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The first story , I read it many times. Many bland lines, when integrated into the plot, are particularly moving, and tears could not help falling several times. When parting, he silently went out and stood at the door, looking at the street. She walked into the elevator, looked at his back, and burst into tears.
Although this story has nothing to do with love, when you come to a big city alone, you experience many obstacles, loneliness, and even hopelessness. The things you can't tell your family and loved ones can sometimes be your real pain points.
So this kind of feeling is better than love for you. Like a small boat in the center of a storm, suddenly it seems that the surroundings have calmed down, you are calm, and you are no longer anxious and nervous. And you will eventually sail out of here, run to your land, and leave the boat.
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The second story , at first glance, is very romantic and ideal, but when I think about it, I always feel that a lot of things are not right. If the old love is unforgettable and can be continued, then what is the other half of now? Don't people always miss what they didn't get, what they missed in the past? When you get it for a long time and it becomes a habit, do you have to go back and find the person you have hurt? For the second time, the heroine in this film disregards her current position and pursues her old love. Even if she is perfectly with the hero now, what about in the future?
The drama did not show the life of the heroine and her fiancé, nor did it show the life of the hero and her current girlfriend. If all these could involve the audience, it would not be able to effectively stimulate the audience's emotions. But the content that is not presented in many dramas is the real content of life, isn't it?
I have never believed that a person can't run a family well because he didn't meet the person he was destined for. The greater possibility is that he does not have this ability, even if he is with the right person, over time, he will still get the same result in the end.
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The third story , I don't have much say, I don't know much about bipolar disorder. Of course, this is also a story that has nothing to do with love. It is a process of recognizing oneself and facing up to oneself.
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The fourth story , about the middle-aged and elderly crisis of couples, doesn't seem to touch me particularly. But what I want to say is that their life should be what many people yearn for, but no matter what kind of life people live, they will feel unsatisfactory over time, and they will envy and even envy those who live another life.
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The fifth story , this is a story with the smallest time span, and also the most bland and closest to life, but it has a unique flavor. At first I saw that the couple was a little strange and distant, but after a few hours, they felt a little bit like an old couple relying on each other. When two people get along, if the starting point doesn't start from the perfect side, it's not necessarily a bad thing.
Although life will not be smooth, if we think about it, sometimes the difficulties and hardships that life gives us are actually carefully designed for our better growth or the better sublimation of a relationship. You will feel that everything is actually fine.
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The sixth story , I have no sympathy for the daddy issue, and I have nothing to say. The only thing I want to say is that a person's growth is often manifested in that when you do something, you will no longer just start from your own feelings, but will see the impact of doing so from the perspective of others.
When you grow up, it's not so easy to let go of responsibilities easily. You thought you were a child, but other people saw you as an adult. After all, the only people in the world who can accommodate you unconditionally are your parents.
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The seventh story is a very loving episode. Tolerance and understanding are the foundation for the harmonious coexistence of various groups in society. After all, we need a diverse society. If everyone was carved out of the same mold, how much would the world be? boring. Whether or not we can finally accept a person who is completely different from ourselves living together in a space, it is necessary for us to first try to understand, try to explore the root cause, and think in our own shoes.
Know that your own way of life is not the only right way to live, you may just be lucky and fit the rules of life for most people. But what about the others? Of course, some people are indeed unreasonable, but from another perspective, this is not to pay for their unreasonable behavior, but a shortcut for us to achieve self-growth!
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The eighth story , I really like this tender evening love, including the ending of stringing all the story eggs together. Very warm, beautiful and empathetic, in a rain, everyone has a very beautiful mood. Although in real life, people's joys and sorrows are not connected, but if at a certain moment, you know that someone has the same mood as you in the same space, that feeling may not only be wonderful.
These stories all take place in New York.
In some cities, there is always such a charm, which can gather the same emotions of many people at a certain moment, although it comes from different stories.
In my mind, such a city is Beijing. It's a city where love and magic happens.
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