and positive energy to the children, which I think is really great!
He acknowledged the needs of children, and children also need to understand the world. To understand the world correctly is not a misunderstanding and misunderstanding by Superman, but even if I am different from others, I am not a mistake. In this way, he maintains the child's heart, as if implanted with many positive beliefs (I am good, I am capable, I am special, I am valuable...), when they continue to Born in the heart, they will become solid, reliable and indestructible. Even if they grow up and experience ups and downs in the future, they will show strong life resilience, because their belief system is full of energy and is solid and indestructible.
And if a child has a lot of negative self-knowledge since childhood (I'm a bad child, I'm a disobedient child, I'm mediocre...) and grow up to be an adult, in fact, to compete with his deep-rooted belief system, It is a relatively difficult thing. Imagine that this is almost a reshaping of a person. The amount of work can be imagined. If you encounter the stubbornness and prejudice of adults again, the difficulty of this project will be doubled!
However, the reality is that the needs of the little ones seem to be seen by the behemoth adults who are not seen above, they see their crying, their unreasonableness, or a lot of times they are not looking at them, which leads to Children's world construction is barren, even full of panic, because children are not familiar with, do not know, and do not understand this world full of giants. When they see this thing disappearing from their eyes, they may think it is dead instead of Hidden, they think that the mother's departure is the abandonment of themselves... They try to understand and control the world in their own way and knowledge, but these "self-righteousness" are more dangerous, they need the love and care of adults to soothe their emotions, they need adults explanations and descriptions to correct understanding.
So, Fred did a lot of things that children needed, and a lot of things that adults ignored, so he became a very influential public figure.
Bend down, see small children, smile slightly, and become big ones.
Learn from Fred, his love and concern for children, his liveliness and innocence, his friendliness and intelligence...
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