I still love you even if you're not perfect

Hailee 2022-03-21 09:02:09

Although it is a TV series adapted by Shuangwen (a bit like "Pride and Prejudice"), the color of the picture is very exaggerated, but the portrayal of various female characters and their love and marriage, and the author's own complaints, I think it is still worth watching.

The TV series is adapted from "the Duke and I". There is a series about the story of the bridgerton family. The author is a Harvard art history graduate.

Ah, actually, I really like the heroine's jewelry matching from beginning to end. It's really delicate and delicate. The frontal facial features of the heroine are very similar to Hepburn's.

Finally, sympathize with that prince, who is really super kind and gentleman. Unfortunately, the heroine sent a good person card "good man good heart"

(I like that prince very much! But I also like the male protagonist's body very much)

Finally, I will post a confession of the heroine to the hero in the last episode of Bridgerton. Here is a brief introduction to the background, that is, because the male protagonist is not perfect and unworthy of inheriting the title in the eyes of his father, he has always longed for his father's love, and finally made a poisonous oath to his father before his death, saying that he would not have any children to inherit the title (male protagonist) The father is more concerned about having a perfect heir than just a son) So when the heroine wanted a child very much, the hero firmly refused to have a child because he felt that he could not violate that oath, and the heroine wanted a child very much At the same time, he also told the male protagonist that he should not deny his right to happiness because he wants to take revenge on someone. But the male protagonist was obviously unmoved, so in the last episode, with the help of the rainy female protagonist, he said his heartfelt words to the male protagonist:

Just because something isn't perfect doesn't mean it's not worthy of love. But your father made you believe that you are not worthy of love, he made you believe that you have to be perfect in order to be loved, but he was wrong.

Do you need more evidence? Just look now. I've pretended enough, I can't keep pretending that I don't love you because I love you, I love all of you, even the parts you think are too dark and shameful. Every scar, every flaw, every imperfection, I love you.

You may think you are ruined, your heart is broken, and you are not allowing yourself to be happy. But you can have different options, Simon. You can choose to love me as I love you. This should not be decided by others, this cannot be decided by anyone, it can only be decided by you.

Just because something is not perfect does not make it any less worthy of love. Your father made you believe otherwise. He made you believe that you needed to be without fault in order to be loved, but he was wrong.

Should you need any proof of the matter, then look just here. I am tired of pretending. And I cannot continue acting as if I do not love you. Because I do. I love all of you. Even the parts that you believe are too dark and too shameful. Every scar, every flaw, every imperfection. I love you.

You may think you are too damaged and too broken to ever allow yourself to be happy, but you can choose differently, Simon. You can choose to love me as much as I love you. That should not be up to anyone else. That cannot be up to anyone else. It can only be up to you.

I was moved by this sentence because I was actually a bit similar to the experience of the male protagonist when he was a child, that is, everything was required to be perfect. This habit has been continued to this day, and the pot friends have explained that the rising constellation is Virgo. Later, my parents read Wu Zhihong's official account and said that I was too harsh on others, probably because they were too harsh on me since I was a child. In previous relationships, I would also keep asking why the other party liked me, or, in other words, I felt that my faults were not worthy of being loved, so in the relationship I was trying to please the other party. I never realized that I was worthy of being loved even if I wasn't perfect.

You can choose differently. My colleague also told me that maybe at that time, I was stubbornly digging in and seeing no other way (not only in love, but also at work)

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  • Curtis 2022-03-26 09:01:07

    This man has been sharked 10,000 times by me? woman? stop trying to save everyone. WOMAN!!!

  • Ivy 2022-04-22 07:01:32

    Hahaha that's it, I won't watch the second season.