When life is messed up, maybe it's a reminder that it's time to stop and look at ourselves and make a change

Guadalupe 2022-03-23 09:01:51

The laws of psychology tell us that if inner situations cannot be perceived, they will be projected as outer destiny. That is to say, if a person is not aware of the inner conflict, then the outer world will be forced to "demonstrate" that conflict, and it will be torn into polar opposites. ——When Jung felt that his life was in a very bad situation, and things were not going well, perhaps, this was a reminder to us: it is time to stop and examine ourselves, and then make some changes. The Chinese name of the movie "JOY" is "Joy of Struggle", which is based on real events, and the heroine does have her own person. From my point of view, this is a story of a middle-aged woman whose career and family are in disarray, returning to her destiny, regaining her dreams and making them come true. I have feelings for this movie because I am going through a similar situation, stopping to look at myself, returning to my destiny, and moving on. 1⃣️When Joy remembered her dream, what did she do? Get your ex out of the basement and let him live out on his own. Because they have been divorced for two years. Let go of the past, and look forward. Let her dad move out too, because that's not her life either. Talking to dad's current girlfriend about investing in a new idea for her, drawing a design with her daughter's colored pencils.

To sum it up: she's letting go of the past, moving forward, and taking concrete action. 2⃣️What challenges did Joy encounter? How to overcome it? Production, sales, gender discrimination, malicious increases in production costs and patent issues, and the resulting near-failures.

Every time she encounters difficulties, she allows her emotions to be vented and relieved, rather than blindly suppressing them. We seem to have lost our emotional freedom as adults, but we should accept all our emotions, and suppressing them will only make things worse. As long as we remember our emotions, we move on.

There is no trick to continuing to move forward. All you need to do is to fully understand and prepare well, and then personally put on armor to meet the enemy. 3⃣️What happens when Joy is successful? This reminds me of Mayan Rebaudio Tonic Question 13: How can I expand my joy and love? In terms of family, she did what her grandmother said, becoming the head of the family, taking care of and caring for every member of the family.

In her career, she started helping more people make their careers successful. Because of her own experience, she also knows how to help others better. ?Some touching lines: Everyone initially dreams of what the future will look like, and Joey's dream starts with this garage run by her dad. Some people love to build things, they are patient, they can concentrate, and they solve problems with their hands . Joy is the type of person who likes to build things. Then I started building my own house, where I would live, and then create a lot of beautiful things for the world to see and own. Or to princes and princesses who live in castles beyond the forest, who love each other. They might invite me to be a guest because of what I've built. You need a handsome prince. That's all you need, a prince. No, I don't need a prince. This is super power. I don't need a prince. I always felt like I should encourage her, so I said: you'll grow into a strong, smart girl, you'll go to school, meet a good man, have a bunch of beautiful kids, and create beautiful things like those in your room . How does this girl's dream end? Listen darling, I know life isn't like we've said so many times, and yours isn't just beginning, but you've got a long way to go, hope springs eternal Why 17 years? Why is there something to hide for 17 years? We gather here today to remember what we lost 17 years ago. Do you remember? what's wrong with us? The dreams we used to think are getting farther and farther away from us You can't be intimidated by reality, you have to keep chasing what you love Maybe your dreams are just a pause for 17 years, think about it, we've been hiding 17 year. 17 years ago we used to build things, and then we all stopped, what's wrong? When you hide, you are safe because people can't see you. But the problem with hiding is that you're running away from yourself

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  • Cordie 2022-04-21 09:02:00

    Nothing special, the last shot is pretty cool

  • Keven 2022-03-20 09:01:42

    Officially a David O. Russell black, from the Silver Linings Playbook to American Hustle to Joy, the director knows too well how to get audiences irritated. After watching this film for less than 10 minutes, I had the urge to close the video. The neuroticism has risen to the level of a god-like neurosis. No wonder even the narrator wants to leave the world and escape this film as soon as possible.

Joy quotes

  • Mimi: [narrating] She'd put up with just about anything... until when she had to bring the hammer down - she brought the hammer down.

  • Neil Walker: Here we are.

    Joy: Here we are. Adversaries in commerce.

    Neil Walker: Adversaries in commerce. And friends.

    Joy: Yes, and friends.

    Neil Walker: I'm gonna tell you somethin', but you didn't hear it from me.

    Joy: I don't know *who* you are or *what* you're talkin' about.

    Neil Walker: That's what I wanted to hear.