In fact, I just think that everyone, in this city, and everyone living on this earth, will have their own little, unknown, occasionally flickering so-called inferiority complex in their hearts, no matter how successful or how successful they are. Optimism, how enviable. (God, how dark my mind is!)
Maybe it's just my own imagination, because after all, I haven't seen many people at all, and I can't even talk about real contact with society, let alone everyone on the earth. . However, in my world, based on my poor life experience and the so-called laws summarized from bubble idol dramas, I stubbornly believe in this.
To borrow Li An's words, everyone has an ugly duckling in their hearts; to use Zhang Xiaoxian's words, we are all ugly ducklings.
Before becoming a white swan, or during the long process of becoming a white swan, or even after becoming the so-called white swan in his mind, there will always be a shadow of an ugly duckling lurking in his heart. The shadow lingered.
Therefore, for "Ugly Betty", what I see more is not Betty's kindness, strength, intelligence, and tolerance, not the beauty of birds in the feathers, the beauty of people in the soul, not what this idol drama tries to convey as long as it doesn't Give up easily, ugly girls always have a day to turn over and so on. Because of this kind of inspirational film, I have watched too many, and every time I watch it, my blood boils. himself, encouraged himself with Betty's fearless spirit, and then waited for the handsome, rich and kind Prince Charming to rescue him. But the fact is, the prince still likes the princess, I still want to give up when I encounter difficulties, I don't bother to take care of people who don't like my eyes, and I blame others for a little failure. This incentive is too time-limited for me to work.
Although I don't deny that I still occasionally get bloody messed up when I watch youth inspirational films, but for "Ugly Betty", what I see more is the faint little weakness, little inferiority, and Little helpless.
From Betty who looks ugly, to Daniel who looks handsome, to Hilda who looks beautiful, to Wilhelmina who looks successful, to Marc who doesn't seem to care... Everyone has their own question. Embarrassed to talk about it or unable to resolve it at all.
Like in the first episode, when Daniel apologized to Betty and begged her to go back and help, Betty said, I appreciate you saying that, but you're going to keep going back to your mansion, and I'm going to keep dealing with you here and you'll never understand the problem. What is your problem? Which restaurant to eat? Or sleeping with which model? And I have to sit by the phone every day, haggling with the nasty medical organization to cover my dad's medical bills; line up for a job, any job, because next month's rent is due. You don't understand my problem at all.
Daniel told her that not long ago, I lost my brother. In the eyes of my family, he is better than me in everything, and I can't compare to him at all. But I want to try to do it right now. Betty, I can never compare my troubles to yours, but they are my troubles. It's not easy for everyone (Nothing is ever easy.).
I don't know why, but I feel relieved when I see this (maybe out of some kind of hatred for the rich?). So, I can understand Daniel's strong sense of inferiority towards his brother, and also understand Hilda's jealousy towards his younger sister who doesn't look like her in any way, and Wilhelmina who always looks like a strong woman. The frustration of the daughter's powerlessness, and the annoying Marc's unspeakable painful knot for her mother. Everyone is annotating Nothing is ever easy with their own lives.
I know a lot of people, including myself, who occasionally think: Having said that, I'd rather have the troubles of the rich than the little happiness of the poor.
I also know that you have always believed in people who are really smart and can be healthy, happy and happy. That is, happiness and wealth, and success, are not contradictory.
But for me, for me, who is a little pessimistic by nature, there are always many things in life that are out of my control. In my own heart, there has always been an ugly duckling. I am always envious of others and their ability to live unrestrainedly and freely, but I always seem to be entangled in the little problems in life like this.
It's just that I, who always seem to blame others so easily, still have my own Ah Q spirit. On a vicious note, or as Ugly Betty taught me, the world really doesn't seem to be easy for anyone. Ordinary like me, there are also girls like Betty (this is the so-called "hate people have, laugh at people without" villain thinking). In a way, I'm probably a little bit luckier than her. For example, she is thinner than her, such as without braces, such as a slightly higher aesthetic level than her clothes, such as not having to work so hard to support the family. She can survive in the heinous fashion world as tenacious as Xiaoqiang. What can I complain about under slightly better conditions than her?
And everyone has problems of one kind or another. It's just that some people solve it by evasion, such as Daniel; some people solve it by confrontation, such as Hilda; some people solve it by deliberate management, such as Wilhelmina, and some people don't want to solve it at all, such as many people. Everyone has an unexpected "ugly duckling" under their bright appearance. In comparison, Betty, the ugliest duckling, has the most white swan solution. That is, bite the bullet, or rather, face all these problems bravely, and then find a way to solve it. Although I am an ugly duckling, it does not prevent me from yearning for a white swan. Even if there is little hope.
Well, after so much chatter, it's time to take a break, take a break. I know, in fact, you are no longer the ugly duckling. However, I think, perhaps most people still have the beautiful yearning for that ugly duckling to become a white swan in their hearts.
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