Respect and love from a distance make long-distance relationships enduring

Kaya 2022-03-21 09:02:25

"Going the distance" has actually been on my movie list for a long time and I don't know if it's because the version is different or some other reason. I searched here for a long time before I found out that it has another name called long distance love

Because I have all kinds of things to do every day, I always fail to sit still and watch a lot of movies. Today, I occasionally turn to it, so I feel that it can't lie down any more, and I started this immersive journey.

Why is it immersed because I am also in a different place

oh not exotic

To be honest, it may be because I am an artist. The visual effects of the film are very attractive at the beginning. I can feel that the production team has also carefully thought about the elements and color schemes of each frame. The title also reveals the location and atmosphere of the story. The echoes are very interesting. It should be like an urban romantic comedy. Well, this movie makes me want to watch it even more.

The scene at the beginning is the reverse scene of modern straight men's love teaching, but seriously, if it wasn't for the girl in front who hoped for a surprise and the male protagonist Garrett didn't prepare anything, then Garret might not meet that straightforward, fun, sincere and sincere person. Erin is on the list

Frustrated and brokenhearted, I met Erin at the Garrett bar, won a quiz night at the bar, and spent a romantic and funny night under the eavesdropping of my roommate Dan. ) Unconventional and funny elements are added. I like this kind of romantic and relaxed plot

There is a very interesting echoing clue in this movie. The youngest sister of Erin's family went from the funny and annoying 'transformation sculpture' in the beginning of the video to the end of the little girl who went downstairs and everyone called to stop. After watching the movie I wouldn't have thought of this before, but it also buried the thread for the final funny element. It's really funny.

After a brief encounter, the plot took a turn for the worse, as Erin's family and Garrett's friends said, the people around me are also hard-hearted and earnest.

They always tell me:

'Don't talk about long-distance relationships, it's tough. '

'What's the matter with you. '

'Picture what? He can't fly over to give you a hug when you're sad. '

'What if he has several girlfriends at the same time? Hey, I see how you laugh at the end. '

'The world is unpredictable. '

'I've seen him a lot. If you can see him next time without conflict, I'll leave it here. If you can, I'll do whatever you want in the future. ' (This brother, I remember you, you have to talk, hahahaha)

'My girlfriend and I broke up like this before, advice. '

I know how many ways to persuade and how much helplessness I have accumulated, it's not that I don't know

But hey, the subject of long-distance love may be because of empathy, so I will carefully savor the taste of it after the reunion of the two at the end of the movie.

What's more interesting is the scene where my roommate and colleague cheated. I almost thought the male lead had let me down. But as soon as the door was opened, the camera turned another scene. Anger and inability to ride a roller coaster of emotions should be reflected in the hearts of almost every long-distance lover. What I understand is that suspicion and fear are not the qualities that a good relationship should have.

What I feel most deeply is seeing the male lead let go and let the female lead go to a job she likes instead of giving up this hard-won opportunity in San Francisco to give up her dream for love and insist on going to New York to work. If he insists on letting the female lead go to New York, I will I think this relationship will eventually fall apart and even part ways. Imagine if the heroine really went to New York, although she could give up her hard-earned dream job for the hero. After she wiped the last table full of food scraps, she looked at the bustling When feasting, will there be a moment when hating the male protagonist has suspended or deprived her of the rights that were at her fingertips?

It may be that the charm of the seventh art makes me 'by analogy' hahaha, this plot always reminds me of the sentence Tang Nannan said in the movie "Pride and Prejudice": I can't be the second Jianghai.

I can truly respect each other's dreams. Understanding tolerance is not easy. It's hard to be unselfish, but unselfish love must be. I hope you can be happy because of what you're fighting for, not that I want you to give up too much of your own. Pleasure and Dreams Stop what's at hand to accommodate all I have Just to make myself happy Long distance relationships are the hardest

The choice is difficult but painful and the right choice will make the relationship last forever

The firm and long waiting, the happiness that firmly chooses the other party, is a moment that can only be released after the test of time.

Today is February 4, 2021. After this immersive journey, I also want to share it with him who is also exotic

I sent a message over:

Hey Honey! I've just watched a movie in the morning today, called -Loin Des Yeux- (I think?) really wanna share it with you

You could watch it...or maybe we could watch it again together next time when we see each other?

After a while, the phone vibrated lightly

He sent a sentence:

Loin des yeux près du cœur. (far from the eyes, next to the heart.?)

I also really want to reply to him: Waiting for you, I am worth it.

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Going the Distance quotes

  • Corinne: Hey Garrett. I like your haircut.

    Garrett: Thanks. Did a little something different.

    Corinne: And your dick's in your pants. That's good.

  • Garrett: Can I ask you a question?

    Erin: Yeah.

    Garrett: I don't know what your situation is... I miss you.

    Erin: That's not a question.

    Garrett: Yeah, it is.