"He always lived lightly, and even when he had to lie, he was slow and slow." - Stephen on his friend Maxim
"I want you, I'm not used to sticking my hot face to my cold ass, but I want to tell you, that's it. I know who you are, I accept you as you are, you have been living in your own closed world , and I don't care. I'm here for you. Look at me, you can't do this anymore, you have to accept what's unfolding in you." - Violinist Cammy Kessler to Stephen
"What are you looking for, you want to find out the truth, but it's impossible to find out the truth with emotion."
"For so long I've stood still, I've made your faults, and I've lost Maxim. I feel very clearly that I'm destroying no one else, but myself." -Stephen to Cammy Kessler White
I would like to quote an evaluation of Stephen on Baidu Encyclopedia: "Stephen is complex, profound, and incomprehensible, like the black hole of life, secret, and has a huge attraction to people. Stephen's charm is even beyond your description. , he abandons worldly vanity, so he is less jealous; he is not bewitched by the surface of life, so he does not follow blindly; he does not lie about love, so he appears indifferent; he has a deep desire for love, so he is indifferent He shrinks from fanaticism; he restrains desire, so he does not care about loneliness; he sees life clearly, so he can face death calmly."
This assessment is so precise that the moment when a person is most attractive is when you know something about him but not all of him, when your fascination with him may be a big part of your fantasies. But when you get really close enough to him, take off all the veils, and start to really get to know him, maybe you'll realize that he's not worth your liking at all, those wonderful hallucinations and fantasies are gone, and he's just plain unremarkable. There is no doubt that Cammy Kessler's confession to Stephen stopped at the moment when he was most attractive to her, and then his rejection made her so difficult to accept, she was gaffe, frantic, and he would be her life forever. regret. Then if the time to open the heart is delayed, when the passion fades and reason prevails, when all the mysteries are removed, there may be more regrets.
The biggest impression this film gave me is that they always treat each other honestly, to their friends, to their hearts and emotions, the real sadness between people is to deceive each other with words, and the sincerity between them is very touching. It’s not that we’ll be together if we’re attracted to each other. I gradually began to understand that this is the normal state of life, and I also began to understand that being honest with myself and others is the best way to make life less regrettable. Over the years, when we recall the past, at least we can laugh and say, I have loved without regret, instead of wasting time in restraint, temptation and waiting day after day.
I admired Cammy Kessler's honesty about his emotions, it took me a full year and a half to learn and understand that, and I saw restraint and patience as virtues, only to realize how deeply it hurts me in the end, I could have let it end very early, but I lacked the courage and strength at the time. Only when people are responsible for their own emotions can they truly be responsible for themselves. There may be many things in this world that don’t need answers, but an obsessive heartbeat definitely needs answers, because even non-response and ambiguity are an answer. Even if it is a mistake, it should end as soon as possible, and even if it is a solo dance, it should end as soon as possible. Sometimes we have to be wise to seek answers and meanings, instead of wasting our energy in confusion, because no solution is also an answer. I will still be grateful for that moment of brilliance. I forgive all heartbreaks, all loneliness and indulgence, and all temporary consolation. I forgive all true feelings that are cut open and uncherished. I forgive all true feelings that no one knows and has never been aware of. Finally, in the vastness of everything, we finally learned to love ourselves.
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