After seeing episode 4, I couldn't help but want to say something to myself. Mileva's original scientific knowledge or curiosity and desire to explore in the play are equal to or stronger than Einstein's? A very important reason why Einstein liked Mileva was that the two were equally intellectual and intellectual and curious about science. In fact, this is also common in modern society. Two opposite sexes are attracted to each other. It must be that both sides have qualities that the other side appreciates. The level of the two people is about the same. To give the simplest and most direct example, if you earn 10,000 yuan, then you At least find someone with an income of around 10,000, right? The level is almost the same. In order to maintain the attraction and relationship for a long time, both parties must maintain a consistent level. Once any one of them falls behind, this balanced relationship will be broken. I think this is one of the reasons why many couples or couples separate. First, there is a mismatch between the abilities of the two sides.
After the exchange, the two sides indulged in the hormones of the love period. Mileva completely put the purpose of coming to the university and her own pursuit to the sky. In the end, her studies were abandoned, she gave up her degree, gave up studying again, once for the sake of In a society where only men could learn science at that time, there was a Mileva who belonged to her, who never gave up, and who studied harder than anyone else, became a housewife around her husband and children, of course this The housewife still has some value to be used, becoming a library clerk and clerk of her husband Einstein, using her mathematical ability to show off her residual energy, helping Einstein publish papers without being signed, and thus becoming an obscure person. One of the thousands of housewives, of course, is better than us ordinary housewives, at least Einstein's ex-wife, at least there are traces in history. But Mileva, you could have stood on the scientific stage yourself and left your name. What a pity. What a pity.
Look at Einstein again. Even in the early stage of their love affair, Einstein still passed the final exam, even if he flew at a low altitude. It can be seen that men know what they need to do most at any time, and love is not for men. All, because from the moment of birth, both society and family have told him that you must walk the hardest and safest way in your life, you must go to the society, work hard to make money and make your own business, in order to get what you want.
And what about us women? Being educated by society and family since childhood, finding a good man to marry, and having a husband and children is a good "correct" life. It is undeniable that due to the evolution of human genes, women are generally responsible for bearing children and taking care of their offspring, which makes women born with a motherhood and a desire for stability. But is it true that women can only have a good life or the final outcome if they only care for their husbands and children?
If you want, in fact, you and I have more options. Thank you for living in this era, where we can have equal access to education and work. There can be a place in the male-dominated workplace, like Mileva in the play, and a seat in the boys' school for learning. But this is just an admission ticket. Whether we can really "graduate" and make achievements depends on our own personal efforts. Like Mileva when we were young, let's work hard.
Of course, saying so much is not to encourage everyone not to fall in love, not to get married, not to have children, but when doing these things, please be sensible and not give up your original career and pursuit. Think about how Mileva got farther and farther from Einstein, and was finally abandoned?
I hope you and I don't become the next "Mileva", but be your own queen!
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