The film is said to cover all kinds of issues that can arise in married life. The intuitive feeling that gives people seems to be that marriage is a besieged city, and there is an endless loop in the besieged city.
It is a well-recognized fact that a husband who cheats on marriage is a scumbag, but why? The father said that the public was reasonable, the mother said that the mother was reasonable, and the scumbag said that the scumbag was reasonable. The director of this film used the male protagonist's mouth to express the logic of derailment in marriage: the day-to-day marriage life is too bland, the sex life is uncoordinated, the pure physical needs, and just one person appears to satisfy his desire for passion.
At first glance, it seems that there is a good reason, the scumbag is just the most affectionate person. In fact, he is the least aware of love. He has only been paying attention to himself from the beginning to the end. On the one hand, he wants the passion of having an affair, and on the other hand, he cannot give up the solid happiness of his family. Greedy, selfish, irrational and tolerant.
True love means giving and tolerance, not increasing demands and accusations.
The heroine in the film is masochistic. Not enough self-esteem. Serious self-doubt in the face of her husband's accusations. Actually it is not necessary. She has always been grateful and loving to her husband, and is content with ordinary family life. Actually well done. Sex is not everything. she said at the beginning. But under a series of accusations from her husband, (actually pua) she gradually changed this view. She felt sorry for not satisfying her husband and blamed herself for the incongruity of her previous sexual life.
Sex really isn't everything. Sexual incongruity is nothing but an excuse and an excuse for him. What if they were in sync? Ten years of marriage will also smooth out the passion of the match. Burnout, unwillingness to discover new mutual and marital status, lack of patience and tolerance are the root causes.
Spouse is in a hurry, exposing the weakness in his personality. At this time, you should love yourself more and don't have to give up your dignity and beg for mercy from the other party. How can someone who has no love and sense of responsibility be merciful? It just adds to the disgust. At most, it just gave him a chance to step on two boats.
It is said that children make choices. It's better to be a kid. It's far better than being a greedy, selfish, arrogant, stupid adult. They'll make a mess of the day.
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