In fact, the film does not mention too many difficulties of being a deaf and dumb person. The author of the book mentions that when people know that they are deaf, people always appear frightened or confused, or look at them with curiosity, and ask all kinds of sympathetic questions. And this is precisely what hurts them the most.
At the beginning of the movie, there is a long picture without lines, only the noise of various actions in the picture, and it is not until I finish reading the book that I understand the meaning of this paragraph. Deaf parents have no idea how loud their movements are, and day in and day out, only "I" have to put up with these loud noises. I like a sentence
in the book: "No family is "normal". Only after I left the family did I realize that my parents' abnormality was the most reasonable reason."
Parents must love their children. After listening to a lot of strange stories over the years, I really found out that parents do not necessarily love their children. They have encountered parents who cheated and beat their children when they were okay. Another friend's family prefers sons to daughters, so she sent her daughter outside when she was a teenager. The daughter finally found a good home, but her parents refused to let her marry unless the husband's family increased the dowry. Fortunately, the man is really affectionate and righteous, and he is really rich, otherwise the marriage will be ruined in minutes. Daughter will not have a lifetime of happiness. There is also a friend whose father remarried, and left her to her grandmother, and often forgot to give her living expenses. Seeing so many wonderful parents, I really feel that meeting good parents is really a blessing and should be cherished.
Just like the deaf-mute parents in the book, it's not what they want if they can't hear it. This is because of their ability. It's not because they don't want to be nice to their daughters subjectively. They should really be considerate.
There are not a few children who don't understand Nian'en. In social news, there are too many things such as poor family conditions and children resenting and abusing their parents. The more embarrassed the more unbearable. The world is like that.
So after reading this book, I really feel very warm. Resentment and fatigue are most likely to arise in the accumulated life, but this disabled family is so positive and full of positive energy.
In the movie, a deaf mother once said to her daughter, "After you were born, when they told me that you had hearing, do you know how broken I was?" At that time, she could not understand her feelings, and there is also such a passage in the book, saying this It was the father who said he would rather have a deaf child. If I were a deaf person, his communication with me would be much easier, he could help me with my studies and help me with my career problems. He can pass on, can help me plan, can support me. He can say, "I'm here, I know." And he can share it with me. In the face of a normal child, he can't do anything. "He can't help me with my homework, he can't help me with my relationship with others, and he can't give me guidance. In sixth grade, he went to school. In terms of what I have learned here, I already know ten times as much as him. I don't need him anymore."
This feeling of wanting to do but not being able to do it and being powerless is so sad.
In fact, our parents are also the same. I have also complained about the things my parents did not do well, but thinking about it now, they were born in a different environment and grew up in a different background than ours. Everyone will have their own perception. How can we ask our parents to be omnipotent? The most important thing is that they are always the ones who love us the most and who are always thinking of us.
Perhaps at this age, we should think more about what we can do for our parents. Like Veronica did, her parents' biggest regret was not being able to hear music, and she did her best to make them feel.
The daughter in the film finally sings "Dear parents, I will leave you, not to run away, but to fly." Running towards her own future. But in reality, in the book, the daughter is even more rare in keeping her dream and her parents. My mother used to say, "I, deaf, have a great pain not to know what music is. It's a pity." And I translated French songs into mute. Using gestures, face and body to express the emotion in the song, let your parents "hear" the music. Even in the end, sign language theater performance became her lifelong career. Connect parents to the world. This is a tougher mission.
"My parents are deaf. I'm not. From the day I was born, I was destined to accept the silence they brought; sometimes, I also want to tell them about my little troubles. Hope they can give me advice , give me direction. I also want to call my mother and tell her: I am broken-hearted, mother, make me a delicious meal as comfort. But these can't be done. Until this silence finally becomes A habit that has become an old friend of mine. This silence is my home."
Born in a deaf-mute family, she took root and blossomed alone in a silent world. With the support and care of family members, learn how to love and how to stand upright. How difficult it is.
This movie is very powerful, and it is the overall champion of the box office in France in the first season of 2015, surpassing the box office of the Hollywood blockbuster "Kingsman" by 3.6 times. It has won a number of nominations such as the French Caesar Award for Best Picture, and is also regarded as the most popular French comedy after "Untouchable".
The book is also very powerful. It is a thin little book, but it has achieved the record of being reprinted three times in the first month of its listing. In France, every 2 minutes, someone brings Home Silence from a bookstore. It is said that when the book was not finished, the publisher decided to sign the book after reading only one paragraph.
Books and movies are so popular, it is precisely because of such a precious family relationship, as the comment said, "Don't show off your pain, move you with the love of life and the family relationship between you, you are always touched by inadvertent details. Move, laugh or cry."
In fact, every family has its own troubles, and "Silence" makes us realize that many times, it is we ourselves who take the estrangement with our parents too terrifying. Just like being a deaf parent, you can never hear your daughter sing. But even if our parents don't fully understand us, they are always the ones who love us the most.
As mentioned in the book, although parents can't say "I love you" in words, "but they often touch me. Eyes and gestures replace words. Smile. Light rub on cheek. Wrinkle when upset. .Kiss, caress, all to say: I love you."
No matter how much disappointment grows up, family is always the warmest companion.
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