The family background of the film Lara, this setting is very special and very innovative. But the director of the film is still trying to explore the nature of human beings, the current situation of the family and its profound meaning to everyone.
Nick is the breadwinner of the family. As a doctor, she earns a lot of money and can provide the whole family with a decent life. Invisibly, she has some control over every member of the family. The people in control have also become accustomed to her strength, but the crisis and contradiction will not disappear because of this, but will become more and more clear as time accumulates and friction intensifies.
It is true that everyone in the family needs to be respected, understood, accepted and appreciated, but it is very helpless that sometimes we tend to ignore the spiritual needs of those around us, and we cannot even take care of ourselves well. When situations arise and disagreements arise, our unsolicited words often deeply hurt our family members, and we will be trapped in negative emotions for a long time and cannot extricate ourselves. As children grow older, they need more freedom, constantly broaden their horizons, and try all kinds of new things and possibilities. Partners need their own independent workplace. Rather than realizing self-worth, it is better to understand that they should first become an economically independent person.
With the appearance of the sperm donor, the balance of the family was easily broken, and the relationship between the family members also underwent subtle and unpredictable changes. Paul first filled the family's long-standing father's vacancy and won the goodwill of a pair of children. and trust. In turn, Jules' thirst for love and affirmation was strongly satisfied at the low tide of the crisis. Nick discovered the changes in her family. She was a little unbelievable and had mixed feelings until one day she was shocked that she had become an outsider to the family, and the conflict broke out and escalated.
After calming down and reviewing the analysis, they all understood that Paul's appearance only made the family's long-standing problems more noticeable and more obvious. Although there are unavoidable estrangements and generation gaps, each member has the deepest affection and dependence on this family. At the same time, it has to be admitted that no matter how much we try to overcome, the trivial and mundane life will dilute the beauty and happiness that we have created together in the past. Yes, no one is perfect. They have both the ability to support their families and the ability to provide for their families. They also have the ability to be considerate and tolerant and to have the ability to reflect on themselves. The outbreak of contradictions, the expressions of anger, and the pain of the Cold War left everyone thinking about themselves and the meaning of this family. When we feel hurt, the pain is not one-sided. We should not just vent our grievances and grievances. The person who hurt everyone is actually very vulnerable and apologetic. The hurt is definitely not her original intention. , although I feel guilty. Whether the past mistakes can be forgiven depends on whether the family is still willing to accept you after knowing all the truth. The ending of the film is idealized, the mother and daughter reconcile, and the partners also reconcile. The unknown tomorrow is illuminated by the sun. So beautiful and bright, keep going.
I think that Jules's heartfelt words touched everyone. Nick's mixed feelings were enough to show that she didn't care about the hurt her past actions brought to her family. Of course, she wouldn't go her own way and let her own standards become the norm for everyone's behavior. She will gradually reduce the frequency and amount of drinking, avoid malicious and rude words as much as possible, try to listen and understand, and let go of herself to better integrate into the family. Jules should have the deepest insight after thinking about the pain. She didn't regret and blame herself too much. She accepted the momentary confusion and indulgence of herself. From now on, even if you are lost and lonely, you can't forget your identity. This family has been painstakingly managed for nearly 20 years. She is still willing to take on the responsibility of this family, and she knows exactly what her heart wants. As for the workplace and self-identity, she will also strive to balance by expanding her inner self instead of habitually seeking externally (this aspect is not mentioned in the film, but I am willing to imagine it).
The two adolescent children have also realized some of the difficulties of home because of this serious family crisis. One cannot just take and enjoy without giving anything. When arguing with your family, restrain your sharp and hostile emotions, and the person who yells at you actually needs understanding and companionship. Accepting that two mothers with great personalities also have flaws and shortcomings, and are also trying to grow up to be better. At the same time, realize that they have sacrificed a lot to raise themselves. They are getting old, and when you are young, you should not ignore their joys and sorrows and only think about whether you are cool enough and High enough.
Perhaps there is no unconditional love in this world, and we don't have to deliberately pursue such a state. A harmonious and happy family's understanding and devotion to love should be tacit understanding and balance based on mutual consensus. In other words, love is a responsibility, a power, and the greatest power to create beauty and happiness. And the family should not just be an existence that comes and goes on the go. It can't be kept away because it no longer meets all my needs, and it can't be abandoned because it is sometimes helpless and sometimes hurt.
Happy ending, but Paul still returns to his previous state. A kind sperm donor, if he has enough awareness and reflection, he will not fail to gain something from this unexpected encounter.
The actress Mia, who plays her daughter, has a fresh temperament and interprets an adolescent girl with a unique personality. She has an independent spirit and always maintains goodwill towards life and the people around her. Softness is also a strength. A very promising actor. The two heavyweight protagonists are very cool. Although the years are ruthless, there will always be traces, but that is also the mark of experience and wisdom.
The kids are fine because this home just keeps getting better and better!
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