First of all, the teacher's personal opinion on the little boy's idea of love:
possibility, possibility. Action may fail, but without action there is no possibility. This is the psychological basis of idealism. And idealism, isn't it always being laughed at as childish? To be stupid~
In fact, what impressed me the most about this film was the following sentence that the little boy said in an interview:
"when they give up, everybody kind of loses".(When he gives up, everyone is a failure /The injured-both loses~)
Think about your personal experience and the experiences of others you have seen. How many people (just like the teacher) deceive themselves for the sake of face, vanity and other external nothingness, making their words and deeds inconsistent, making their hearts painful but still afraid to go Change is just a bit of change~, each of us makes mistakes, everyone has their own experiences, there is no right or wrong experience, and the values we have always adhered to in our hearts, the values based on our own experience that does not matter right or wrong are not right or wrong. with wrong? ! That teacher, because of his father's failure to change, developed his own beliefs about the brutal effect of alcoholism on a child's family. We don't discuss one case, and we don't discuss the many changes he has not been able to experience. Step back 10,000 steps and say that even if the concept he came up with is the correct truth, it is only because he has experienced a little more than the mother, and everyone cannot experience a perfect life and experience, so everyone will make mistakes, so when Others make mistakes (note again: the mistakes here may need to be slightly differentiated, that is, the little boy’s father and mother have both made mistakes and both drink alcohol, but the father is still violent, and the mother always loves the child~ I think the difference between this type of mistakes is not drinking alcohol or not, but identifying with a certain experience, the 'mistakes' made when you are still inexperienced, even if the other person hurts your heart, even if you think it's your own It seems to be an unforgivable mistake, but the key is that he really understood something from this experience~ We must bravely give each other the opportunity to experience and make mistakes, not only for our own children, but also for everyone, children The same goes for parents, because none of us can experience perfection! - the source of your choice decision is to connect with your heart, not how the other person hurts you etc.! This is the point I most want to surface!!! Classroom Love Mother, so I gave him a chance to have the possibility of win-win and happiness for each other [possibility], no matter what the outcome is, at least I did it, worthy of my true love for him at the beginning!!!), please give each other An opportunity to change, don't let each other become the wounded of remorse!
So, let us help the three people around us from now on, and work together to change the world and change ourselves!
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