When I watched the Kramers, I got a lot of paper wet. This is the first movie after the new year that made me feel tired, and the movies that made me tired are not bad.
The movie "A Lang's Story" has obvious imitation traces, all of which are saying that the father and son are deeply in love. From the beginning to the end, I have always believed that family love is the most sincere feeling of human beings. No matter how venomous a tiger is, it won't eat its cubs; a wolf that is too thin to crawl will still droop a milk bag, and he will give the child a mouthful when he is dying. A sparrow accidentally fell to the ground, and the mother sparrow risked being run over by a car to "burial" for the child. It is no exaggeration to say that the only unrequited love in the world exists only in family affection. However, family love is not necessarily appropriate. For example, children who are addicted to games and sent to "slamming" by their parents are not the focus of this article. Leisure articles.
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all know, without sex, there will be no children. Children emerge from their armpits and pick them up from the dung heap. In the face of education and openness, these white lies are self-defeating, and sex, ideally, is twinned with love. Sex without love can only be described as "intercourse" at best. With love, one can "create love" like the word Yang Jiang likes to use. How accurate and imaginative is this word, love comes from creation, a series of preliminary preparations, all of which need to be created more or less, from flirting, to coffee gathering, kitchen love, to holding hands on the road, meeting Appreciating the sunset, until the night of the battle, these long processes have gone through a winding road and reached a small climax. The purpose of this small climax is to "create love" and enjoy the climax in the "midfield". The reason why the quotation marks are added to the "midfield" is because making love is just creation, it does not count as the end of love, but is undoubtedly an effective way to enhance love.
So it is also undeniable that sex is also desire, and there is nothing wrong with desire—desire is artificially vulgarized and imprisoned, which is very sad, and I don’t want to repeat it—otherwise, from the perspective of evolution, human beings would have long since become extinct, but if someone still There will be some illusions about 100% pure sex, then, it can only exist in the result of "making love", a seed rushes from side to side, and finally defeats tens of thousands of compatriots - also opponents - to reach the plump Soil, strong seeds, fertile land, and a sprouting baby are the purest rewards. Desire, a neutral word, is ultimately transformed or redeemed by the birth of a baby. Someone asked what is the most beautiful thing a woman sees in the world, and the answer is her first child. Also, in my opinion, the best way to consider whether a relationship is genuine or not is whether the other person is willing to work with you to create "the most beautiful thing in the world". From a male standpoint, when a man hears a woman say to him, "I want to give you a baby", it is easier to move him seven feet than a thousand words "I love you like a mouse loves rice". tears.
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The movie puts aside the long foreplay above, and focuses on describing the couple who have their own relationship with their children after going through romance, cold war, and marriage change, and finally tore their faces in order to compete for the custody of the children, stabbed with a knife Everyone's scars, in the end, there is always a compromise, it is impossible to restore the old good, like "The Eternal Sunshine of a Beautiful Life", to abandon the old hatred and reunite, what is needed is not only courage, but also generosity and patience. And no one can guarantee that similar incidents of broken mirrors will not be repeated in the future. Therefore, many mirrors that seem to be able to be reunited are abandoned on the ground and left to shatter. Each piece reflects different past events, some of which are sad , There are those who are depressed, those who are happy, and those who are happy, just let it lie there, Jackie Chan said emotionally, "It's good."
Parents' love for their children has never been sincere. The originally pure and sincere family affection was forced to show its cruel side in the battle for children's belonging, with the help of the law-abiding and indifferent laws. We used to believe that the world is beautiful because no one pointed us to the "behind the moon". Later, we believed that the world was ugly because we got lost in the ugliness, opened our eyes, borrowed a pair of smart eyes, and gave With black eyes, but forgot to find the light. Until the end, back to the beginning, the mountains are mountains, and the water is water.
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A prodigal son will restrain his rambunctious behavior because of love, but he will tighten his rambunctiousness because of a child.
Kramer, a workaholic, finally realized his dereliction of duty as a husband and father, and it was never too late, never too late, it was nonsense, but Kramer made up for it. A person who beats eggs will beat the egg shells into the cup, and kang pancakes can turn the pancakes into coke, eventually becoming a skilled housewife. With the company of my son, happiness is engraved on my face.
In "Gone with the Wind", Rhett announced the end of his love with Scarlett after his daughter died on a horse. The role of a child—please forgive me for using such utilitarian words—is not only that he is a disconnected thread, not only that he is a witness to the past, but also that when his parents complete the conception and complete the harvest, he already has its own world. This world is weak and strong, narrow and fragile, and broad and hard. This, I think, is also the most beautiful and charming thing about love—yes, not family.
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