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lover = ideal self
Hailee 2022-03-25 09:01:08
It is undeniable that some of us are living patients, and our body and mind are divided, so it is naturally difficult to have a complete self. The psychological healing of the film is very useful for reference, but it is simple but straight to the deepest part of the heart. The various cooperation of the small town people in the film is probably Rationalized, that is a rationalized community, no matter how different you are or how different you are from others, there are still such a group of people who never give up on you and accept you until they awaken you as a true self. The sense of existence, the acceptance of the people around, the deep sense of non-existence that is afraid of being abandoned and not accepted slowly melts away, restoring a somewhat true and complete self. Lover = ideal self, but we think it is a kind of love, but in fact it is the repressed and unknown self buried in the heart. When it is difficult to express your true self feelings in real life, you will pin this self on your lover It is euphemistically called the realization of ideals. When the actual self is highly inconsistent with the ideal self, infatuation occurs.
Extended Reading
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Lars Lindstrom: I was hoping winter was over.
Margo: No, it's just a thaw - winter isn't over till Easter.
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Margo: What are you doing Friday night?
Lars Lindstrom: I have a school board meeting. Bianca got elected, so...